Leaving my boy at the nursery

mylittlebubs · Nov 4th, 2009, 23:57 PM

MOney is tight and I got to get out and work, so we decided to put Lincoln in the nursery next week

and I also will stop B'feeding I guess

If we have a choice i wouldn't do it

mylittlebubs · Nov 5th, 2009, 08:02 AM

i will miss him so much coz we 've been together all day every day since he was born

dali · Nov 5th, 2009, 09:44 AM

hun it must be hard, it would be hard on me too

but im sure you will both be fine , have you decided on a nursery that you are happy with ?
you should be able to go with him the first time , and then gradually build up how long he is there for with out you.
hope it goes ok for you

mylittlebubs · Nov 5th, 2009, 22:17 PM

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Originally Posted by dali

hun it must be hard, it would be hard on me too

but im sure you will both be fine , have you decided on a nursery that you are happy with ?
you should be able to go with him the first time , and then gradually build up how long he is there for with out you.
hope it goes ok for you

yes, we already decided where to put him. it's gonna be the same place where his little girl friend is, not too expensive and not too cheap iykwim. we took him there another day for an hour and he seemed fine and i went there before all the kids look happy. well,,will see what happened next week

isil · Nov 6th, 2009, 01:38 AM

it's hard leaving them, but toddlers get a lot out of nursery in my opinion. Ally loves going. Hope it all goes ok with working...leaving him will be way more traumatic for you than it will be for him!

**Vickie** · Nov 6th, 2009, 09:25 AM

That would be very hard

Aidan's Mummy · Nov 7th, 2009, 16:05 PM

Hey hun can you express. Nurserys that I have worked at if the mother wishes to breastfeed then we would happily give the baby her expressed milk
xx

lozzy21 · Nov 7th, 2009, 17:28 PM

You could still feed on a morning and on a night.

Dont worry if he crys when you leave him. In 99% of children as soon as parents are out of eye shot they stop crying, I think they try and give mam and dad a guilt trip.

Dinoslass · Nov 7th, 2009, 18:20 PM

Oooh, that is so hard.

mylittlebubs · Nov 7th, 2009, 23:46 PM

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Originally Posted by lozzy21

You could still feed on a morning and on a night.

Dont worry if he crys when you leave him. In 99% of children as soon as parents are out of eye shot they stop crying, I think they try and give mam and dad a guilt trip.

they always do that don't they?

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mylittlebubs Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Phuket,Thailand Posts: 2,473	Leaving my boy at the nursery MOney is tight and I got to get out and work, so we decided to put Lincoln in the nursery next week and I also will stop B'feeding I guess If we have a choice i wouldn't do it

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dali Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: east sussex Posts: 1,575	hun it must be hard, it would be hard on me too but im sure you will both be fine , have you decided on a nursery that you are happy with ? you should be able to go with him the first time , and then gradually build up how long he is there for with out you. hope it goes ok for you

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isil Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 8,136	it's hard leaving them, but toddlers get a lot out of nursery in my opinion. Ally loves going. Hope it all goes ok with working...leaving him will be way more traumatic for you than it will be for him!

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Vickie Mum (Mom) Administrator Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Toronto, ON Posts: 75,666	That would be very hard

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Aidan's Mummy Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Hull Posts: 11,001	Hey hun can you express. Nurserys that I have worked at if the mother wishes to breastfeed then we would happily give the baby her expressed milk xx

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lozzy21 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Teesside, Posts: 19,415	You could still feed on a morning and on a night. Dont worry if he crys when you leave him. In 99% of children as soon as parents are out of eye shot they stop crying, I think they try and give mam and dad a guilt trip.

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Dinoslass Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 789	Oooh, that is so hard.

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