Super long rant (sorry) I've turned into an emotional wreck - Page 2

Lauraxamy · Mar 18th, 2010, 19:19 PM

Dunno, think they think if I'm under their roof I should pull my weight and do my share of washing up etc. She hasn't made a point before this so maybe she was just in a bad mood and took it out on me

Lauraxamy · Mar 18th, 2010, 19:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Sarah10

Aww try not to worry hun, you will be okay when baba is here

my dad is also a moody sodd since ive gotten pregnant, seems to think i will leave baby on them all time - complete opposite

Dont worry about not doing much aswell, its horrible feeling like crap all the time everything can seem ten times worse xxxx

Must be bloody Dads being moody sods then! Thanks

futuremommy91 · Mar 19th, 2010, 02:31 AM

I think it's nuts that she is expecting you to run around with the weight of a bowling ball strapped to your stomach! Honestly, it's like some mothers forget how hard being pregnant was, based on how some act according to the girls on here. I guess it's their way of worrying for their lo- it could be pretty unsettling to see your "baby" have a baby. I'm sure they worry about you and since they probably still see you as their little girl, it's hard for them to imagine you taking care of baby, iykwim?

But no matter how they feel, it is uncalled for. I'd have a heart to heart with your dad if I was you- just let him know how when he says those things it hurts, and how much you love and are committed to making a wonderful life for you and lo.

Mummy2Asher · Mar 19th, 2010, 05:35 AM

dont worry about not doing much! i hardly did anything until this week when i cleaned the house spotless. pregnancy is tiring.
ive only got ontop of my cleaning now becuase i stopped working so i have more time and energy now.
my mum was also the same when i was pregnant but she also kicked me out after i turned 16. i would 'try' talk to them and just say how ur feeling and that u need support.

bump_wanted · Mar 19th, 2010, 06:43 AM

rite ok so dont shoot me for this and its not an excuse for your mum to make you cry but do you think maybe shes just getting nervous and anxious for her daughter going into labour? and maybe its came out the wrong way and obviously our hormones are all over the shop aswell so it just makes a bad situation worse.. i hope your feeling better today...the hormones def get worse the later on you get than ever i was walkin about tesco yesterday crying cause a woman drew me a dirty look for telling my hubs off lol i flipped out n told him i wasnt going back over the door til the baby was here so your not the only one to feel sensitive xxx

Mar 18th, 2010, 19:19 PM	#11
Lauraxamy Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: WestMidlands/Shropshire. Posts: 4,366	Dunno, think they think if I'm under their roof I should pull my weight and do my share of washing up etc. She hasn't made a point before this so maybe she was just in a bad mood and took it out on me

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Mar 19th, 2010, 02:31 AM	#13
futuremommy91 Waiting To Try (WTT) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Washington State, U.S.A. Posts: 1,114	I think it's nuts that she is expecting you to run around with the weight of a bowling ball strapped to your stomach! Honestly, it's like some mothers forget how hard being pregnant was, based on how some act according to the girls on here. I guess it's their way of worrying for their lo- it could be pretty unsettling to see your "baby" have a baby. I'm sure they worry about you and since they probably still see you as their little girl, it's hard for them to imagine you taking care of baby, iykwim? But no matter how they feel, it is uncalled for. I'd have a heart to heart with your dad if I was you- just let him know how when he says those things it hurts, and how much you love and are committed to making a wonderful life for you and lo.

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Mar 19th, 2010, 05:35 AM	#14
Mummy2Asher Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Somerset Posts: 2,074	dont worry about not doing much! i hardly did anything until this week when i cleaned the house spotless. pregnancy is tiring. ive only got ontop of my cleaning now becuase i stopped working so i have more time and energy now. my mum was also the same when i was pregnant but she also kicked me out after i turned 16. i would 'try' talk to them and just say how ur feeling and that u need support.

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Mar 19th, 2010, 06:43 AM	#15
bump_wanted Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 4,729	rite ok so dont shoot me for this and its not an excuse for your mum to make you cry but do you think maybe shes just getting nervous and anxious for her daughter going into labour? and maybe its came out the wrong way and obviously our hormones are all over the shop aswell so it just makes a bad situation worse.. i hope your feeling better today...the hormones def get worse the later on you get than ever i was walkin about tesco yesterday crying cause a woman drew me a dirty look for telling my hubs off lol i flipped out n told him i wasnt going back over the door til the baby was here so your not the only one to feel sensitive xxx

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