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Old May 17th, 2008, 00:14 AM   #1
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Hi everyone, my name's Maya. A few months ago I was pressured by my peers into having sex. I only did it ONE TIME in my whole life, and God punished me by making me pregnant. When the dad of thr boy I had sex with heard about it he was so furious that he packed up and left to who-knows-where, leaving me by myself. But dispite everything, I felt a deep love for this baby. I begged my mom to let me keep it (I live with just my mom, my dad died of lung cancer when I was an infant). Mom and I have always understood each other really well, and she agreed. So hear I am, 13 years old and six months pregnant. So far I'm mostly nervous. My mom can't give me much advice because she had me C-section. Any moms out there, please give me some advice about pregnancy, birth, and parenting. It would be really great. Thanks.
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Old May 17th, 2008, 00:45 AM   #2
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I have replied to your post in the intro section....but Wishing you all the best.
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Old May 17th, 2008, 08:46 AM   #3
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Honey,God hasn't punished you...don't think in that way.
Your 'friends' pressured you,you haven't used protection and this is the result...

It may see like a hopeless situation but you have your mom for support and you're not the first person to find herself in this situation.

Best of luck...
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Old May 17th, 2008, 09:16 AM   #4
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Your mum sounds like she will give you plenty of support!!

Good luck on the rest of your journey!!
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Old May 17th, 2008, 09:22 AM   #5
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It makes me mad that you think you're being punished. A baby is a great gift. Anyway, good luck and welcome to the site.
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Old May 17th, 2008, 10:37 AM   #6
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It's not a punishment for a start. This baby is going to change your life so think of it as a positive change, not negative. You're not by yourself, you have your mother to help you out. I'm sure it will be very hard for you to adjust but I'm sure you can do it Aslong as you love your baby and realise that the baby is going to come before your wants and needs then you'll get by just fine.

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Old May 17th, 2008, 10:50 AM   #7
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Ha ha i feel young and i'm 19, Good Luck! A baby is a total gift not a punishment!!
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Old May 17th, 2008, 12:56 PM   #8
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Good luck as the ladies above me said a baby is a gift and prob the best gift you'll ever receive...xxx
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a baby isn't a punishment sweetie

good luck I hope all goes well

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Every baby is a complete miracle!! no matter how overwhelmed you feel, in time you will be over the moon with your LO in your arms. Congratulations on your little miracle and I hope everything works out well for you! With your mother's support, you can do anything!
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