Too Much Drama! - Page 2

nikky0907 · Oct 9th, 2008, 15:18 PM

He is very immature! He cannot be in his child's life and simply not deal with it's mother.Thats not gonna happen,so he better treat you with some respect...

As for just decding this and that,it's not just his call.You can't allow him to be changing his mind,popping in and out of your life and causing you stress.
So he's either in or out.

I also don't understand why he doesn't want to be on the birth certificate but still wants to be a part of the babys life

If he isn't on the BC he has no parental rights whatsoever.

Maybe just simply don't contact him for a while and see if he contacts you when he calms down...wait for him to initiate a conversation between you guys.A mature conversation between two future parents,not two kids on the playground...

lfc_sarah · Oct 9th, 2008, 17:16 PM

Jemma_x · Oct 10th, 2008, 06:17 AM

awww hun, it sounds like you've been through so much lately. All i can really say is dont let it get to you and stress you out as much as it is because its not good for you and baby, if your ex wants something to do with the baby then if its ok with you then let him but you dont have to take his money if you dont want to. Really hope everything works out ok.

trishk · Oct 10th, 2008, 10:07 AM

oh hun, I know this is a really hard time for you! If I was you what i would do is try and forget about him and concentrate on you and the babys health. If he sees you are not pushing it on him it might make him grow up. Then after the baby is born you can try and sort things out. (At least then you will be able to do DNA tests etc.) Dont let him bully you and put you down. It took 2 to make this baby!! Keep out of his way where possible - you dont need the stress, all of this can be sorted out later. YOu and the baby are what matters. If you ever need to talk Im here!!!

mz_jackie86 · Oct 10th, 2008, 15:10 PM

Well i deleted his number and any other way to contact him, i told ma family and they r all ok which is good!
So not goin to worry about him now i cant be bothered lol!!

Thanks for the support guys xxx

Oct 9th, 2008, 15:18 PM	#11
nikky0907 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: New England, USA Posts: 11,326	He is very immature! He cannot be in his child's life and simply not deal with it's mother.Thats not gonna happen,so he better treat you with some respect... As for just decding this and that,it's not just his call.You can't allow him to be changing his mind,popping in and out of your life and causing you stress. So he's either in or out. I also don't understand why he doesn't want to be on the birth certificate but still wants to be a part of the babys life If he isn't on the BC he has no parental rights whatsoever. Maybe just simply don't contact him for a while and see if he contacts you when he calms down...wait for him to initiate a conversation between you guys.A mature conversation between two future parents,not two kids on the playground...

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Oct 9th, 2008, 17:16 PM	#12
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Oct 10th, 2008, 06:17 AM	#13
Jemma_x Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Yorkshire Posts: 13,384	awww hun, it sounds like you've been through so much lately. All i can really say is dont let it get to you and stress you out as much as it is because its not good for you and baby, if your ex wants something to do with the baby then if its ok with you then let him but you dont have to take his money if you dont want to. Really hope everything works out ok.

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Oct 10th, 2008, 10:07 AM	#14
trishk Dad Inactive Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Ireland Posts: 401	oh hun, I know this is a really hard time for you! If I was you what i would do is try and forget about him and concentrate on you and the babys health. If he sees you are not pushing it on him it might make him grow up. Then after the baby is born you can try and sort things out. (At least then you will be able to do DNA tests etc.) Dont let him bully you and put you down. It took 2 to make this baby!! Keep out of his way where possible - you dont need the stress, all of this can be sorted out later. YOu and the baby are what matters. If you ever need to talk Im here!!!

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Oct 10th, 2008, 15:10 PM	#15
mz_jackie86 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: london Posts: 1,606	Well i deleted his number and any other way to contact him, i told ma family and they r all ok which is good! So not goin to worry about him now i cant be bothered lol!! Thanks for the support guys xxx

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