nikky0907

I don't have a cuddle but I have a

Cheer up,only a little while before you meet the new man in your life...

Blob

Big just try not to think about the negative things and try and think about how nice its going to be to see and hold your baby and whats to come in your life. I dont have the problems tht you do with ur OH or dad, but i know that when i get down about stuff i just keep trying to think how amazing it will be to have my baby and teaching him or her things and having somebody that is going to give you unconditional love. Hope you feel bit happier soon hun

ella170

aw rachel, im so sorry tht u have to deal with these problems at this moment in time, u really dont deserve all this. its easy to just say, look after urself and the baby for now and try not to worry about adam or anyone else. but, i no its not tht easy, its hard to get over boys as it is, never mind when ur having their baby. he might not seem it now, but im sure when he sees his litle boy in the flesh for the first time, everything will change for the better- i really hope it works out for u xx

bexy_22

hope your feeling a bit better today hun x

polo_princess

Awww hun

When you feel like that all youve got to do is think of that beautiful baby boy inside you who your going to have in your arms in just a few weeks!!

16mumtobe

there you go hun try not to let it get to you even though it must be hard. just keep that chin up yea
xx

cupcake

ugh its not easy being your age at all and being pregnant makes it even harder. i think its natural for you to want your baby's father to be involved but just remember you are still young and one day you will hopefully meet a really nice guy who will love your child and you and be responsible and caring and supportive of you. This might be a couple of years away but in the meantime you will have the love of your little one and others around you.

biteable

aww sweety dont know what to say realy,just been there with depression and knobheads of blokes and that was before being pregnant which was hard enough,just wanna send you loadsa cuddles,and hope things start looking up for you xx

BeckyBoo

Hun you're not going to be fat forever. Alot of people snap back dead quick. My mum has had 3 kids and struggled with weight problems all her life, shes now 48, 9 stone and a size 12 and a wash board stomach. She's been as small as a size 4 before and that was scary.

So please so not worry about your weight.

As for your dad, he's very horrible to say that, but in the end it's him who's making the mistake by cutting you out, not you for choosing to have your baby.

As for bumps dad, not much I can say. I was lucky my BF stayed with me when he found out I was pregnant and he was 16. But the truth is alot don't come around to it. And it might be until hes 20+ until he shows resposibility to your son.

You sound like a very strong and intelligent women. And you obviously have alot on your plate. But remember you have to be strong for your baby. You need to be positive otherwise you could risk PND after the baby is born, and that could cause a whole new load of problems.

If you need to talk there are lots of people here that love you and want to help you. And I'm always just a PM away. x

Rachel16+Bump

Thanks girls so much. i'm just havin a low point in my life but i know i need to concentrate on bump because hes the most important thing in my life! i am so grateful that i have the support off everyone on here, it makes me feel that little bit stronger knowin that i dont have to keep everything in anymore because all you girls are here to give me the lift that i needed so badly. i went to sleep last night thinkin of what was goin wrong in my life when it hit me, i shouldnt be thinkin of the wrong but the right that is happening, which is am goin to be a mummy in less than 10 weeks which is scary bu i know with the help + support of everyone i know i can do this.

*SENDIN HUGS*

xxxxx