The thing is,quite interesting that I was talking via MSN with a girl I met on this forum.We found out we are both pregnant at the same time.She is 19,I'm 18.
And she had all these complications with it.She thought she miscarried but it turned out she didn't and she's be around 15 weeks now actually...But it could be a new pregnancy so she isn't sure and has to have a dating scan...
And last night she told me that she's gonna get an abortion probably.Circumstanes,she feels it's for the best...So thats her decision,I guess everyone has their own pros and cons and you just have to know and feel your decision...
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Hi girls, im new to babyandbump. I'm 17 and just recently found out im pregnant.
I knew there was no way i could tell my mum and straight away booked an abortion. But on saturday i really felt it was right to tell her and i did, she was angry as hell at first and then cried and said she'd support me whatever i decide to do.
And now i'm so confused on what to do!! There is part of me that really wants it, i could live next to my mum (we own a farmhouse with lets) and i could have the end let which is lovely and big. My boyfriends still with me and not going anywhere soon, he wanted it at first and now is really confused too.
Is there anyone else who is or was 17 and pregnant?! If you decided to keep the baby, why was that? and if u decided for an abortion, why was that?
Im just woried i wont be able to live my life and enjoy being young, thats all thats stopping me. I have till friday till my consultation so i really have to decide soon. I think im about 3 months gone already. Please help i really dont know what to do!!
Hiya Flower . im 17 and 12 weeks pregnant . i did exactly the same as you when i found out . but after my first appointment to arrange the abortion i changed my mind for deffo !
i know its going to be hard and my life will have to go on hold for a long time but i cant wait till ive had the baby and i know it will all be worth it ! im still with my boyfriend and i know even if things didnt work out with us he will always be there for his child . but at the end of the day its your decisition. and it will be the hardest of your life . do what you feel is the best option for you . but your going to have to think it through long and hard
good luck sweet xxxxxxx
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Hi girls,
Thank you all SO much for your lovely comments. I really dont know what i would have done without all the advice you've given me. Just seeing how so many of you were in my position at one point and decided on keeping the little one has shown me that i too can do it. I know now, after reading so many things on this forum and researching on the internet that i couldnt go through with an abortion. I know if i did i'd regret it for the rest of my life, but you can never regret bringing a child into the world.
I told my mum about my decison, and she said she will support me but she really isnt happy. She keeps telling me i'm too young and ruining my life. I just wish she was as happy as i was. My OH is telling his parents today and i'm terrified!! I think i must have spoken to his dad once, and his mum..never! They have never wanted (or tried) to get to know me and hes always here at my house, so im so worried about what they will say. It would be amazing if they were ok with it, because his family are quite (ahem) rich and would help so much finacially with the baby. I just hope everybody comes round to the idea and is eventually happy for me!! Im so excited!! Im going to be a mummy!!
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Congratulations on your pregnancy and good luck!! Both sets of parents will come round and be just as happy and excited as you will be. I've not been in your situation but have a couple of friends who fell pregnant at 18 and yes, their lives did change dramatically, but it didn't mean they've given up on their dreams.
Aaw congrats hun!! im sure when you hold that little bundle in your arms all the doubts you ever had will just fizzle away into the background!! good luck xxx
Good Luck, is so exiting. I had doubts to begin with, i still worry about it all sometimes but i really cant wait!! Both sets of parents will come around.
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I think i must have spoken to his dad once, and his mum..never! They have never wanted (or tried) to get to know me and hes always here at my house, so im so worried about what they will say. It would be amazing if they were ok with it, because his family are quite (ahem) rich and would help so much finacially with the baby. I just hope everybody comes round to the idea and is eventually happy for me!! Im so excited!! Im going to be a mummy!! 
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