Until today if people called me a slag. A bad mum because I am 18, disgusting etc All the vile and nasty things some people come out with against teen mum, I used to ge really upset.

Until today. I have tried my best for the last 14 1/2 months to bring my son up the best I can but people seem to always want to bring me down and call me hprrible things. But aidan changed how I felt about that today. Some one had said to me 9 one of my so called friends) That I can't be a good mum because I am too young and he has ruined my life. I sat their crying because I thought she was my friend ( Which I have evry few of now) And suddenly I felt these little arms go around my next and hear uve oo ( Love you) His first proper word And I looked down at my little boys inncoent face and it clicked

I don't need her
I am a good mum
I'm not a slag
My son will grow into a decent young man
And he is the reason I am going to uni in september because he made me determined to make a life for him that he diserves

Any of my friends or anyone is this world have a problem to that. Go tell someone else because you wont bring me down anymore
xx

aww it seems likes hes made you a stronger person hun, im glad youve decided not to listen to people like your so called "friend".

Your a great mum and your son clearly adores you (:

xx

Anyone who says those things to you is a close minded idiot and aren't worth listening too. I hear stories every day about children who have been beaten and killed by their parents, parents who are in their 30's. Age doesn't define what you are as a parent. Your ability to bring love and happiness into a childs life is the most important thing and I'm sure that you give Aidan everything he needs. You are a fab mummy hun, and he has proven that to you today. Bless his little heart. I had a few so called friends slag me off when I got pregnant with Grace because I was only 18. The way I see it is... The worst thing I ever did was get pregnant young. The BEST thing I ever did was go through with it. So maybe it's not ideal to have a baby so young. But you have and you are doing the best job you can. And at least you have somebody there to cuddle up with and kiss goodnight while the only thing they have to cuddle is their bottles of alcohol on their meaningless nights out x

it's obvious that you're an amazing mum hun!
i bet you & little Aidan are both really proud of
eachother, & you have every right to be!

this "friend" of yours really has no idea what she's
talking about, neither does anyone else who says
those sort of things.

Thank you.

Bexy you have done so well and gracey and Ayachan you will be greta too. Just don't let people tell you you will fail because you wont
xx

aw your such a strong person and your son adores you. you are a brilliant mum to me it sounds chin up!

xxxxx

Thanks hun I got a lot more stick when her dad left me. People thought I was stupid thinking I could do it by myself and actually pretty much all of those people who said that "sided" with him and are still his friends but I never speak to them anymore. And good riddance, nobody needs people like that in their lives. And actually the more people tell you you'll fail, the more successful you will want to be. Fact!

Well they defo aren't a "friend" if they can say such a cruel thing, your obviously a brilliant mummy and your little boy loves you unconditionally and always will thats the most important thing in the whole world. You've have all us BNB friends anyway, we know your an amazing mummy so no need to listen to those obviously small minded jealous people.

People should have supported you when he left not turned on you more. Your the better person for ignoring them
xx

Awww <3 don't let it get to u, there's always gna be people out there who will try and put u down, that's what they want; to upset you. Maybe it makes them feel better bout themselves or watever but stuff them. U dnt need people like that in ur life anyways. I've got a few people who what they think matters to me, they keep me strong and I try not to let other people bother me, even though they do at times but I no in the end they don't truly matter. Just keep your chin up and remember every1 on here will be here for u wen u need them.