I would just tell him if I were you. It might be hard but if he loves you, then he'll stick by you no matter what.
My OH was so upset when I told him, and I felt so guilty that I said 'If you want to leave me, you can, but Im keeping this baby' and he laughed at me and said I was being stupid and he would stick by me because he loves me.
If your boyfriend doesn't do that, then IMO he isn't worth the worry. It might be a shock to him, but Im sure he will come round.
thank you for your replys
i have decided im going to tell him on monday.
i cannot tell you how scared i am
but im going to do the right thing and tell him now and not when im like 5months gone or something that just wouldnt be right.
im going to go to his house,sit him down and talk to him.
then im going to tell my mom and sister when i get home!(i dont have a dad as he passed away 3years ago. he would of been a great granddad!)
wish me luck girls!!!
xxx
good luck honey!!
hope everything goes well for you
you will deffinatly feel better when its all over with and you can consentrate on your and the babies well being
xxx
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i told them
when i told my bf he was just shocked and he seemed kind of upset/disappointed,but after a while he seemed to have accepted it and seemed pretty excited about being a daddy
and then i told my family,my mom was pretty upset too at first but after she had some time to let it sink in she was pretty happy for me(she asked me lots of questons like if i was going to quit college(i said no,i was just gonna take a break!)and stuff like that!)
and my little siter(shes 14)is really excited about haveing a little niece/nephew
so everything went pretty well and now im just soo happy i told them
my moms booked my first antenatal appointment for meso everythings good!
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