Friends that dont have kids!!

babe2ooo · Mar 10th, 2010, 15:41 PM

OMG

I'm finding it so hard with friends at the moment, i dont really have any mum friends. but all my non mum friends are just pissing me off, i alway have to do things the time they want to or they try and make me find a babysitter while i go out with them......why dont they get that im a package deal now it me and my baby not just me any more..... know one really wants to spend anytime with me now i have child....

anyone else feel like this sometime??

Lillipop · Mar 10th, 2010, 15:48 PM

My friends binned me off completely when I had my eldest

So I kind of know how you feel! I always used to have to make an effort with meeting up with them so I just got to the stage where I thought Sod it!!! Couldn't be asked.
I don't speak or see any of them apart from on FB once in a blue moon !

x

x-amy-x · Mar 10th, 2010, 15:50 PM

Same over here. Im just trying to make new friends, just not sure where the right places to look are!!

babe2ooo · Mar 10th, 2010, 15:56 PM

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Originally Posted by x-amy-x

Same over here. Im just trying to make new friends, just not sure where the right places to look are!!

yeah i find it hard doing that, i go 2 mother and baby groups some times but i think people think im a young mum so they dont bother with me, im only 22

x-amy-x · Mar 10th, 2010, 16:06 PM

Im same. I'm 21 and everyone else is older. TBH its not just their fault, they all have their own friends they go with anyway. They doesnt seem to be much for younger mums...not sure id fit in with the older mums anyway x

Lillipop · Mar 10th, 2010, 16:22 PM

Well my main problem is I have very low self esteem and am a very shy person, which makes it difficult for me to make new friends, along with not knowing where to go in my area!! I'm ok if someone approaches and starts talking to me but I hate walking into places on my own and starting conversations

Iv got a couple of mummy friends but one of them is under the thumb since getting with her new fella and I don't see her for dust these days

The others I only really see up the school!
x

babe2ooo · Mar 10th, 2010, 16:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Lillipop

Well my main problem is I have very low self esteem and am a very shy person, which makes it difficult for me to make new friends, along with not knowing where to go in my area!! I'm ok if someone approaches and starts talking to me but I hate walking into places on my own and starting conversations

Iv got a couple of mummy friends but one of them is under the thumb since getting with her new fella and I don't see her for dust these days

The others I only really see up the school!
x

yeah i know what you mean, if someone talks to me im fine but i cant walk up 2 other people and just start talking , wish i could...

babe2ooo · Mar 10th, 2010, 16:27 PM

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Originally Posted by x-amy-x

Im same. I'm 21 and everyone else is older. TBH its not just their fault, they all have their own friends they go with anyway. They doesnt seem to be much for younger mums...not sure id fit in with the older mums anyway x

yeah everyone is older where i go, they all have there friend and i feel like i odd one out, jack has fun so thats all that matter, i jack want a mummy friend i have hang round with..

x-amy-x · Mar 10th, 2010, 16:34 PM

I met my best friend on here though! You'll be surprised what you might find on BnB :-) Since she moved away though i've been pretty lonely. I can't really talk to people easily either, i never really know how to get things going. I mean I talk to people at playgroup, but nothing so much so anyone wants to see my outside of playgroup! xx

babe2ooo · Mar 10th, 2010, 16:39 PM

yeah same i say hello to people and people say things to me about jack, but i dont think anyone would be like hey you wanna meet up and have a play date with the kids. just feel kind of lonely where i live and jack loves people with kids his age

Mar 10th, 2010, 15:41 PM	#1
babe2ooo Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Gloucester Posts: 5,627	Friends that dont have kids!! OMG I'm finding it so hard with friends at the moment, i dont really have any mum friends. but all my non mum friends are just pissing me off, i alway have to do things the time they want to or they try and make me find a babysitter while i go out with them......why dont they get that im a package deal now it me and my baby not just me any more..... know one really wants to spend anytime with me now i have child.... anyone else feel like this sometime??

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Mar 10th, 2010, 15:48 PM	#2
Lillipop Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Northamptonshire Posts: 2,712	My friends binned me off completely when I had my eldest So I kind of know how you feel! I always used to have to make an effort with meeting up with them so I just got to the stage where I thought Sod it!!! Couldn't be asked. I don't speak or see any of them apart from on FB once in a blue moon ! x

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Mar 10th, 2010, 15:50 PM	#3
x-amy-x Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Teesside, UK Posts: 13,812	Same over here. Im just trying to make new friends, just not sure where the right places to look are!!

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Mar 10th, 2010, 16:06 PM	#5
x-amy-x Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Teesside, UK Posts: 13,812	Im same. I'm 21 and everyone else is older. TBH its not just their fault, they all have their own friends they go with anyway. They doesnt seem to be much for younger mums...not sure id fit in with the older mums anyway x

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Mar 10th, 2010, 16:22 PM	#6
Lillipop Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Northamptonshire Posts: 2,712	Well my main problem is I have very low self esteem and am a very shy person, which makes it difficult for me to make new friends, along with not knowing where to go in my area!! I'm ok if someone approaches and starts talking to me but I hate walking into places on my own and starting conversations Iv got a couple of mummy friends but one of them is under the thumb since getting with her new fella and I don't see her for dust these days The others I only really see up the school! x

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Mar 10th, 2010, 16:34 PM	#9
x-amy-x Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Teesside, UK Posts: 13,812	I met my best friend on here though! You'll be surprised what you might find on BnB :-) Since she moved away though i've been pretty lonely. I can't really talk to people easily either, i never really know how to get things going. I mean I talk to people at playgroup, but nothing so much so anyone wants to see my outside of playgroup! xx

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Mar 10th, 2010, 16:39 PM	#10
babe2ooo Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Gloucester Posts: 5,627	yeah same i say hello to people and people say things to me about jack, but i dont think anyone would be like hey you wanna meet up and have a play date with the kids. just feel kind of lonely where i live and jack loves people with kids his age

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