Hello, so basically I've just joined up.

To make a long story short, I'm 17, I have a 10 month old baby girl.

I broke up with my daughter's dad due to his immaturity and general selfish ways, he rarely see's her.

I met a wonderful man back in February and we've been sleepin' together since early March, always pullin' out, we are very much in love. It's forbiddon love with unatainable set-ups each side. Forbiddon? 21 years age gap. Lol!

I slept with someone on the 28th, he didn't "finish" shall we say? But it was unprotected and it was one of those drunken miss-haps. (Yeah! I know, not good. Won't be happenin' again. I have cried a lot since 'cos of the fact it was unfair on the man who I have so much affinity with.)

Anyway then I slept with "X" being the man who I very much love on the 4th, it was unprotected and he did withdraw but it was kinda a bit late.

As to where I am in my cycle? I came on the 16th of June for about 4-5 days, came off then went on the pill for 2 days, didn't like it so came off it and then had another period at the end of June, came on again on the 27th. (I did sleep with the first guy on my period - I should add), anyway I don't know whether I'm expectin' a period on the 20th, countin' from the first day of my first period in June or 28 days from the later period in June.

Oh good God, I'm confusin' meself now! Help?!

'Spose I'm askin' if I were to get pregnant how likely is it that it was the one night stand? When should I expect my period? And where can I find some spare sense? Lol!

Ro' x

(Sorry for the essay!)

wow thats sooo confusing lol .. if u are pregnant then from what u have said i would say that the dates are quite close to call either way. And as for ur period .. if u went on the pill (even for 2 days) then that can really upset ya cycle when i came of it i didnt have 1for 6months!! i'd count from both dates and if nothing happens on either then do a test and spare sense well i think we could all do with shopping around for some of that lol hope it all works out xx

I agree the dates are really close soits hard to say, I would say u should expect a period 28 days from the end of ur period...? However taking the pill (even for the 2 days) is bound to mess things up a bit,
If ur period doesnt come when u expect it to, it could be due to the pill messing ur cycle up and not necessarily cos ur pregnant. Obviously there is a chance though....Good luck xxx Keep u posted

I agree the dates are really close soits hard to say, I would say u should expect a period 28 days from the end of ur period...? However taking the pill (even for the 2 days) is bound to mess things up a bit,
If ur period doesnt come when u expect it to, it could be due to the pill messing ur cycle up and not necessarily cos ur pregnant. Obviously there is a chance though....Good luck xxx Keep us posted

Well,the pill can ness up your cycle because as soon as you come off it you will bleed.

So I would say count it from your first period but don't be surprised if it doesn't come...

The chanced of you getting pregnant by a one night stand are slim but still it's possible.It's also possible you got pregnant by the older guy.

Wait it out..thats the only thing you can do.

Plus I just want to add that the withdrawel methid is very unreliable,you should rely on it.Take some protection.There are really a variety out there if the pill isn't good for you...Good luck!