Kitty16

Vickie

Welcome to the forum. In my opinion it's best to go ahead and tell your mother, she may be shocked at first but hopefully she'll come around quickly, and you can use her support and experience. Good luck

leeanne

I definitely agree with Vickie. Tell her now and get it over with. Otherwise, you will be stressed about it.

Good luck, hon. I hope that everything turns out well for you!

toriaaaaTRASH

I'm 18. I told my mum straight away. I made her promise not to get mad first though.

Sweetie

I"m going to jump on board with everyone else. Probably best to tell your mom now and let her help support you while you get your head wrapped around it all.

Zanny

Long distance relationships are hard, & they're even harder with kids involved.. but believe me, it can be done. Whilst pregnant with my first, I only saw the father (my fiance) about 4 times, & then luckily he made it to the birth. He moved here to be with me when our daughter turned 1, & now we're expecting our 2nd baby.

Tell your mum sooner, rather than later. I know that's easier said than done, but you need to do it. She might get mad, & upset, but I bet she'll come around soon enough. You need the support of your family right now.

Good luck hun.

armychicmkm

I can completely understand you not wanting to tell your mother but pregnancy is not exactly something you can hide and telling her before she figures it out for herself will probably spare a lot of hurt and angry feelings.

Suz

I would tell your mom... It will take some of your fears away

Sarah_16x

First of all congrats .....I dident tell my mum and dad staright away and i wished i did now looking back. I was scared of telling them incase they went mad but in the end i told meh dad first a couple of weeks after i found out then my mum a couple of weeks after i told me dad they were fine about it xxx

mBLACK

Congratulations on your BFP! + Welcome to BnB
I'm 15 years old, and I was in your situation about 4 1/2 months ago. Trust me dear, if you don't blurt it out you probably will never get around to telling her. There are lots of different ways that you can tell her, depending on how she will react. If he first initial reaction is probably going to be extreme anger, I'd write a letter or send an e-mail to give her time to cool off before you discuss this with her. I believe it shows her more respect if you tell it to her face, though, and remember; she probably will get angry or upset, but eventually she will grow to love that little one just as you do and will. Even though it's scary at first, trust me it gets easier, and you are going to love this little one with your heart and soul. If you have any questions don't hesitate to ask, pm me at anytime I'm always around.