well if u can care and love ur baby im sure other younger women can dont you think? and cope just as well

No it wasn't aimed at you lol.... love it when people think that always amusing like they feel what they said is really that important, it was a general question luv.
and as for theres being nothing to agree on with unplanned teen pregnancy... umm. what about the thousands of people who call teen mothers cheap whores and try and force us to do things like get rid of our babies surely thats a different view to yours meaning that there is situation where people and agree and disagree with it? hmmmm....

And i personally find you making comment on unplanned teen pregnancy being ok as we were stupid enough to get pregnant.

But teens who feel they are ready and have thought about it not right just cause some teens still live at home so they must be living off other people..

i was in my own flat at 16 and in college and earning enough money to look after a child...so if i wanted to TTC i bloody would so maybe find out the facts before judging it each person is unique each situation is different just because you weren't ready or mature enough don't judge everyone by your standards

that was really harsh
what makes u think she didnt use contraceptive?
what if i was to say: tough- u should have known ur kids' father better before having babies with him...that would probably be very hurtful and u wouldnt like the fact that someone is making assumptions about u when they dont even know u

ella not to be rude but using a condom and being with an abusive partner can't be compared to eachother at all....

its one of thoses things you really don't comment on until u have been there yourself its a damning situation that ruins peoples lifes.....

You also say "someone is making assumptions about u when they dont even know u"
isnt that why we are here cuz people make assumptions about a 16 TTC

nope its not hurtful to me i except criticism every one has faults and does things wrong life is full of different paths in life and we just have to choose the right ones for us all chat sites are designed for diff ppls opinions and yes ppl can get angry but its called opinions we all have them

I didn't think that my comments were important,it just seemed like you asked me...I apologize.

And I didn't say mothers who faced unplanned teen pregnancy are stuid enough to get pregnant.My pregnancy was unplanned,it can happen to anyone.I didn't call anybody here stupid.Nor do I find anyone here stupid.

But the whole thing about the planned teen pregnancy is much more then preparation.If they are so convinced that they'll be with that person for the rest of their lives,they can also wait a few years.

You're an entirely different person at 16...

Darkheaven,I don't doubt that they would love their child,I doubt how ready they are.But thats not the point I was making in my post....

i bet before getting pregnant u used to sit at home all day thinking about "the thousands of people who call teen mothers cheap whores and try and force us to do things like get rid of our babies" i dont think u read it properly because i said before i got pregnant. yh ive been called a slag for being pregnant, but i just laughed about it because what so slutty about a 17 yr old having sex with her bf who shes been with for 6 months? if u wanna get uptight about it, thats up to u. by the way ur goin on, u aint mature enough either

Yep,but your opinions,like the thing you said to me earlier was hurtful to me.That was an insult.Not opinion.

And I did use contraception...

again, i dont think ur reading into it correctly. i didnt COMPARE the two, i compared the fact that someone is getting involved in someone elses situation

ok fare does can i just say one thing tho no matter what age you are no relationship is guaranteed to many split up these days ppl change at all diff times in there lives not just as kids but later on in life if every one waited would any one be truly ready to have babies no i dont think so its some thing we never know whats gonna happen but love can go a bloody long and more important than any money