Blonde_Mommy

so my boyfriends family like hates me with a passion and i love him to death but i cant handle the stress of always being inbetween all of them espacially with the baby on the way...his sister told me im ruining his life. and i think i should just give up and get outta his life...
any advice?????

Dryka

Do you know if your boyfriend really loves you? Did he know how his family treat you? Did he defend you?

Blonde_Mommy

yes he really loves me
yes and yes.

we are taking a week break..it was my idea...and idk if i wanna

polo_princess

Now your pregnant your whole life is being turned upside down so it will be a real test of your relationship imo. You really need to sit down and talk it through with him.

If you both decide you want this baby and want to be together and make it work, sod what his family think. You cant live your life for other people

Rachel16+Bump

well said polo_princess = ] xx

toriaaaaTRASH

Why do you care what his family think? Its what he thinks that matters.

16mumtobe

im in the same situation and i just think fine stuff the lot of ya i know my OH loves me and they are never going to change that. so chin up hunni
xx

BeckyBoo

My mum hated my OH. She made my life hell for the first 4 months of pregnancy. But I stuck at it because I love him.

I offered him to leave if that's what he wanted. I didn't want him to regret it later on.

But because we talked and I stuck at it, we have been together 4 years and my mum now loves him and we're expecting our second child.

Blood is thicker than water, but love is so stong.

Blonde_Mommy

thanks everyone.
we got back together at 3am when i was awake for my crying session. he came on msn and we talked alot. we decided it was too painful to be apart. plus for once my tummy was silent...so i figure she got mad at me. but no we are back together...
oh btw im going to thorhill for a week...so i probably wont be on...<333

lauraperrysan

Firstly - His sister saying that you have ruined his life....well it takes 2 to make a baby sister!!!
Secondly - At just 18 when I fell pregnant, it was with a policeman (10 yrs older than me) who I had known for about 2 months only! As soon as I told him he made it very clear he didn't want anything to do with our baby and she is now 17 months old and he has never seen her. He never told his parents / sister and they only know now because I tracked them down 6 weeks ago and told them.
Point of the story is.....if his parents dont support you and his sister doesn;t like you, who cares?! Be strong, i am sure even you know you could do this on your own if it came down to it...I did and still am.
I am certain once their grandchild is born they will be the first ones knocking on the door to see him / her. It might not seem real to them yet but once it sinks in and they realise this baby isn't going away, they will come round. If not, it's their loss not yours.
And if your feeling really strong then rise above it, be polite to them, dont make any comments back and bite your tongue....how can they hate you if you are only ever polite and nice to them?!
Just an idea, good luck tho....hope it all works out for you xxx