Tempted to talk to FOB I'm gonna cry! - Page 2

supriseBump_x · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:27 PM

If he hasn't bothered to contact u or anything then isnt he making it pretty clear that he doesn't care

I think if u contact him it might end up upsetting you even more...
He doesn't deserve to be in Jude's life after not being there for u during pregnancy. Your doing a fantastic job of being Jude's mummy U can do the job of being both his mummy and daddy

xxx

faolan5109 · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by trashit

i dont want it to lead to anything else heh. It definitely is just curiousity! but you know what they say about that...

Thanks everyone

my mum would KILL me if she knew i'd just unblocked him lol.
He still has the baby photo album with the scan photo.....

my little brothers (eleven years old) commented on it-
"you got my sister pregnant then ran off and left her you dick"
LMAO.

Holy Crap thats amazing! He gets a million points!

supriseBump_x · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:28 PM

Double post

xxx

Jadelm · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:28 PM

I think just sending him a picture and Jude's name and DOB would suffice. You can rest assured that you let him know his son was here and if he doesn't reply you can be happy in the knowledge that you tried for Jude's sake to even get FOB to acknowledge him

But I don't properly know the situation. If it was me I'd be tempted out of curiosity and also to rub it in his face that I have a beautiful baby boy and he's a d**k for missing out on someone as special as Jude (and you of course

) xxxx

Loz94 · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:31 PM

I don't think you are being silly, you are bound to wonder that wat about getting someone else to tell him ?

trashit · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:34 PM

his mum asked my nanna if she'd phone when Jude had been born and let her know, so thats clearly (well i think) to pass on to Dan... but my nanna said she was gonna wait for them to call her and definitely not tell them his name or anything just say he's baby croot for now (so they know hes taking my surname!)

at my brother, i swear he thinks hes some big G. He's such a gimp, he had a go at him on facebook chat as well

jenny_wren · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:36 PM

i'd send him a picture with his name and dob on it

that way he's seen his son and knows he's here
but then it's up to him whether he wants to take
it any further, if he doesn't want to know then
sod him you're doing a wonderful job without him
if he does decide he wants to know then atleast
jude will know who his father is even if he is a dick

xxx

fantastica · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:37 PM

haha your brother sounds great!! so funny!! (well not funny but you knowww :P)

if you've unblocked his fb..wont it come up on his news feed thing?! if you've put pics up?!! x

trashit · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:37 PM

feel a bit of an arse for unblocking him now.... cos i darent say anything

well if he searches for me now i'll come up. altho saying that he could have just got a friend to search for me and i'd have come up so for all i know he could have seen Jude already?!

supriseBump_x · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:38 PM

Are u on his friends list? xxx

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supriseBump_x Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: UK Posts: 1,452	If he hasn't bothered to contact u or anything then isnt he making it pretty clear that he doesn't care I think if u contact him it might end up upsetting you even more... He doesn't deserve to be in Jude's life after not being there for u during pregnancy. Your doing a fantastic job of being Jude's mummy U can do the job of being both his mummy and daddy xxx

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supriseBump_x Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: UK Posts: 1,452	Double post xxx

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Jadelm Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: UK Posts: 2,678	I think just sending him a picture and Jude's name and DOB would suffice. You can rest assured that you let him know his son was here and if he doesn't reply you can be happy in the knowledge that you tried for Jude's sake to even get FOB to acknowledge him But I don't properly know the situation. If it was me I'd be tempted out of curiosity and also to rub it in his face that I have a beautiful baby boy and he's a d**k for missing out on someone as special as Jude (and you of course ) xxxx

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Loz94 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 113	I don't think you are being silly, you are bound to wonder that wat about getting someone else to tell him ?

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trashit Pregnant (Expecting) Join Date: May 2009 Location: YORKSHIREEE :) Posts: 4,745	his mum asked my nanna if she'd phone when Jude had been born and let her know, so thats clearly (well i think) to pass on to Dan... but my nanna said she was gonna wait for them to call her and definitely not tell them his name or anything just say he's baby croot for now (so they know hes taking my surname!) at my brother, i swear he thinks hes some big G. He's such a gimp, he had a go at him on facebook chat as well

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jenny_wren Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: farnborough, hampshire Posts: 17,005	i'd send him a picture with his name and dob on it that way he's seen his son and knows he's here but then it's up to him whether he wants to take it any further, if he doesn't want to know then sod him you're doing a wonderful job without him if he does decide he wants to know then atleast jude will know who his father is even if he is a dick xxx

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fantastica Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Jersey. Posts: 1,424	haha your brother sounds great!! so funny!! (well not funny but you knowww :P) if you've unblocked his fb..wont it come up on his news feed thing?! if you've put pics up?!! x

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supriseBump_x Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: UK Posts: 1,452	Are u on his friends list? xxx

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