Single moms?

LilMama2be · Oct 12th, 2008, 23:08 PM

Is your baby's dad involved in your baby's life?
or is he going to be?

My boyfriend and I recently broke up, and I have no idea if he'll be involved.
If he's not, I wont be angry or upset, maybe the baby's life is better off with people who care about it?

Novbaby08 · Oct 13th, 2008, 02:27 AM

Well my guy left me when I was 5 weeks, hasn't talked to me, or anything, I'm 32 weeks now and still nothing. I really don't mind that he won't be there. I don't even plan on putting him on the birth certificate and already decided our daughter would have my last name.

LongRoadAhead · Oct 13th, 2008, 02:31 AM

Me and my boyfriend of two years, split up when I found out I was pregnant due to the amount of arguements and stress. But for the last 2/3 weeks, we have been talking and trying to sort something out and try again, After all he is my babys dad. So I'm hoping he'll be there for me and our baby.

Not neccesairly, (sp?) a baby isnt always better off with two parents there. It depends on your circumstances and things, But just because your not together doesnt mean he shouldnt be a dad.
X

nikky0907 · Oct 13th, 2008, 05:40 AM

A single mommy too here!

You have a section Single parents on the forum where you can lash out and rant whatever you need

Younglutonmum · Oct 13th, 2008, 05:50 AM

Yeh the single parent bit is great

Full of hate

utopia · Oct 13th, 2008, 11:00 AM

My friend is a single mum and her ex-boyfriend is just a fortnightly weekend dad. It's good that the dad is still a part of their daughter's life but as long as the child feels loved they should be ok.

graceS · Oct 18th, 2008, 10:06 AM

im going to be a single mum, i have no clue if the father will have anything to do with the baby. i hope he does for the childs sake.

LilMama2be · Oct 18th, 2008, 14:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Novbaby08

Well my guy left me when I was 5 weeks, hasn't talked to me, or anything, I'm 32 weeks now and still nothing. I really don't mind that he won't be there. I don't even plan on putting him on the birth certificate and already decided our daughter would have my last name.

i was planning on doing the same, with the birth certificate.
But, when my ex gets out of his rehab place (he's already clean he's just trying to stay clean and have a place to stay because his parents died so he has no place to go anymore.)
He might want to be involved, i'm not sure. I'll probably put unknown and if he wants to be a part of his/her life then he can, but it'll be up to him to initiate it.

Novbaby08 · Oct 18th, 2008, 17:04 PM

I refuse to put my ex down, when a baby is brought into a situation its no longer about you, he can't expect the baby to stay in till he is ready, if he's too messed up to be there, your better off without him. if he comes around, don't run out and put him down, make him prove himself, some guys will come around one minute and not be apart the next

graceS · Oct 19th, 2008, 08:39 AM

im going to be a single mum.
my b.f finished because as he says he was not happy and he told me to get rid ov it.
he just says no give him few months to see if he wants anything to do with baby.
boys are pigs!!!!!

Oct 12th, 2008, 23:08 PM	#1
LilMama2be Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Oregon Posts: 647	Single moms? Is your baby's dad involved in your baby's life? or is he going to be? My boyfriend and I recently broke up, and I have no idea if he'll be involved. If he's not, I wont be angry or upset, maybe the baby's life is better off with people who care about it?

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Oct 13th, 2008, 02:27 AM	#2
Novbaby08 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Utah Posts: 2,393	Well my guy left me when I was 5 weeks, hasn't talked to me, or anything, I'm 32 weeks now and still nothing. I really don't mind that he won't be there. I don't even plan on putting him on the birth certificate and already decided our daughter would have my last name.

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Oct 13th, 2008, 02:31 AM	#3
LongRoadAhead Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Devon,England Posts: 974	Me and my boyfriend of two years, split up when I found out I was pregnant due to the amount of arguements and stress. But for the last 2/3 weeks, we have been talking and trying to sort something out and try again, After all he is my babys dad. So I'm hoping he'll be there for me and our baby. Not neccesairly, (sp?) a baby isnt always better off with two parents there. It depends on your circumstances and things, But just because your not together doesnt mean he shouldnt be a dad. X

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Oct 13th, 2008, 05:40 AM	#4
nikky0907 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: New England, USA Posts: 11,326	A single mommy too here! You have a section Single parents on the forum where you can lash out and rant whatever you need

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Oct 13th, 2008, 05:50 AM	#5
Younglutonmum Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Luton Posts: 3,157	Yeh the single parent bit is great Full of hate

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Oct 13th, 2008, 11:00 AM	#6
utopia Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 13	My friend is a single mum and her ex-boyfriend is just a fortnightly weekend dad. It's good that the dad is still a part of their daughter's life but as long as the child feels loved they should be ok.

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Oct 18th, 2008, 10:06 AM	#7
graceS Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: lincolnshire Posts: 37	im going to be a single mum, i have no clue if the father will have anything to do with the baby. i hope he does for the childs sake.

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Oct 18th, 2008, 17:04 PM	#9
Novbaby08 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Utah Posts: 2,393	I refuse to put my ex down, when a baby is brought into a situation its no longer about you, he can't expect the baby to stay in till he is ready, if he's too messed up to be there, your better off without him. if he comes around, don't run out and put him down, make him prove himself, some guys will come around one minute and not be apart the next

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Oct 19th, 2008, 08:39 AM	#10
graceS Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: lincolnshire Posts: 37	im going to be a single mum. my b.f finished because as he says he was not happy and he told me to get rid ov it. he just says no give him few months to see if he wants anything to do with baby. boys are pigs!!!!!

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