find me the comment in this thread where i've been making assumptions about a 16 yr old TTC

no i didnt sit at home thinking about it alday but living in the real world being a teen and having female friends the topic popped up a few times and having a brain i had a view on it i didnt sit there like a mug saying "oh it will never happen to me" i knew my thoughts on so call me immature if you like dear but i made a valid point that this topic is always debated how can anyone with sense say it isnt something people can agree or disagree on it just happens....

ella i said PEOPLE not YOU re-read it dear

no because its different in everyones case. i dont know what to think cos if i see a girl with a baby, i dont know how it came about. its called not judging, not getting involved and letting people get on with their life

How can I agree or disagree with unplanned pregnancy?

Someone says : 'Oh a 16 year old got pregnant accidentally'' and I should say : 'Yeah,I disagree with that''.

You can't agree on something that already happened...

And yes Ella,exactly.I have nothing to agree or disagree on what happens to a girl in her life.

ok .. i dont know what making assumptions about a 16 yr old TTC has got to do with someone assuming that a teen didnt use contraception :s ???

god ella i don't even know how u came into this i was replying to a comment nicky made about my question and you feel it ok to brand me as immature rofl this is simply because i felt it was UNFAIR that SOMEpeople (no not you ella b4 you moan again) were judging the poor girl who started this thread without knowing her...and you just said yourself if you say a teen with a baby you wouldn't judge so why is it such a big problem if i voice my feelings that its unfair?

the only problem with you i have is your comment on abusive partners as my family has be thru the same thing my dads a monster and its not something you can use to insult people.

She wasn't insulting you.She made a comparison with the comment Darkheaven made about me.An insulting comment to me.
Don't take everything personally...

And I don't judge this girl(I try not to) but this forum is a place where we can state our opinions.
And not just ttc and pregnancy related.I won't tell her the best way to get pregnant.
I'll try to voice my opinion so she thinkes twice about it because I really want to give her an advice for her well being...

if u re-read that comment i wrote, it was an example, i wasnt specificially aiming it at her. she said some details about herself as a young mum, so i took that and showed what it would be like if someone was to make an assumption on that- doesnt mean i actually hold that opinion. i already said in an earlier comment about how we should give the girl advice and not start a massive debate on teens TTC. when i wrote that though, i wrote it passively and didnt start arguments with everyone who had 'judged' her

And what im trying to say is what makes you think she needs to think twice look i dont wana fight for god sake but people don't post things like TTC at 16 if is a thought that will change just cuz you "give her advice" altho your 1st comment wasnt advice at all nicky if it was friendly advice i wouldnt have a problem with it i just feel that lately so many people are giving teens a hard time ive seen it in many different posts.....
and i didn't take it to heart i simply said if she knew anything about the situation of abuse she wouldnt use it to compare like that....