emziebabiie

Hi all,
im new here,seems like a nice place lol
Anyway i need a bit of advice :S
I found out 3days ago that i am pregnant and i am over the moon :-)
basically i didnt plan to get pregnant but its happened, me and my boyfriend are over the moon about it.
So anyway i had a talk with my mum last night and told her and she is not happy atall,she wont even speak 2 me :'-(
i dont know what to do...im thinking of going to stay with my boyfriend until she calms and and i know when she tells my dad he is going to go mad...im really stuck and dont know what to do
could anyone give me some advice??
Thank u soo much xx

miel

your parents may need a little time to get adjust to your big news...wishing you the best
you will find great support here darling

leeanne

First of all, you have to remember that each parent wants only the best for the children and they wish to see their children go off to college or university, form a career, get married and then have babies.

So it is quite a shock to a parent when their child comes home and tells them she is pregnant.

However, if your parents are loving and supportive parents, they will come around.

If my daughter came home at your age and told me she was pregnant, I would be shocked and disappointed, but in time, she is my flesh and blood and I would support her with whatever decision she makes.

So, just give them time to get used to the idea and hopefully they will come around for you!

Younglutonmum

Hey hunni!!

First & formost, congratulations & welcome

Seeing as you've posted in the Teen section i'm assuming your a teenager lol!! Obviously this probably isn't what your mum wanted for you but it's happened now & pregnancy is a true gift!

I'm sure in time your mum will come round. She probably just needs to get her head round it. After all, you are her little girl!! Maybe it is a good idea to stay at your boyfs for a few days. Let her have space & time to think. I bet it won't be long till she's calling you to get you back home so she can take good care of ya!!! My mum wasn't massively happy when she found out about my pregnancy but she got used to it & now she's one very excited Nanny to be!!

As for your dad......It's the same. Yeh he'll be shocked but give him time & he'll be fine. I thought my dad would go mad but actually he's been great. Very supportive!!



xxx

Abbys_Mummy

i agree give them some time i dread the day if it happens my daughter comes home and tells me she is going to be a teenage mum, But been one my self i`m going to just treat her the way i would have liked to have been treated.
Do you mind me asking how old you are

emziebabiie

yh ive just turned 18.I am currently finishing my college then i will be a fully qualified hairdresser and my bf is a carpenter so money isnt a problem and i can still do hair from home.
Im so excited but scared lol.
I am adopted and dont know my real parents and a few years ago my adoptive mum said if i get preg then she will chuck me out so thats whats making me so scared
im gunna go stay with my bf until things cool off (fingers x)
Thanks for ur advice i feel a bit better now :-D xx

Younglutonmum

No wonder you're so scared if you've been threatened with homelessness in the past!!

Just remember there's loads of help out there for young parents

Concentrate on enjoying your pregnancy hunni

emziebabiie

yeah i know,atleast ive got my bf and his family that will support me if my family dont.
xx

Younglutonmum

Very true

Like I said, im sure in time your family will get used to it & support you all the way!!

Trust me, my mum is sooo interfering now

Love it tho

xxx

leeanne

When I wasn't being an angel at home, my mom used to say "I can't wait until you're 18 so I don't have to care about you anymore."

Well, honey, it's all just words. I moved out at 19 and she bawled her eyes out.