In my opinion what I think is sad -not wrong- is that it's hard for people -sometimes because of their personalities, sometimes because of their environment and sometimes because of young age- to recognize that they need not act on each and every feeling.
Mature decisions in one's life ought to be based in a lesser manner on feelings than they are on rational thought process involving a lot of mental work to envision all sides, answer all questions and prepare for all alternatives.
I think it's sad that feelings can be this strong and then vanish in an instant. We all had those when we were teens. Hate, love, wants, they were all extreme and we don't relate to any of them nowadays and I also (unconnected) think it is immensely sad if one brings a child into the world without the ability to care for it in a proper manner and without any real proper forethought, simply because the extreme feeling a year ago was that they were ready.
I know im a new memeber here, but this girl asked for help and instead, alot of people started to judge on what her and her partner want to do with their lives. And with the greastest respect..what does it matter if she calls him her husband? I got married at 17, pregnant at 17 also..Im still happily married and my children are my world. I know i am a very lucky person to have all that i have and to find it at such a young age. Maybe they have the same.
i dont know where shes from, but i know that in london (or east london anyway) and parts of essex, girls call their bf their hubby nd boys call their gf their wifey or wife..its probably just cultral confusion where different areas use different terms. just thought id point that out x
Come on ladies - be nice. I have my own thoughts and opinions too but I don't think we need to tell her them I'm sure she has heard it all before, we should be able to ask her our questions but please don't be so quick to judge!
I have my own thoughts and opinions too but I don't think we need to tell her them I'm sure she has heard it all before, we should be able to ask her our questions but please don't be so quick to judge!
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