super pissed off >.<

glitterbomb · Mar 6th, 2010, 20:42 PM

my aunt and cousin have been saying for weeks they were throwing me a shower in april, well they came over today with a big box of diapers, blanket, and diaper bag ( which was nice ). and they said that they can't throw or come to a shower for me, because of my age and the fact i'm not married!!!!!! they said it would be inviting evil in their lives.

what btches

BlazenXx · Mar 6th, 2010, 20:45 PM

Didn't want to read and run, hun....

I'm really sorry, is it a religious issue they have? (no offence meant to anyone who is religious)

glitterbomb · Mar 6th, 2010, 20:48 PM

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Originally Posted by BlazenXx

Didn't want to read and run, hun....

I'm really sorry, is it a religious issue they have? (no offence meant to anyone who is religious)

well they don't go to church or anything, and they have never acted religious, so i honestly don't get it?

AngelzEye · Mar 6th, 2010, 20:49 PM

Thats ridiculous! I wouldn't be happy with them being involved in any way in case they invite prejudice into your life grr.
Obviously, I don't mean any offence as I don't know you/them but I find it hard to believe that people can still be so up front with that kind of attitude. I'm not married & thankfully haven't had any experience with anyone treating me any differently because of that, but I'm sorry you've come up against such negativity which you certainly can't need right now

BlazenXx · Mar 6th, 2010, 20:52 PM

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Originally Posted by glitterbomb

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Originally Posted by BlazenXx

Didn't want to read and run, hun....

I'm really sorry, is it a religious issue they have? (no offence meant to anyone who is religious)

well they don't go to church or anything, and they have never acted religious, so i honestly don't get it?

I don't get it either.... I hate to say it, but people will use pretty much anything to make their jealously/prejudice "excusable".

glitterbomb · Mar 6th, 2010, 20:58 PM

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Originally Posted by AngelzEye

Thats ridiculous! I wouldn't be happy with them being involved in any way in case they invite prejudice into your life grr.
Obviously, I don't mean any offence as I don't know you/them but I find it hard to believe that people can still be so up front with that kind of attitude. I'm not married & thankfully haven't had any experience with anyone treating me any differently because of that, but I'm sorry you've come up against such negativity which you certainly can't need right now

It's weird, I don't really see to much of them, but they have always been the types to act "better" than everyone else.

rainbows_x · Mar 6th, 2010, 21:54 PM

Aww I'm sorry that suck

is there anyway you could have a baby shower without them?
I'm sure plenty of people would love to go

halas · Mar 6th, 2010, 22:23 PM

aww thats ridiculous will anyone else throw you a baby shower that is so rude

futuremommy91 · Mar 6th, 2010, 22:45 PM

"EVIL"? That is so incredibly rude- I'd be beyond pissed off! That's so awful, too, that they were talking about it from the beginning then somehow just changed their minds like that.

As far as I know you are doing the responsible thing- having your baby. I can't imagine the sacrifices you are making by deciding to keep him/her.

I hope someone else decides to give you a babyshower! And if you have any say over the guest list if you have one, I'd make sure to only invite people who are 100% supportive. You do not need people like your aunt or your cousin!

Kailynnsmommy · Mar 7th, 2010, 00:26 AM

im sorry hun. my friends mom was the same way she wont let her have a baby shower although she did her mom just doesnt know because shes not married and its not right. she wont even let her wear a white dress to her wedding because the white symbolizes virgin and obviously shes not!

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glitterbomb Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Ohio Posts: 526	super pissed off >.< my aunt and cousin have been saying for weeks they were throwing me a shower in april, well they came over today with a big box of diapers, blanket, and diaper bag ( which was nice ). and they said that they can't throw or come to a shower for me, because of my age and the fact i'm not married!!!!!! they said it would be inviting evil in their lives. what btches

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BlazenXx Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: USA sadly, wants to be in the UK Posts: 181	Didn't want to read and run, hun.... I'm really sorry, is it a religious issue they have? (no offence meant to anyone who is religious)

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AngelzEye Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Sunderland Posts: 261	Thats ridiculous! I wouldn't be happy with them being involved in any way in case they invite prejudice into your life grr. Obviously, I don't mean any offence as I don't know you/them but I find it hard to believe that people can still be so up front with that kind of attitude. I'm not married & thankfully haven't had any experience with anyone treating me any differently because of that, but I'm sorry you've come up against such negativity which you certainly can't need right now

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rainbows_x Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 11,194	Aww I'm sorry that suck is there anyway you could have a baby shower without them? I'm sure plenty of people would love to go

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halas Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 1,371	aww thats ridiculous will anyone else throw you a baby shower that is so rude

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futuremommy91 Waiting To Try (WTT) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Washington State, U.S.A. Posts: 1,114	"EVIL"? That is so incredibly rude- I'd be beyond pissed off! That's so awful, too, that they were talking about it from the beginning then somehow just changed their minds like that. As far as I know you are doing the responsible thing- having your baby. I can't imagine the sacrifices you are making by deciding to keep him/her. I hope someone else decides to give you a babyshower! And if you have any say over the guest list if you have one, I'd make sure to only invite people who are 100% supportive. You do not need people like your aunt or your cousin!

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Kailynnsmommy Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: New Mexico Posts: 810	im sorry hun. my friends mom was the same way she wont let her have a baby shower although she did her mom just doesnt know because shes not married and its not right. she wont even let her wear a white dress to her wedding because the white symbolizes virgin and obviously shes not!

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