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Old Jul 11th, 2008, 01:08 AM   #1
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As you've read from the name i think i might be pregnant, i feel bloated, sick and have had spotted bleeding which iv read could be implantation bleeding. Im on the pill and my bf also withdrew before he came propley which leaves me to the conclucion i could just be ill, iv been extremely depressed due to a family fall out and possible pregnancy and i havnt eaten anything in 3 days apart from 1 apple but iv drank plenty of water.

The reason why im scared that it could be pregnancy is because i feel im not mature enough and physically strong enough to handle the emotions as iv said iv been extremly depressed to point were i dont want to eat anymore, nows the worst time in the world for me to be pregnant, iv always said iv never wanted to have kids and all my friends, family are against teen pregnancy, im 18 and im jst getting my life back on track by going back to college but if i find out im pregnant its going to ruin everything! my bf doesnt want any children, i'll have to drop out of college again and my parents will dissown me.

im so scared im not ready for children! im going to take a test on monday im just scared what i'll do to myself if i find out i am pregnant! iv tried to eat but im just to depressed! sorry if iv rambled on but i just needed to talk to someone thanks for reading!

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Old Jul 11th, 2008, 03:40 AM   #2
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Best wishes honey! I hope you get the answer you are looking for.

Chances are though that you sound stressed and that could be the cause of feeling ill and a late period.
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Old Jul 11th, 2008, 03:46 AM   #3
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aww hope everything goes as planned for u
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Old Jul 11th, 2008, 03:49 AM   #4
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I agree with Leanne, I think it's that you're stressed.
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I really doubt that you're pregnant. You said you take the pill and your boyfriend pulled out as well, so chances are you're not pregnant. Spotting is also a common side effect of taking the pill.

Try to just calm down and not stress about this. Also, try your best to eat. I know that it's hard to do while depressed, but you need to force yourself to eat. Not eating will only make things worse. Try and relax, do something that will allow you do so, such as taking a bubble bath.

Still take the test on Monday as it will help ease your mind, but until then, calm down.
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Old Jul 11th, 2008, 12:00 PM   #6
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Hi guys thanks,

iv got my period early, or iv just started bleeding again its only light but my period isnt due until next week? its never happended before whilst i was on the pill, which has made me more anxious and i know i shouldnt worry to much but now that this happened im even more worried!

could it be beceause i skipped my 7 day break and went straight onto a new pack? its the second time iv done this but the least time none of this happened and i got my period on the right time.

i'll try eat something today :s
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Stress (as well as not eating very well) can do all sorts of things to your cycle. Are you still in the middle of taking the second pack of pills after you skipped the 7 day break? x
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your period is probs late ue to stress hun like the rest of he gurls said. hope everything goes ok for you
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could it be beceause i skipped my 7 day break and went straight onto a new pack? its the second time iv done this but the least time none of this happened and i got my period on the right time.

i'll try eat something today :s
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Yes, that's probably exactly what it is and why your system got screwed up.

Now, I advise you not to mess with the pill and the scheduling of the beginning and end of taking them each month.

You left this little detail out in your first post.
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I used to get some random bleeding when I was on the pill. Sometimes your body gets used to it and you just need to change the pill that you're on. You're gp or family planning nurse should be able to give you some advice.
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