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May 14th, 2008, 20:26 PM
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May 14th, 2008, 21:03 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Good luck, hopefully they are nice people who will support you and your OH! When I was with my OH still, his parents were VERY supportive.. a little too much actually, it really freaked the shit out of me.. |
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May 14th, 2008, 22:09 PM
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Fingers crossed they will accept your decision and support you 100%   |
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May 14th, 2008, 22:11 PM
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May 14th, 2008, 23:24 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | you will be fine. Aslong as I have my OH I don't listen to what other people say usually :P |
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May 15th, 2008, 16:09 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Hi girls,
Oh it really was the meeting from HELL!! His parents were so scary!! His mum especially, she was not at all happy and she really didnt like me one bit!! 
They basiclly told me to get an abortion, and not in the nicest possible way either, i mean i understand their points of view but they could at least me a little bit nice about it right?!
They said they were 'to exausted' to be grandparents. WHAT?! How could anyone not want a little grandchild? That havnt even got any!
Anyway, i just told them i'd think on it overnight (yeah right) and tell them my descion in a couple days!!
If they dont want to be part of the babys life thats their problem not mine!!
Like you said 7WZ i have my OH with me, i have MY parents so what more do i need.
They can go stuff themselves. 
On a happier note: I met my midwife today for the first time!! Whooo. She was so lovely!! I just have to wait for my scan date to come through in the post!! Whoooo!! | | | | Status: Online
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May 15th, 2008, 16:10 PM
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Originally Posted by tone 
If they dont want to be part of the babys life thats their problem not mine!!
Like you said 7WZ i have my OH with me, i have MY parents so what more do i need.
They can go stuff themselves.
| That's exactly right! They can choose to be a part of the baby's life or choose not to be--it's their loss if they choose not to be.
Glad your appointment with your MW went well |
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May 15th, 2008, 16:34 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | They will regret it later in life...so dont worry about it hun. Its their loss not yours and glad your M/W appointment went well xxx |
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May 15th, 2008, 16:36 PM
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| i hope your OH was on your side! As long as you want and will love this baby thats all that matters they can bugger off! To be fair they will probably come round when they realise you are keeping it |
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May 15th, 2008, 17:20 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Ahh how mean, not sure i'd be too happy if i was told that. Is totally their loss if they dont, how can they not want to be granparents (my OH's mother doesnt think she's old enuf or that its happend in the right order but is happy, i think ha ha) Just hold your head up high and do what you want to do.
Every midwife i've met is dead nice, is totally nice to meet people who dont seem to judge you |
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