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May 22nd, 2008, 23:33 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | feeling alone I know this is a wierd topic, but its just my fiancee lives a while away and i just feel like im going through this alone right now! i mean as much as hes excited when we are together, he doesnt seem excited while we are a way from one another and it sucks i mean i need him to want to talk you know even tho we arnt living close togehter i just want some of his attention on me and for him to be excited while im away! it just feels like hes always sidetrack on whats going on near him when im away i mean i told him i felt sick and hes just like cool, its just i dont feeling neglected when im not around if that makes any sense to you guys! sorry for my ranting just felt like i should let it out instead of keeping it bottled in! since i already confronted him and he just rubbed it off =( | | | | Status: Offline
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May 23rd, 2008, 00:32 AM
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| Unfortunately us guys are very good at cutting off our emotions and even better at pretending not to be phased. I know it is hard (and it's something that me and wobbles/OH went through too) but bear with him, he'll talk when he has it sorted in his own head. Pushing the issue can sometimes have the opposite effect.
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May 27th, 2008, 13:00 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Do guys ever get over that stage? I mean the most emotion i saw was when we had the u.s he started to cry (happy tears ofcorse!) | | | | Status: Offline
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May 27th, 2008, 13:07 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | When did you have your ultrasound done?? |
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May 27th, 2008, 15:20 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Thats a fair bit of emotion i think!! I dont live with my OH either he lives elsewhere during the week. I think its that its not happening to them, like nothing is growing in them so there is no constant reminder. But if he is happy and exited when he is with you then i think you should be fairly happy with that, some people dont even get that.  |
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May 27th, 2008, 15:35 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | its just sometimes i feel right alone i mean my mom isnt talking to me .. my fiancee is living else where and i have 3 more weeks of this drama  i mean i want my mom to appreciate that im having one of her grandchildren! and i want her to be included in my pregnancy you know! | | | | Status: Offline
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May 27th, 2008, 15:35 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Blob we are expecting around the same time  | | | | Status: Offline
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May 27th, 2008, 17:03 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Just thought id over a hug
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I know its not the same but try to think of positives... | | | | Status: Offline
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May 27th, 2008, 17:09 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | thanks! its just hard.. i dont even no how i feel with this whole situation u no! i mean so many different things are happening with the baby growin in me and all | | | | Status: Offline
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May 27th, 2008, 17:18 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Lads show their emotions in weird ways!! I live with my partner and sometimes i can feel as if i am going through it alone, although i know deep down that he cares deeply and is really excited! Some days he goes all day without even asking how I feel etc, and other days he is talking to my belly and not letting me do anything lol! I think it depends on how he feels as to how he shows his emotions lol!! |
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