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Old May 17th, 2008, 21:18 PM   #1
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My story.


Hi, I'm Verity, I am 17 years old and I have a story to tell.

Three years ago, I started going out with my best friend, James. We had been best friends before we went out, during and still are now. Anyway, when I was 15 (and don't look down on me for that), we decided to sleep with eachother. We were both ready, no pressure from either party was invloved, and I trusted him so much. You know how you feel when someone has their arms around you and everything seems ok, you feel safe...well I felt like that, like nothing could go wrong.

But, unfortunately the condom split.

3 weeks later I took a test.
I remember when I got the result, me and James were just sitting there on my bed, me in tears, him unable to speak, a few tears from his part too.

It was awful, but after a while we came round to the idea of it, and even got slightly excited. We were going to keep the baby, until I had a miscarrage.

This tore me and James apart, I couldn't bring myself to look at him because felt so guilty and as if it was all my fault. This basically forced us to split up, but we still managed to remain best friends, this has brought us far closer together and he knows all about me as I do him. He helped me through so much, and I really do love him. As a friend of course :P

Anyway, I just wanted to tell my story and hope anyone can relate to what happened to me

Thanks, Verity x
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Old May 17th, 2008, 21:21 PM   #2
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Hello.

I thought I would just reply even though I cannot relate to your life...but I just wanted to say you are both strong individuals and I am glad you are still close and god friends. You have both been through alot so its good you each have the others support.

Love and hugs,

Emma.xx
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Thankyou
yeah i guess we are strong, it's what happened to me that made me strong though I must admit
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Old May 18th, 2008, 04:31 AM   #4
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Thank you for sharing your story hon!
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Im sorry about your miscarriage

Good that your still friends though
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So sorry about your MC. Everything happens for a reason remember. You'll have a beautiful angel one day.
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Thankyou so much guys

Hope all your pregnancies are going to plan
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I suspected I had a miscarriage when I was about 13 or 14. I'm sorry for your loss. Just give it time, time heals all.
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