Tempted to talk to FOB I'm gonna cry! - Page 9

samface182 · Mar 17th, 2010, 21:20 PM

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why are men such arseholes?!

I know right lol its a wounder the world isnt full of lesbians :P

nightkd · Mar 18th, 2010, 00:56 AM

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It's nice that he's made some effort and obviously has some pride to have added the pic to his FB photos.

I definitely wouldn't have guessed he was almost 30 either

xx

Glad I'm not the only one! hahaha

Also, nightkd, WHEN THE HELL DID YOU GET SO FAR ALONG?? I swear, you were hanging out with us WTTers just last week!

Sorry. Off topic but I caught sight of te ticker and nearly crapped myself! lol

Lol! I'm honestly not sure

On the one hand it feels like it's dragged on for ages, because I just want to meet Bean! On the other...OMG! I'm in 3rd tri!!

xx

trashit · Mar 18th, 2010, 06:25 AM

bloooming hell that has gone fast!!!!!

she'll be here before you know it!#

oh jesus if only we could all be lesbians and use sperm doners

x

aiimee12345 · Mar 18th, 2010, 06:33 AM

lol yep ellie sperm donors sound good lol!
x

ohmisslizzie · Mar 18th, 2010, 10:46 AM

By the choices that you have made so far - I think you will do whats right for you and your baby, personally as long as hes drugging- I would say no way- and I know it seems all men are assholes- I had my share of them- but there are a few that are not- and I am positive you will find a man who loves you for you and Jude as his own, congrats on your sweet baby boy!!xx

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Just wanted to say- I do not know how old you are but what you did was sooo mature- you have taken the high road and nothing but respect for that, I have followed some of your story and just wanted to add that you are a beautiful, amazing woman and now mother to the cutest baby ever!! xx

you almost sent me into tears with this. thankyou soo much

that's a really lovely thing to say

I have tried my best, i just wanted what was best for Jude and i knew that his daddy wasn't.. Its a confusing situation cos he did run off, but at the same time i did tell him he wasn't responsible or mature enough to be a part of Jude's life but i did that after he ran off may i add in. He loves drugs too much

and not only that but you WOULD think he was the 17 year old and i was the 28 year old, its actually ridiculous.. At that age he shouldn't have acted as he did..
Grr i dont know why i suddenly have sympathy for him! But i guess i've ran out of angry energy now and i keep looking at Jude and imagining how it would have been to bring him into a complete family..
Not that i want him back, hell no, he always embarrassed me. He wouldn't let me throw away his brown cords, and he played with trains still

says it all really doesnt it?!

xx

cabaretmum2b · Mar 18th, 2010, 10:48 AM

Dear me, he's nearly 30 and still acts like that??? Just goes to show that men stop maturing when they're around 15...then they just get grumpier. There are a few that are lovely though, and from how you are, I'm sure Jude will turn out to be one of the nice ones when he grows up

PleaseBaby · Mar 18th, 2010, 12:12 PM

I'm amazed at how mature you have managed to be through all of the shit he's put you through! At the end of the day you have the most beautiful son ever and nothing is going to change that. I can actually understand you sympathising with him because without him you wouldn't have Jude but you have let him know your son arrived into the world safely and the balls now in his court. I'm absolutely certain that you will make the best decision for Jude and that you will be the best mother in the world, with or without his fathers help, he will miss out on nothing just because he doesn't have a father. I really hope you realise how proud you should be of yourself x

Jadelm · Mar 18th, 2010, 12:22 PM

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Just goes to show that men stop maturing when they're around 15...then they just get grumpier.

That is SO true

trashit · Mar 18th, 2010, 13:36 PM

that is SO true

thanks everybody

I'm just gonna be a wimp and dwell

loooooooooser!

You know, i actually cried today cos i have to change docs as i now live out of the catchment area and i've been with them doctors all my life

pathetic or what?!

aiimee12345 · Mar 18th, 2010, 15:34 PM

aww hun ur hormonal arent u?
i dont like my doctors anyway so dont think id be too upset if i had to move!
but do get upset over silly things sumtyms dont we lol!

xx

Mar 18th, 2010, 06:25 AM	#83
trashit Pregnant (Expecting) Join Date: May 2009 Location: YORKSHIREEE :) Posts: 4,745	bloooming hell that has gone fast!!!!! she'll be here before you know it!# oh jesus if only we could all be lesbians and use sperm doners x

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Mar 18th, 2010, 06:33 AM	#84
aiimee12345 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: birmingham (dudley) Posts: 2,918	lol yep ellie sperm donors sound good lol! x

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Mar 18th, 2010, 10:48 AM	#86
cabaretmum2b Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Portsmouth, UK Posts: 3,354	Dear me, he's nearly 30 and still acts like that??? Just goes to show that men stop maturing when they're around 15...then they just get grumpier. There are a few that are lovely though, and from how you are, I'm sure Jude will turn out to be one of the nice ones when he grows up

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Mar 18th, 2010, 12:12 PM	#87
PleaseBaby Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: uk Posts: 1,300	I'm amazed at how mature you have managed to be through all of the shit he's put you through! At the end of the day you have the most beautiful son ever and nothing is going to change that. I can actually understand you sympathising with him because without him you wouldn't have Jude but you have let him know your son arrived into the world safely and the balls now in his court. I'm absolutely certain that you will make the best decision for Jude and that you will be the best mother in the world, with or without his fathers help, he will miss out on nothing just because he doesn't have a father. I really hope you realise how proud you should be of yourself x

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Mar 18th, 2010, 13:36 PM	#89
trashit Pregnant (Expecting) Join Date: May 2009 Location: YORKSHIREEE :) Posts: 4,745	that is SO true thanks everybody I'm just gonna be a wimp and dwell loooooooooser! You know, i actually cried today cos i have to change docs as i now live out of the catchment area and i've been with them doctors all my life pathetic or what?!

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Mar 18th, 2010, 15:34 PM	#90
aiimee12345 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: birmingham (dudley) Posts: 2,918	aww hun ur hormonal arent u? i dont like my doctors anyway so dont think id be too upset if i had to move! but do get upset over silly things sumtyms dont we lol! xx

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