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Old May 10th, 2008, 11:41 AM   #11
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Hiya hun

Sorry to hear about your situation. Is your OH working?? Because if he is all i'd say is save save & save!

Your local council may run a tenancy deposit scheme where they lend you the deposit for a property & you pay them back interest free over a period of time. You also may be able to claim housing benefit which is a huuuge help. That can take a few weeks to be processed though so its a good idea to save up a few months rent to cover just incase. Is there anyone who could possibly lend you money to help you get by?

This is what I plan to do when my baby comes along because at the moment im sharing a one bedroom flat with my dad. Hardly ideal!!
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Old May 10th, 2008, 11:55 AM   #12
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hi hun,sorry about your situation.
i hope you get housedi have my fingers crossed for you

also just try and save as much money as possible!! good luck honey!
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Old May 10th, 2008, 15:09 PM   #13
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the council do not HAVE to give you a flat.
they can just put you in a bed sit.

Thats what has heppened to a friend of mine and they just have her in a bedsit atm and keep promising her a flat.

Her baby is 4 months old now and she is still waiting.

You just need to pester and pester and it will also help getting a letter from the person you are renting from at the time to tell them you will be made homeless after a certain amount of time.
But again that will probably only add a few more points and you will still be kept in the Bedsit.

Sorry to rain on your parade by not saying its all smooth sailing, but ive seen from the outside in someone struggle. and in an even worse situation then yourself.

British council just dont care as much anymore im afraid.
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Well why have i been offered two houses then! i haven't took them because of things goin on at home an i am stayin with me mum.
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Old May 10th, 2008, 16:32 PM   #14
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Well why have i been offered two houses then! i haven't took them because of things goin on at home an i am stayin with me mum.
you are clearly lucky then.

it doesnt work out for everyone so i was just giving my advice and warning her of the struggle she may have ahead.
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Old May 11th, 2008, 11:32 AM   #15
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Hi hun,
I am a housing resettlement officer in London, so thought I could offer you some advice. My job involves liasing with the homeless unit, and the allocations department to help homeless people find accommodation and set up their new tenancy.
Firstly you need to approach your homeless persons unit and ask for a homelessness assessment. DO NOT simply ask for housing forms as this will only allow your name to be added to the general housing list, and is not the route which you want to take. You need to tell them that you have nowhere to live, and are currently staying with various friends and relatives. It will help your case if you can get a letter from whoever you are staying with stating that they can only let you stay for a certain period of time, due to overcrowding/financial strain etc.
Initially you will probably be placed into temporary accommodation, which could be a bedsit, hostel, hotel etc, and is unlikely to be very nice accommodation. Evebtually you should be moved on to permanent accommodation.
I am not sure where you live, and housing rules vary across the country. In some areas, you may be awarded a priority, and may have to "bid" for properties which are advertised weekly. In other areas you may still have to collect a certain number of points, before you are offered a property. It is true that your baby will not be officially recognised as a person, who requires their own bedroom, until you are approximately 5-6 months through your pregnancy. After this point you should be eligible for a 2 bedroomed property, but may still be placed into a 1 bed/bedsit until you are housed into a permanent tenancy.
If you or your partner have any vulnerabilities, such as physical or mental health problems (including depression, anxiety, panic attacks etc), learning disabilities, drug or alcohol misuse issues (past or present), offending history, have been victim of violence or harassment (past or present), or similar, then it is important that you mention this in the homeless assessment as this has to be taken into account when working out your priority need. Also you can ask to be referred to a floating support service, such as a resettlement team, which most councils have internally, as they can help you to progress your case better.
The most important thing that you can do to help your rehousing is to be proactive and keep contacting the housing department. Even if you are placed into temporary accommodation, you need to maintain regular contact with them, and keep asking when permanent accommodation may be available to you. The more they hear from you, the more known you are to them, and the greater they believe your need to be. After all, if they hear nothing from somebody for a whole year, for example, then they would immediately think of them as being desperate to be rehoused.
Hope this helps a bit hun, good luck xxx
Thanks for your advise, will talk it over with boyfriend.
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when i was pregnant the council was about as usefull as a chocolate teapot one of the women said if u can avoid saying ur homeless then do so cause they will put u in a hostel then whatever comes available u have to take so could be a 1 bed flat up 8 flights of stairs luckily we found a house to rent abou 2 weeks b 4 i got induced
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Old May 12th, 2008, 08:03 AM   #17
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The guy we are renting a room from says that he doesnt mind us staying until the baby is one . Which is a relief as at least i know where im bringing the baby home to. Going to be keeping an eye out for affordable flats or small houses in the mean time.
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Old May 12th, 2008, 08:17 AM   #18
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Old May 12th, 2008, 12:45 PM   #19
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i can remember being in the exact same situation! so i can understand how scared you must be. i stayed with reletives untill my son was around 4months old. (i was only 16 then) then we became homeless. they council couldnt even offer me a bedsit as there was no room for 35miles around what so ever!! i was stood outside the council office with all the clothes of mine n my son i could carry, scared, crying and not knowing what to do. i got escorted off the premisis by security for breaching peace!!! B*****DS!

luckily, i found a privatley rented house that day with the help of a local lady. didnt have a clue who she was, she must have felt real sorry seeing us stood there . the house was a state but was somewere to live and the landlord was kind enough to take the deposit in instalments.

7years laters, ive not even once been offered a council house!!! and im still in a private rented house.
please dont rely on the council. try looking for a private rent house. if your not working, youl get help with the rent and i think they even give you money to decorate and furnish the house these days.

dont worry yourself too much,im sure things will turn out fine
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ooo didnt see the above post!

great news! glad things are working out now!
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