Becoming super needy to my OH

ChesMik4eva · Jan 18th, 2012, 23:45 PM

This is going to make me sound like a complete crazy stalker but I really want to know if anyone else ever felt this in pregnancy.

Everytime my OH and I leave each other, for work or whatever, I get separation anxiety. I feel sick in the stomach and nervous and scared. I think about him constantly and wish I could just be with him. I haven't acted too crazy and let on that I feel this way but I'm worried I will soon.

It doesn't make sense to me, I wasn't like this before I was totally fine with us doing things alone. Now I'm just counting the minutes til I get to see him again and when we are together I don't leave his side. He's so nice and good, he really gets me when I'm sad and emotional and is good at calming me down so maybe I'm worrying about something else and so I just want to be around him to make me feel better?

Please don't make fun of me! Haha

Miss_Quirky · Jan 19th, 2012, 00:20 AM

Definitely normal hunny

there was a point where if my OH didn't respond to my calls/texts within 30 second intervals I'd begin crying and screaming at him.
I still do get sad and anxious when he leaves, since your emotions are so heightened this is normal.

The day I turned 14 weeks it got a LOT better though.

goodluck

ChesMik4eva · Jan 19th, 2012, 00:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Miss_Quirky

Definitely normal hunny

there was a point where if my OH didn't respond to my calls/texts within 30 second intervals I'd begin crying and screaming at him.
I still do get sad and anxious when he leaves, since your emotions are so heightened this is normal.

The day I turned 14 weeks it got a LOT better though.

goodluck

Aw thanks

I hope it gets better as it progresses. Currently the only things I feel are extremely tired and extremely emotional. Nothing in between! Haha.

X

Miss_Quirky · Jan 19th, 2012, 01:20 AM

Of course!

It should get better once you get into your second trimester, I know exactly what you mean. I was always asleep or crying over something small my entire first trimester!

KiwiMOM · Jan 19th, 2012, 04:11 AM

I'm in third now and I get upset when my OH wants to spend the night at his friends house (we live together).. He's actually really angry at me for it and I WANT to be ok with it but I'm just not ok when he goes out, I get all teary and can't sleep

We've agreed that he has to stay in every night starting shortly because I'd be so upset if I went into labour and couldn't get a hold of him.. so I have to deal.

in other words, perfectly normal. Yay for hormones!

megrenade · Jan 19th, 2012, 04:15 AM

I know what you mean.. I want my boyfriend all the time.. I only see him for a few days at a time once every 2 weeks or so, so when I'm there I'm always reaching out for him to hug or cuddle me.. haha.

JJandPix · Jan 19th, 2012, 10:24 AM

I'm the same with my other half. He just joined a drama group and has made loads of new friends and each time he leaves I go crazy. It seems to have happened suddenly with the girls he's with. If he talks to them I get upset. i sound like a complete nutter and he can't really see where i'm coming from. x

EllaAndLyla · Jan 19th, 2012, 10:50 AM

Hiya. I'm a lurker from teen parenting

Just want to let you know that this was 100% me whilst pregnant and my OH got so annoyed with me and it would cause arguements all the time. But after having my little girl it died down a lot and now it has practically gone. I think it is normal whilst pregnant, hormones are crazy etc, I wouldn't worry too much because it is most likely because you are pregnant. But for most it does go away in the end, just remember your hormones are crazy right now and they still will be for a while after having your LO. x

lil_mama_415 · Jan 19th, 2012, 12:27 PM

i am that way i have to picture him next to me while i sleep or i cant sleep and i hate him living so far from me

Jan 18th, 2012, 23:45 PM	#1
ChesMik4eva Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Darwin, Australia Posts: 265	Becoming super needy to my OH This is going to make me sound like a complete crazy stalker but I really want to know if anyone else ever felt this in pregnancy. Everytime my OH and I leave each other, for work or whatever, I get separation anxiety. I feel sick in the stomach and nervous and scared. I think about him constantly and wish I could just be with him. I haven't acted too crazy and let on that I feel this way but I'm worried I will soon. It doesn't make sense to me, I wasn't like this before I was totally fine with us doing things alone. Now I'm just counting the minutes til I get to see him again and when we are together I don't leave his side. He's so nice and good, he really gets me when I'm sad and emotional and is good at calming me down so maybe I'm worrying about something else and so I just want to be around him to make me feel better? Please don't make fun of me! Haha

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Jan 19th, 2012, 00:20 AM	#2
Miss_Quirky Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: California Posts: 326	Definitely normal hunny there was a point where if my OH didn't respond to my calls/texts within 30 second intervals I'd begin crying and screaming at him. I still do get sad and anxious when he leaves, since your emotions are so heightened this is normal. The day I turned 14 weeks it got a LOT better though. goodluck

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Jan 19th, 2012, 01:20 AM	#4
Miss_Quirky Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: California Posts: 326	Of course! It should get better once you get into your second trimester, I know exactly what you mean. I was always asleep or crying over something small my entire first trimester!

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Jan 19th, 2012, 04:11 AM	#5
KiwiMOM Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: New Zealand Posts: 1,140	I'm in third now and I get upset when my OH wants to spend the night at his friends house (we live together).. He's actually really angry at me for it and I WANT to be ok with it but I'm just not ok when he goes out, I get all teary and can't sleep We've agreed that he has to stay in every night starting shortly because I'd be so upset if I went into labour and couldn't get a hold of him.. so I have to deal. in other words, perfectly normal. Yay for hormones!

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Jan 19th, 2012, 04:15 AM	#6
megrenade Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Oregon, USA Posts: 2,555	I know what you mean.. I want my boyfriend all the time.. I only see him for a few days at a time once every 2 weeks or so, so when I'm there I'm always reaching out for him to hug or cuddle me.. haha.

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Jan 19th, 2012, 10:24 AM	#7
JJandPix Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Buckinghamshire, England Posts: 29	I'm the same with my other half. He just joined a drama group and has made loads of new friends and each time he leaves I go crazy. It seems to have happened suddenly with the girls he's with. If he talks to them I get upset. i sound like a complete nutter and he can't really see where i'm coming from. x

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Jan 19th, 2012, 10:50 AM	#8
EllaAndLyla Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: London Posts: 3,936	Hiya. I'm a lurker from teen parenting Just want to let you know that this was 100% me whilst pregnant and my OH got so annoyed with me and it would cause arguements all the time. But after having my little girl it died down a lot and now it has practically gone. I think it is normal whilst pregnant, hormones are crazy etc, I wouldn't worry too much because it is most likely because you are pregnant. But for most it does go away in the end, just remember your hormones are crazy right now and they still will be for a while after having your LO. x

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Jan 19th, 2012, 12:27 PM	#9
lil_mama_415 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: milton KY Posts: 723	i am that way i have to picture him next to me while i sleep or i cant sleep and i hate him living so far from me

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