I really don't care what people think anymore - Page 3

futuremommy91 · Feb 23rd, 2010, 16:15 PM

It's truly amazing how ignorant people can be.
My cousin got pregnant at 19 with a beautiful little girl. She and her boyfriend were able to make it work, and eventually got married. She then had a little boy 2 years later. Despite having jobs and living on their own, both managed to graduate from college on time. She just had her third baby, and is currently working on her master's. They are all stable and so happy together. And all along her "friends" told her she would fail as a mother! Ha!

Age really isn't a deciding factor- despite what these little ****heads are always saying. You all are so brave and strong, and are truly WONDERFUL mummies. I'm in awe of every single one of you.

hopeandpray · Feb 23rd, 2010, 16:33 PM

you sound like an amazing mum! and if youre going to uni clearly then your son has clearly changed your life for the better. it's harding finding out about so called 'friends' but makes you appreciate the real ones so much more

maceycat · Feb 23rd, 2010, 16:43 PM

Omg thats an absolutly amazing thing to say. Your such a strong person and an amazing mummy! Dont you ever dare let people talk to you like that. Or treat you like that! your a mummy

AND children dont ruin your life. They just make Everything soooo much better and they are sooo beautiful. They will always love you...!
Hope your feeling better.
Im always here to talk.. xo

BlazenXx · Feb 23rd, 2010, 20:03 PM

Ok, I just wanted to say how much you have inspired me here. And it almost made me cry to read it, but thank you so much! I now feel better about my past. And, btw, I think you're a great mom, judging by your posts.

sleepinbeauty · Feb 23rd, 2010, 20:07 PM

Way to go! Your story almost made me cry. Your baby is so sweet <3

Someone will always have SOMETHING to say no matter what the situation is. Screw 'em.

KrisKitten · Feb 23rd, 2010, 20:55 PM

aww hat brought tears to my eyes...i cant wait for tommy to speak

I have to say Aiden is an especially cute little boy, you should be so proud of him (im sure u r lol) and yourself.
A very inspirational post, made me feel better about all the raised eyebrows xxxxxxxxxx

purpledahlia · Feb 23rd, 2010, 21:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Aidan's Mummy

Until today if people called me a slag. A bad mum because I am 18, disgusting etc All the vile and nasty things some people come out with against teen mum, I used to ge really upset.

Until today. I have tried my best for the last 14 1/2 months to bring my son up the best I can but people seem to always want to bring me down and call me hprrible things. But aidan changed how I felt about that today. Some one had said to me 9 one of my so called friends) That I can't be a good mum because I am too young and he has ruined my life. I sat their crying because I thought she was my friend ( Which I have evry few of now) And suddenly I felt these little arms go around my next and hear uve oo ( Love you) His first proper word

And I looked down at my little boys inncoent face and it clicked

I don't need her
I am a good mum
I'm not a slag
My son will grow into a decent young man
And he is the reason I am going to uni in september because he made me determined to make a life for him that he diserves

Any of my friends or anyone is this world have a problem to that. Go tell someone else because you wont bring me down anymore
xx

She sounds like a horrible person. Your doing amazing and you have this gorgeous little dude who will love you forever nd look after you when your old. Shallow minded people like that girl are not worthy of yours or aidans time.

Noirin · Feb 23rd, 2010, 21:58 PM

have the same problem hun had some girl writin that im a slag simply because im pregnant and shes not, jealousy hun thats all it is, hold ur head up high ur we man loves u and u luv him...dont let no hater get you down

xx

alysedelovely · Feb 23rd, 2010, 23:49 PM

I am seriously sitting here crying about your story. its amazing how he could see how you felt and he knew just what to say.

people are idiots, thats one thing you have to know. you're a great mom and nothing anyone can say will ever change that. your son adores you and he knows the truth, so do you! it doesnt matter what others think

trying4no1 · Feb 24th, 2010, 01:18 AM

what a complete bitch, she is meant to be ur friend and stand by you, good riddence to her, ur miles better off with out her, go to uni, make something of ur life and rub it in her face silly cow, sorry i dont mean to be rude but i hate it when ppl say young ones cant handle bein a mum, my friend had her first at 18 and her second at 20 and she is a fantasic mum, she is married to the father and yes times are tough but they are the best parents ever.

ur lil boy sounds like a star xx

Feb 23rd, 2010, 16:15 PM	#21
futuremommy91 Waiting To Try (WTT) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Washington State, U.S.A. Posts: 1,114	It's truly amazing how ignorant people can be. My cousin got pregnant at 19 with a beautiful little girl. She and her boyfriend were able to make it work, and eventually got married. She then had a little boy 2 years later. Despite having jobs and living on their own, both managed to graduate from college on time. She just had her third baby, and is currently working on her master's. They are all stable and so happy together. And all along her "friends" told her she would fail as a mother! Ha! Age really isn't a deciding factor- despite what these little ****heads are always saying. You all are so brave and strong, and are truly WONDERFUL mummies. I'm in awe of every single one of you.

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hopeandpray Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 3,847	you sound like an amazing mum! and if youre going to uni clearly then your son has clearly changed your life for the better. it's harding finding out about so called 'friends' but makes you appreciate the real ones so much more

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Feb 23rd, 2010, 16:43 PM	#23
maceycat Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Ireland :) Posts: 115	Omg thats an absolutly amazing thing to say. Your such a strong person and an amazing mummy! Dont you ever dare let people talk to you like that. Or treat you like that! your a mummy AND children dont ruin your life. They just make Everything soooo much better and they are sooo beautiful. They will always love you...! Hope your feeling better. Im always here to talk.. xo

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Feb 23rd, 2010, 20:03 PM	#24
BlazenXx Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: USA sadly, wants to be in the UK Posts: 181	Ok, I just wanted to say how much you have inspired me here. And it almost made me cry to read it, but thank you so much! I now feel better about my past. And, btw, I think you're a great mom, judging by your posts.

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Feb 23rd, 2010, 20:07 PM	#25
sleepinbeauty Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: NY, USA Posts: 3,298	Way to go! Your story almost made me cry. Your baby is so sweet <3 Someone will always have SOMETHING to say no matter what the situation is. Screw 'em.

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Feb 23rd, 2010, 20:55 PM	#26
KrisKitten Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: London Posts: 4,380	aww hat brought tears to my eyes...i cant wait for tommy to speak I have to say Aiden is an especially cute little boy, you should be so proud of him (im sure u r lol) and yourself. A very inspirational post, made me feel better about all the raised eyebrows xxxxxxxxxx

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Feb 23rd, 2010, 21:58 PM	#28
Noirin Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 1,380	have the same problem hun had some girl writin that im a slag simply because im pregnant and shes not, jealousy hun thats all it is, hold ur head up high ur we man loves u and u luv him...dont let no hater get you down xx

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Feb 23rd, 2010, 23:49 PM	#29
alysedelovely Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Roswell, GA, USA Posts: 488	I am seriously sitting here crying about your story. its amazing how he could see how you felt and he knew just what to say. people are idiots, thats one thing you have to know. you're a great mom and nothing anyone can say will ever change that. your son adores you and he knows the truth, so do you! it doesnt matter what others think

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Feb 24th, 2010, 01:18 AM	#30
trying4no1 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 164	what a complete bitch, she is meant to be ur friend and stand by you, good riddence to her, ur miles better off with out her, go to uni, make something of ur life and rub it in her face silly cow, sorry i dont mean to be rude but i hate it when ppl say young ones cant handle bein a mum, my friend had her first at 18 and her second at 20 and she is a fantasic mum, she is married to the father and yes times are tough but they are the best parents ever. ur lil boy sounds like a star xx

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