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May 30th, 2008, 00:38 AM
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| Anyone In My Situation? Just Fancy A Chat With Someone..
Hi everyone, new to this forum. I'm a member on just about every other forum though! (:
Well, I'm basically looking for a chat with someone who is in my situation. I'm 16, mummy to one, trying for another. My baby boy is 4 months, we're wanting another baby boy but a girl will do us! We want all of our children very close together. Me & my Fiancee are aiming for 7 kid's, my other half already has one who is 11, shes my darling, Then theres our latest addition, which is 'our' second. I'm a stay at home mum, whilst my other half goes out to work 6 days a week 14 hour days. Just wondering if there was anyone else, who is like me, young and their OH is older (My OH is 30, 31 in Oct), who's got children. Basically, or anyone who just up for a chat.
I love my life, so anyone who wants to put me down for being a young mum, or having a hubby-2be whos 14 yrs older than me, please leave my thread. I have no respect for people who treat us like crap (: | | | | Status: Offline
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May 30th, 2008, 00:46 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | first of all congratulations on your lil baby! an welcome to BnB... good luck with TTC number 2.
I'm 16 an pregnant with my first baby, a little boy  . i'm not in the same situation as you but know were your comin from on the feelin like you will be put down for bein a teen mum but these girls are supportive so dont worry 
people will have very different opinions on here but they only say what they think nessasery, you may dislike what some may some but the girls on here are great to talk to an to get advice from.
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May 30th, 2008, 00:50 AM
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#3 | | MotherOf1, TTC #2! New BnB Member
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| Thank You! Good luck with your baby, apparantly boys are better than girls! My Charlie is great (: We're not far in the TTC #2 just yet, we're not trying as such but just not using any contraception and a case of if it happens it happens, I got a terrible feeling it'll take us atleast 6 months. Although we did want two under 1. Ive found on most forums so far, we've been looked down on, he's been called a paedophile, i've been called a whore.. ect.. and most people don't like the 'I'm 16, step-daughter is 11' situation! | | | | Status: Offline
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May 30th, 2008, 00:51 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Hey i have totally no experience in this ha ha!! Its my first and im 19 and prob only wanting two (cos i want to send them to school n cant afford more  otherwise i'd have more - bring on winning the lottery!!) Can i ask how the 11yr old treats you (this is not meant to be offensive) its just you're not far off in age and wondered if she see's you as a mother?? Also what your mum thinks?? Honnest i'm really not judging im just wondering.. Hope there is someone on here who is kinda alike.. Just didnt want to read ur thread and leave 
Good Luck ttc no.2 and welcome to B&B
Gawd i feel like ive attacked you there sorry if it seems that way!!
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May 30th, 2008, 00:52 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Ha ha awww you mentioned the age thing  now i feel bad (by age thing i meant your step daughter bit, just to clarify) |
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May 30th, 2008, 01:03 AM
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| Hey its fine! Chloe is okay with me, shes normal, steals my make up and hairstraightners ect... Her mother hates me! Obviously... Im 'Cooler' than her My mother disagreed with me & my OH at first, which was acceptable as I was 15 (6 Days after my birthday) when I met him, he was 28. We wern't sleeping with each other until April 2007 (We met in August 06) and within 3 weeks, I was pregnant, which made us closer & where we are now. But since we started to be with each other properly (Nov 2006) My mother hasn't spoken to me. I haven't seen her, she hasn't seen her grandson, I live with my Fiancee. My family showed me their true colours by all leaving me by myself. My other halfs family showed their true colours, by taking me in and respecting us and our decision.
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May 30th, 2008, 01:21 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Hmmm guess it would be fairly cool to be Chloe, having a baby bro and someone who you can steal clothes from. Ha ha!! I only know it from the other way around, my dad is going out with someone who is over 20yrs younger, but nobody seems to find it strange. Also no way would i be taking her clothes ha ha ha!! I get killed for getting make-up on her freaking towels  ha ha its all good really. Although my best friends dad is 51 and going out with someone 21 ahh!! So she they are almost the same age ha ha!!
I guess if youre a teenager you are always going to be judged no matter what you do. Just got to rise above it and see that people dont know or understand your situation and cannot pass judgement on you.  I dunnooooo...
Shame about your family, but you're not on your own if you have his famly maybe one day your mum will suck it up and give you a call, its always harder if you're in the wrong to forget your pride and do the right thing even if you want to. |
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May 30th, 2008, 04:52 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Hey, I'm 15 and pregnant with my first baby, my son Joseph. Welcome to BnB! I have to admit that hey I don't agree with everything in other people's lives but I'm not one to judge, especially as a single teenage mother. Pm me anytime if you need to chat. |
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Originally Posted by MooMoosMum2  Hi everyone, new to this forum. I'm a member on just about every other forum though! (:
Well, I'm basically looking for a chat with someone who is in my situation. I'm 16, mummy to one, trying for another. My baby boy is 4 months, we're wanting another baby boy but a girl will do us! We want all of our children very close together. Me & my Fiancee are aiming for 7 kid's, my other half already has one who is 11, shes my darling, Then theres our latest addition, which is 'our' second. I'm a stay at home mum, whilst my other half goes out to work 6 days a week 14 hour days. Just wondering if there was anyone else, who is like me, young and their OH is older (My OH is 30, 31 in Oct), who's got children. Basically, or anyone who just up for a chat.
I love my life, so anyone who wants to put me down for being a young mum, or having a hubby-2be whos 14 yrs older than me, please leave my thread. I have no respect for people who treat us like crap (: | Hey, i'm 15 and preggs, so if you want to chat here or on msn, lemme know and i'll give it to you somehow.
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May 30th, 2008, 11:03 AM
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Originally Posted by MooMoosMum2 Thank You! Good luck with your baby, apparantly boys are better than girls! My Charlie is great (: We're not far in the TTC #2 just yet, we're not trying as such but just not using any contraception and a case of if it happens it happens, I got a terrible feeling it'll take us atleast 6 months. Although we did want two under 1. Ive found on most forums so far, we've been looked down on, he's been called a paedophile, i've been called a whore.. ect.. and most people don't like the 'I'm 16, step-daughter is 11' situation! | Thanks + don't listen to what other people say, its what you an your fiance think + feel not everyone around you
My step-mum is 22 an my dad is 40 so i'm more in the same boat as your step-daughter lol.
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