hi girls. i'm new. 17w5d along. havent much time to chat and will tell more about myself at a later stage. just need to know...
HOW DID YOU TELL YOUR PARENTS???
ive been trying and trying but freaked myself out too much and now look how far i am and not said anything!
im 22 so not that young but only with my boyfriend a year next month. my mum and sis have ha suspicions and asked me but i always denied it and now i'm worried that my mum will go mad that i lied to her several times.
please help girls. gonna tell her 2nite hopefully.
any miracle ways to do this? what did you all do and is there someway its easier? i know she'll be ok after, i'm just worried about intial reaction. boyfriend is gonna do most of talking!!
please let me know asap so i have some advice before doing this as im super scared!
oh found out its a boy last nite and have a pic so hoping that may help a little!!
hun if you have a good relationship with your mom, even tho u deceived her you can explain it was only out of fear and you have been wanting to tell her and are sorry that you have not said something sooner. she might be a bit angry at first but im sure shell get over it. you have a boyfriend who you have been with for a year, it sounds like youre in a happy relationship and like you said you are not so young. people may be surprised but im sure in the end your family will pull through for you. take a scan pic with if you have one coz they might want to see and just be open and honest. good luck!
Ha ha i said would you like to see something and i showed them the scan photo and it kind of made it all ok cos they were more looking at the pic. That would be my advice if you dont want to just come out and say it. Ha ha ha!! Good Luck!!
Hello, hard isnt it?!!
I just told my mum i had something shocking to tell her and blurted it out! Then cried lots and lots so she was fine and just kept trying to make me feel better!
Good luck xx
You shouldn't have lied to your mom.
She asked you fankly and you should have talked to her.
If she asked you several times then it won't be such a shock to her and she won't be that upset about it.
You're not a baby,they'll help you,but it's important that you guys start dealing with the pregnancy as soon as possible...
Just sit her down and tell her.She probably won't be that surprised...
Just tell her the truth, she will aprreciate it much more than you lying hunni. Whatever her reaction is, if you lie of hide it she will think that you cant talk to her
I text my mum at 6am with a pic of my BFP sayin "mum this means im pregnant doesnt it?" But i have a very very good relationship with my mum
Firstly, congratulations on your boy and your pregnancy.
I found it easy to tell my mum. I knew she'd be mad and upset but I also knew she'd love me even if I murdered someone. Also, I told her the day after I found out. I knew it'd get hard if I left it. I made her promise not to get mad or hate me first too lol. She didn't, she just cried..
I'll tell you exactly how I did it seeing as I'm bored lol.
I did it over the phone, not because I couldn't tell her to her face, but because I was at my friends for a week and I didn't want to leave it that long. I text her and said there was something that I needed to tell her. She called me and asked me what it was. I said I couldn't tell her because I was afraid of her reaction. She said I could tell her anything. I made her promise not to get mad. She promised. I told her. She didn't believe me at first, then, she did. She cried for a while, two days before she stopped completely I think, then she was just fine. Now she's the most excited nan-to-be on the planet. She knows I did what was right for me, my boyfriend and my baby. I wasn't being stupid and I told her that. She said I've ruined my life and I had to explain to her that it wasn't ruined I had just changed it. Yes, I made it slightly more difficult, but since when has anything easy been worth doing?
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