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AyaChan · Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:01 PM

I'm just wondering if anyone is still able to do it?

For ages now OH and I have been having problems when it comes to it.
We've tried finding comfy positions thinking that would sort it, but nothing works.
I'm either in too much pain, feel like I need to pee constantly, or my stomach is in the way.

I feel like I can't satify him whenever we're unable to finish.
He tells me its not true, but I still feel so crappy.

I want to be able to do it for as long as poss because I know for about 6 weeks after LO we won't be able to anyways :/

I'm sorry if this thread is crappy, but I just need some advice I guess.

I feel so down and like I've let him down :/

amygwen · Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:04 PM

hahahah I'm like the same exact way. Like, during sex with my OH I constantly need to pee and if I don't pee then it's really uncomfortable so like oh my gosh it's just so awkward to interrupt him mid-sex & be like 'uhhh... I need to peee!'

the only position I can comfortably do is doggy the rest are getting really difficult to do. With him on top it's like my stomach is in the way and my legs hurt sooo bad afterwards and then me on top, well that's been impossible for a while.

Have you done doggy? It's really easy & not really uncomfortable.. for me anyways!

& don't feel down..

there's no reason to be! you can't help it you're pregnant & you constantly have to peeee and have a baby growing inside of you!

leoniebabey · Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:04 PM

I feel the same, especially with the wee thing, i just feel so embarrasing every 2 minz like i need a wee, he's like u cant possibly need another wee im like well i do so u best let me go or im gunna wee myself haha.

Cant really help much apart from im in the same boat as u

x

rainbows_x · Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:07 PM

Sex has always been really painfull for me anyway, We have done it once since finding out I was pregnant, sounds really bad

I had alot of complications in the begining and then some bleeding, so didn't wanna do anything till I was 12 weeks.
Now though I'm scared it's gonna hurt, which obviously doesn't help! We've done other stuff, just not sex.. doggy does sound like the most comfortable position though, may have to try

AyaChan · Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:11 PM

ive tried doggy and its that position that hurts me the most :/
No idea why, it just does :/

The only one that dont really hurt is me on top, but i don't last very long like that coz I ache

xxx

supriseBump_x · Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:13 PM

I googled

The spooning sex position can be very comfortable as there is no pressure on your abdomen and you have lots of movement. Your partner can position themselves behind you at different angles to allow for penetration. Avoid lying on your right side in this position.

The side by side sex position allows for more equal physical contact than spooning, but penetration can be a bit trickier. You can cross your legs over each others and this may help. As with spooning, this position can be very comfortable as no one is feeling the weight of the other partner’s body.
The woman on top sex position offers the benefit of you being in control of the depth and angle of penetration. Later in the pregnancy you may find this position more tiring, and if balance is a concern you may prefer a lying down position, but others find this the ideal position.

The rear entry sex position is said to be good for g-spot stimulation and can be a comfortable change as it’s a position you aren’t in that often, unless you’re doing yoga. This position can either be done on a bed, or modified as a version of the next sex position.

The edge of the bed sex position offers many possibilities for greater comfort during pregnancy. You can lie on the bed (on your side, or briefly on your back) at the edge of the bed and your partner can be off the bed, either on their knees or standing up. Combined with the rear entry position, you can be off the bed on your knees (with a pillow underneath them) and rest your upper torso on the bed, with your belly off the bed.

AyaChan · Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:15 PM

thanks Lauren (:

xx

Kimberley1875 · Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:17 PM

Me and oh been having a bit of a problem with this aswell...we tend to go for doggy as its the only one thats comfortable...but i know how bad u can feel if u dont think hes been satisfied...why not try more foreplay then go on top if thats what comfy for u?xx

AyaChan · Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:21 PM

hmmm, I do try to drag out foreplay more, but OH is more of a getting straight to the point person rather than foreplay :/

its just so frustrating knowing that I can't have sex properly, I even ended up in tears the other week coz of it

xx

Kimberley1875 · Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:24 PM

Hmmm...i know how u feel but mines eventually did get better..all u can really do is more foreplay and try different things until u find something that works really?...xx

Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:01 PM	#1
AyaChan Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: South Wales Posts: 2,461	Sex stuff I'm just wondering if anyone is still able to do it? For ages now OH and I have been having problems when it comes to it. We've tried finding comfy positions thinking that would sort it, but nothing works. I'm either in too much pain, feel like I need to pee constantly, or my stomach is in the way. I feel like I can't satify him whenever we're unable to finish. He tells me its not true, but I still feel so crappy. I want to be able to do it for as long as poss because I know for about 6 weeks after LO we won't be able to anyways :/ I'm sorry if this thread is crappy, but I just need some advice I guess. I feel so down and like I've let him down :/

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:04 PM	#2
amygwen Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: San Antonio, Texas Posts: 8,697	hahahah I'm like the same exact way. Like, during sex with my OH I constantly need to pee and if I don't pee then it's really uncomfortable so like oh my gosh it's just so awkward to interrupt him mid-sex & be like 'uhhh... I need to peee!' the only position I can comfortably do is doggy the rest are getting really difficult to do. With him on top it's like my stomach is in the way and my legs hurt sooo bad afterwards and then me on top, well that's been impossible for a while. Have you done doggy? It's really easy & not really uncomfortable.. for me anyways! & don't feel down.. there's no reason to be! you can't help it you're pregnant & you constantly have to peeee and have a baby growing inside of you!

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leoniebabey Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: UK Newcastle Posts: 6,626	I feel the same, especially with the wee thing, i just feel so embarrasing every 2 minz like i need a wee, he's like u cant possibly need another wee im like well i do so u best let me go or im gunna wee myself haha. Cant really help much apart from im in the same boat as u x

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:07 PM	#4
rainbows_x Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 11,191	Sex has always been really painfull for me anyway, We have done it once since finding out I was pregnant, sounds really bad I had alot of complications in the begining and then some bleeding, so didn't wanna do anything till I was 12 weeks. Now though I'm scared it's gonna hurt, which obviously doesn't help! We've done other stuff, just not sex.. doggy does sound like the most comfortable position though, may have to try

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:11 PM	#5
AyaChan Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: South Wales Posts: 2,461	ive tried doggy and its that position that hurts me the most :/ No idea why, it just does :/ The only one that dont really hurt is me on top, but i don't last very long like that coz I ache xxx

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:13 PM	#6
supriseBump_x Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: UK Posts: 1,452	I googled The spooning sex position can be very comfortable as there is no pressure on your abdomen and you have lots of movement. Your partner can position themselves behind you at different angles to allow for penetration. Avoid lying on your right side in this position. The side by side sex position allows for more equal physical contact than spooning, but penetration can be a bit trickier. You can cross your legs over each others and this may help. As with spooning, this position can be very comfortable as no one is feeling the weight of the other partner’s body. The woman on top sex position offers the benefit of you being in control of the depth and angle of penetration. Later in the pregnancy you may find this position more tiring, and if balance is a concern you may prefer a lying down position, but others find this the ideal position. The rear entry sex position is said to be good for g-spot stimulation and can be a comfortable change as it’s a position you aren’t in that often, unless you’re doing yoga. This position can either be done on a bed, or modified as a version of the next sex position. The edge of the bed sex position offers many possibilities for greater comfort during pregnancy. You can lie on the bed (on your side, or briefly on your back) at the edge of the bed and your partner can be off the bed, either on their knees or standing up. Combined with the rear entry position, you can be off the bed on your knees (with a pillow underneath them) and rest your upper torso on the bed, with your belly off the bed.

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:15 PM	#7
AyaChan Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: South Wales Posts: 2,461	thanks Lauren (: xx

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:17 PM	#8
Kimberley1875 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 117	Me and oh been having a bit of a problem with this aswell...we tend to go for doggy as its the only one thats comfortable...but i know how bad u can feel if u dont think hes been satisfied...why not try more foreplay then go on top if thats what comfy for u?xx

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:21 PM	#9
AyaChan Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: South Wales Posts: 2,461	hmmm, I do try to drag out foreplay more, but OH is more of a getting straight to the point person rather than foreplay :/ its just so frustrating knowing that I can't have sex properly, I even ended up in tears the other week coz of it xx

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:24 PM	#10
Kimberley1875 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 117	Hmmm...i know how u feel but mines eventually did get better..all u can really do is more foreplay and try different things until u find something that works really?...xx

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