arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!! really want to screammmm!!
my mates r never happy for me, when adam didnt want to know they bad mouthed him for fu**in of an leavin me, now there avin a go because e wants to be there for the baby, makin a effort talkin to me an cummin to see me etc. even though am bein a complete bitch to him!!
they keep sayin es takin advatage of me bu i cnt take away his right to seein his own kid !
Tuff situation. Although, untill the babies here the baby isn't his.. If that makes sense. It's your body. You don't have to have him around while you're pregnant.
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The following user says 'Thanks' to toriaaaaTRASH for this post:
I agree with Toria. You don't need to see him if you don't choose too! Yes, he is the father, and once the baby is born, let him have his day to be a dad. But, right now, it's you carrying the baby and it's your choice to see the dad or not.
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Well, not necessarily.. If you want him involved with your pregnancy, again that's up to you. I'm just saying, if you don't, he doesn't have to be.
The balls in your court right now. It's up to you to do what you think is right for you. If you want him to experience everything then let him. F*ck what anyone else thinks.
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The following user says 'Thanks' to toriaaaaTRASH for this post:
Well, not necessarily.. If you want him involved with your pregnancy, again that's up to you. I'm just saying, if you don't, he doesn't have to be.
The balls in your court right now. It's up to you to do what you think is right for you. If you want him to experience everything then let him. F*ck what anyone else thinks.
i want him to because i still love him, no matter how much he's hurt me! sounds mad when i actually say that to other people.
i care what my mates think thats why i am gettin so stressed about it, i no i shouldn't be bothered about what other people think but oh i don't know, i dont want to make a mistake and fu** everything up, do you know what i mean? xx
Yeah, I know what you mean all too well. Me and Rich have broken up a few times while I've been pregnant and I could never stop him from being involved just because I have feelings for him and if he's not around then I'd just feel bad, I'm not sure whether feeling bad is because he's not involved and that might hurt him or because I just need him around. My friends don't think too highly of him after how he reacted to this pregnancy but they deal with it because they have to. I'm sure your friends will do the same, they're just trying to help (even if they're really not).
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The following user says 'Thanks' to toriaaaaTRASH for this post:
Like the others I agree that right now you are pregnant & he doesn't need to be about right now unless your happy for that.
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they keep sayin es takin advatage of me bu i cnt take away his right to seein his own kid !
Situations like this are never easy if he is taking advantage of you in any way then you have to look out for you as well as baby but just to twist your words a little with the best intentions ....what about taking your babies rights away to see and bond with his Daddy?
I often think unless theres violence, abuse, hard drugs involved then sometimes Mum & Dad have to be adult about it and do whats best for baby but lay it down that hey your not going to be trampled on.
You mates shouldn't really get involved but people always butt in huh. You'll come to whats right for you in the end.
Good luck sweetie x
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