tempted to talk to FOB....I'm gonna cry!

trashit · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:07 PM

i know its a stupid stupid idea... because after everything he did i've made it perfectly clear i do not want him in Jude's life and he doesn't deserve to be a part of it anyway. But i still feel slightly annoyed that he never fought to see Jude in any kind of way, he just told me to fuck off. I feel sorry for Jude.... I keep looking at him and thinking "i wonder if your daddy ever thinks about you" I cant help but wonder if he ever thinks "has he been born, is he alright, whats she called him" etc etc. I havent changed my number so unless he deleted it he could call me at any time but doesn't so its clear he doesn't even care... *sighs* i just cant help but want to call and say he's been born, he weighed 10 lbs etc. I got upset over it the other night, i just feel for Jude so badly..... but its a silly idea isn't it?

AyaChan · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:10 PM

hun if its something you want to do, then do it, its not stupid at all (:

xx

trashit · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:12 PM

i know but i feel really stupid for even thinking about doing it. i cant tell him he's not responsible enough to be a dad and i dont want him in Jude's life but then ring him and say "your sons here incase you were wondering" like im dying to! i mean he'll know that by now he has to be here considering its 12 days after due date...

i dunno its all been running around my mind!! xx

faolan5109 · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:15 PM

It isn't a stupid idea love its what you feel. I can't say that it won't end bad but if it is what you want then go for it. We are all here for you love

stephx · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:17 PM

If its something thats on your mind then I would do it, I dont know anything about your ex or what happened but go for it! Just letting him know Judes here doesnt have to lead to anything else...

Let us know what you decide

xx

xx

fantastica · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:18 PM

it's definitely not stupid...but ifyou decide to make sure you've thought about it lots (i'm sure you have) and be prepared for things not going well...expect the worse iykwim..then he can't hurt you anymore.

Jude is amazing, and completely understand why you feel how you do...but you're doing such an amazing job, he doesn't need anyone else!

Tbh if I was you...think the curiosity would get the better of me...but don't completely know your situation...sounds really complicated

One day he'll realise just how wrong he is

Hope you work out what your wanna do

xx

trashit · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:19 PM

well i unblocked him on facebook... now i just feel absolutely sick. His new profile picture is so idiotic too lol, just makes me realise even more how much of an absolute titface he is! 48 hours before i can block him again now

dunno if i should hit the message button!!

faolan5109 · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:22 PM

Just send him a picture if you can't type anything, then see what he says. If he doesn't say anything then you have your answer you know?

trashit · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:23 PM

i dont want it to lead to anything else heh. It definitely is just curiousity! but you know what they say about that...

Thanks everyone

my mum would KILL me if she knew i'd just unblocked him lol.
He still has the baby photo album with the scan photo.....

my little brothers (eleven years old) commented on it-
"you got my sister pregnant then ran off and left her you dick"
LMAO.

stephx · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:25 PM

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Originally Posted by trashit

i dont want it to lead to anything else heh. It definitely is just curiousity! but you know what they say about that...

Thanks everyone

my mum would KILL me if she knew i'd just unblocked him lol.
He still has the baby photo album with the scan photo.....
my little brothers (eleven years old) commented on it-
"you got my sister pregnant then ran off and left her you dick"
LMAO.

Mar 16th, 2010, 15:07 PM	#1
trashit Pregnant (Expecting) Join Date: May 2009 Location: YORKSHIREEE :) Posts: 4,745	tempted to talk to FOB....I'm gonna cry! i know its a stupid stupid idea... because after everything he did i've made it perfectly clear i do not want him in Jude's life and he doesn't deserve to be a part of it anyway. But i still feel slightly annoyed that he never fought to see Jude in any kind of way, he just told me to fuck off. I feel sorry for Jude.... I keep looking at him and thinking "i wonder if your daddy ever thinks about you" I cant help but wonder if he ever thinks "has he been born, is he alright, whats she called him" etc etc. I havent changed my number so unless he deleted it he could call me at any time but doesn't so its clear he doesn't even care... sighs i just cant help but want to call and say he's been born, he weighed 10 lbs etc. I got upset over it the other night, i just feel for Jude so badly..... but its a silly idea isn't it?

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Mar 16th, 2010, 15:10 PM	#2
AyaChan Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: South Wales Posts: 2,461	hun if its something you want to do, then do it, its not stupid at all (: xx

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Mar 16th, 2010, 15:12 PM	#3
trashit Pregnant (Expecting) Join Date: May 2009 Location: YORKSHIREEE :) Posts: 4,745	i know but i feel really stupid for even thinking about doing it. i cant tell him he's not responsible enough to be a dad and i dont want him in Jude's life but then ring him and say "your sons here incase you were wondering" like im dying to! i mean he'll know that by now he has to be here considering its 12 days after due date... i dunno its all been running around my mind!! xx

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Mar 16th, 2010, 15:15 PM	#4
faolan5109 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: jersey Posts: 947	It isn't a stupid idea love its what you feel. I can't say that it won't end bad but if it is what you want then go for it. We are all here for you love

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Mar 16th, 2010, 15:17 PM	#5
stephx Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: UK Posts: 4,469	If its something thats on your mind then I would do it, I dont know anything about your ex or what happened but go for it! Just letting him know Judes here doesnt have to lead to anything else... Let us know what you decide xx xx

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Mar 16th, 2010, 15:18 PM	#6
fantastica Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Jersey. Posts: 1,424	it's definitely not stupid...but ifyou decide to make sure you've thought about it lots (i'm sure you have) and be prepared for things not going well...expect the worse iykwim..then he can't hurt you anymore. Jude is amazing, and completely understand why you feel how you do...but you're doing such an amazing job, he doesn't need anyone else! Tbh if I was you...think the curiosity would get the better of me...but don't completely know your situation...sounds really complicated One day he'll realise just how wrong he is Hope you work out what your wanna do xx

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Mar 16th, 2010, 15:19 PM	#7
trashit Pregnant (Expecting) Join Date: May 2009 Location: YORKSHIREEE :) Posts: 4,745	well i unblocked him on facebook... now i just feel absolutely sick. His new profile picture is so idiotic too lol, just makes me realise even more how much of an absolute titface he is! 48 hours before i can block him again now dunno if i should hit the message button!!

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Mar 16th, 2010, 15:22 PM	#8
faolan5109 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: jersey Posts: 947	Just send him a picture if you can't type anything, then see what he says. If he doesn't say anything then you have your answer you know?

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Mar 16th, 2010, 15:23 PM	#9
trashit Pregnant (Expecting) Join Date: May 2009 Location: YORKSHIREEE :) Posts: 4,745	i dont want it to lead to anything else heh. It definitely is just curiousity! but you know what they say about that... Thanks everyone my mum would KILL me if she knew i'd just unblocked him lol. He still has the baby photo album with the scan photo..... my little brothers (eleven years old) commented on it- "you got my sister pregnant then ran off and left her you dick" LMAO.

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