when fobs parents found out i was pregnant, they weren't very happy and it took them about 2months to get used to the idea, after we had a big talk with them and they started to seem kinda excited about it, suggesting names and stuff. i thought his mum was fine now, and she had told chris that she was excited about the baby coming etc. i was up at fobs house last night, i was standing in the kitchen with chris and her, while chris made me a coffee,i said hi to her and said it was mad, cos i hadn't saw her since xmas. she stuck to very short answers and just kept watching the tv. she didn't ask how i was, didnt acknowledge me or my (now very noticable) bump. she just didnt seem bothered at all. it's made me really angry! i mentioned it to chris and he asked her this morning why she didnt seem fussed and she just shrugged her shoulders! how can she possibly not care, ESPECIALLY after us sorting everything out and his parents being 'happy'? im SO angry! do you think she might change her tune once the baby is actually here?

Awww, i'm sorry she doesn't seem very interested, that would annoy mee too
I hope she starts getting involved more soon, if not then I think she will maybe pick up once LO is here, if not even then...I wouldn't bother with her!

My MIL is a funny one, she never really accepted DD pregnancy and she wasnt really involved until she was 3/4months, however with DS it was a totally diff story and she was constantly asking how I was etc...very strange MILs sometimes!

Ugh. Mils...they're all evil :P (i'm sure they're not all...but still!)

She sounds like she's being pretty immature, guess it's been hard for her to accept...but hopefully she will start to come around...as things get closer and closer..she'll probably just get on with it, and once baby is here...then hopefully she'll behave much better...it is her grandbaby after all.

Sorry not got much advice...my OH's mum is a NIGHTMARE! But chris is obvs supporting you, so this will probably rub off onto her eventually! Hope things do get better

OOo just saw your ticker...you gonna find out if it's a girl or boy tomorrow?! x

Maybe when you know the sex, it makes it a bit more real you know? Less of a pregnancy more of a BABY.. and of course you can start buying cute stuff so it might make her care a bit more If not she'll probs change her tune when LOs here, most people do - my friends granma was exceptionally horrible to her saying she was disgrace and her and her LO would never be part of her family or loved or excepted (how cruel?!) and literall days after LO was born (and this was only like a few weeks after she said those things) she wanted to see her and take her out and stuff.. my friend told her where to shove it x

What a bitch!!!!!!

Glad your friend didn't relent and let the old hag "be a part"- god! I cannot imagine someone saying something like that!

im not finding out the sex. i cant wait for our surprise on the day

no way! thats horrible! im SO grateful that no-one in my family is that bad!
no wonder she told her where to shove it! xx

mils are evil
i had a proper cruella deville one
sorry shes been this way hun, i hope she starts to acknowledge you more
maybe she was just having a shit day? x

thats what i thought at first, but the fact that chris asked her this morning what was up, and she just shrugged her shoulders! grrrr..

hopefully things will get better, ive been so nice to her aswell
xx

be grateful shes just being a little bit off with you, my MIL said she doesnt give a shi*t that im preg and doesnt want anything to do with me or my little girl as she already has grandkids to my OH ex and doesnt want another one. she will be very sadly mistaken if when the baby arrives if she thinks she is going to be playing grandmother of the year because i will tell her to get f*cked

hey hun, sorry to here mil being likek this, its awful isnt it, me and my mil didnt get on at first and she does have her days where she thinks im taking her son away from her but as i told her.. hes 21 now and going to be a daddy, youve got to let him go eventually.. she seems fine with me more now xxx