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Nov 5th, 2009, 04:57 AM
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|  Leaving my boy at the nursery
MOney is tight and I got to get out and work, so we decided to put Lincoln in the nursery next week  and I also will stop B'feeding I guess 
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Nov 5th, 2009, 13:02 PM
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| i will miss him so much coz we 've been together all day every day since he was born | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 5th, 2009, 14:44 PM
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| hun it must be hard, it would be hard on me too
but im sure you will both be fine , have you decided on a nursery that you are happy with ?
you should be able to go with him the first time , and then gradually build up how long he is there for with out you.
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Nov 6th, 2009, 03:17 AM
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Originally Posted by dali  hun it must be hard, it would be hard on me too
but im sure you will both be fine , have you decided on a nursery that you are happy with ?
you should be able to go with him the first time , and then gradually build up how long he is there for with out you.
hope it goes ok for you | yes, we already decided where to put him. it's gonna be the same place where his little girl friend is, not too expensive and not too cheap iykwim. we took him there another day for an hour and he seemed fine and i went there before all the kids look happy. well,,will see what happened next week | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 6th, 2009, 06:38 AM
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| it's hard leaving them, but toddlers get a lot out of nursery in my opinion. Ally loves going. Hope it all goes ok with working...leaving him will be way more traumatic for you than it will be for him! | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 6th, 2009, 14:25 PM
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|  That would be very hard | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 7th, 2009, 21:05 PM
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| Hey hun can you express. Nurserys that I have worked at if the mother wishes to breastfeed then we would happily give the baby her expressed milk
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Nov 7th, 2009, 22:28 PM
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| You could still feed on a morning and on a night.
Dont worry if he crys when you leave him. In 99% of children as soon as parents are out of eye shot they stop crying, I think they try and give mam and dad a guilt trip. | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 7th, 2009, 23:20 PM
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| Oooh, that is so hard. | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 8th, 2009, 04:46 AM
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Originally Posted by lozzy21 You could still feed on a morning and on a night.
Dont worry if he crys when you leave him. In 99% of children as soon as parents are out of eye shot they stop crying, I think they try and give mam and dad a guilt trip. | they always do that don't they? | | | | Status: Offline
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