Tempted to talk to FOB I'm gonna cry! - Page 5

aiimee12345 · Mar 17th, 2010, 11:32 AM

ellie u no its not stupid.. if u want to then do it! at least then u can say when jude's older u tried even if FOB doesnt want to no least u tried to do something bout it!!
& u havent changed ur number so its his fault... but hun if u want to then do it

... x

Jadelm · Mar 17th, 2010, 11:34 AM

I think that's kinda a good reply, because he was nice at least and he is right to be proud of you even if it seems a bit patronising

He showed a bit of interest asking the name but at the same time isn't saying he wants to be really involved which is what you wanted right? Idk, it could have been a lot worse though

At least you probs feel a bit satisfied now? xxx

aiimee12345 · Mar 17th, 2010, 11:34 AM

lol ellie i only jus red that he replied lol!

is that all he put? but then again he is a man!! ... there never very good at anything are they really! x

KrisKitten · Mar 17th, 2010, 11:48 AM

wow, just read the whole thread,
im glad he replied...tbh it sounds like he is interested but still a man lol.
R u gonna reply?
well done for being so brave and contacting him xxx

nicholatmn · Mar 17th, 2010, 11:48 AM

It's a really good response from what it sounded like he was going to put!

lily123 · Mar 17th, 2010, 12:05 PM

Hi Ellie.

Well i've read this only just now, and i think you did 100% the right thing

and knowing all the shit he put you through, you really are so brave for contacting him.
Are you gonna reply to him?

In response to what another poster said on the previous page... Jude's father shut HIMSELF out of his life, all ellie was doing was protecting herself and her precious son, and i think she was right to keep her guard up - once your out, your out kinda thing

I love your 'no nonsence' attitude Miss croot

xxx

sleepinbeauty · Mar 17th, 2010, 12:20 PM

Awesome! I wouldn't hold my breath waiting for the money though. You never know. (That said, have you filed for CS?) Good for you!! (I really am happy he wasn't an a*****e to you in his message!!)

trashit · Mar 17th, 2010, 12:27 PM

never wanted money from him anyway, all his money is too precious to him it goes on his drugs and booze o.O
he's an idiot.
Aww Linzi thanks

that really made me happy!!!

it wasn't a vicious response like i was expecting, it was nice of him but its just the fact he didnt even comment on Jude or anything. I just replied with "It was a traumatic birth but he's here now safe and well, i'm recovering too, he weighed 10lbs- i know ouch! he's a hungry little monster but so gorgeous (hint hint! lol) and he's not Dexter, he's Jude.

He should be happy i called him Jude anyway, that was the original name we picked out when we first found out

aob1013 · Mar 17th, 2010, 12:31 PM

That response could have been alot worse. Glad it wasn't a nasty one! x

supriseBump_x · Mar 17th, 2010, 12:39 PM

Well done Ellie

It must of taken alot for u to have contacted him.

xxx

Mar 17th, 2010, 11:32 AM	#41
aiimee12345 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: birmingham (dudley) Posts: 2,918	ellie u no its not stupid.. if u want to then do it! at least then u can say when jude's older u tried even if FOB doesnt want to no least u tried to do something bout it!! & u havent changed ur number so its his fault... but hun if u want to then do it ... x

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Mar 17th, 2010, 11:34 AM	#42
Jadelm Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: UK Posts: 2,678	I think that's kinda a good reply, because he was nice at least and he is right to be proud of you even if it seems a bit patronising He showed a bit of interest asking the name but at the same time isn't saying he wants to be really involved which is what you wanted right? Idk, it could have been a lot worse though At least you probs feel a bit satisfied now? xxx

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Mar 17th, 2010, 11:34 AM	#43
aiimee12345 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: birmingham (dudley) Posts: 2,918	lol ellie i only jus red that he replied lol! is that all he put? but then again he is a man!! ... there never very good at anything are they really! x

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Mar 17th, 2010, 11:48 AM	#44
KrisKitten Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: London Posts: 4,380	wow, just read the whole thread, im glad he replied...tbh it sounds like he is interested but still a man lol. R u gonna reply? well done for being so brave and contacting him xxx

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Mar 17th, 2010, 11:48 AM	#45
nicholatmn Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 11,845	It's a really good response from what it sounded like he was going to put!

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Mar 17th, 2010, 12:05 PM	#46
lily123 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Good old North Yorkshire ;) Posts: 3,372	Hi Ellie. Well i've read this only just now, and i think you did 100% the right thing and knowing all the shit he put you through, you really are so brave for contacting him. Are you gonna reply to him? In response to what another poster said on the previous page... Jude's father shut HIMSELF out of his life, all ellie was doing was protecting herself and her precious son, and i think she was right to keep her guard up - once your out, your out kinda thing I love your 'no nonsence' attitude Miss croot xxx

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Mar 17th, 2010, 12:20 PM	#47
sleepinbeauty Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: NY, USA Posts: 3,298	Awesome! I wouldn't hold my breath waiting for the money though. You never know. (That said, have you filed for CS?) Good for you!! (I really am happy he wasn't an a*****e to you in his message!!)

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Mar 17th, 2010, 12:27 PM	#48
trashit Pregnant (Expecting) Join Date: May 2009 Location: YORKSHIREEE :) Posts: 4,745	never wanted money from him anyway, all his money is too precious to him it goes on his drugs and booze o.O he's an idiot. Aww Linzi thanks that really made me happy!!! it wasn't a vicious response like i was expecting, it was nice of him but its just the fact he didnt even comment on Jude or anything. I just replied with "It was a traumatic birth but he's here now safe and well, i'm recovering too, he weighed 10lbs- i know ouch! he's a hungry little monster but so gorgeous (hint hint! lol) and he's not Dexter, he's Jude. He should be happy i called him Jude anyway, that was the original name we picked out when we first found out

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Mar 17th, 2010, 12:31 PM	#49
aob1013 Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: UK Posts: 10,675	That response could have been alot worse. Glad it wasn't a nasty one! x

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Mar 17th, 2010, 12:39 PM	#50
supriseBump_x Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: UK Posts: 1,452	Well done Ellie It must of taken alot for u to have contacted him. xxx

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