Hey hun, welcome- sad to say, but this is how boys can act when the stark reality of everything hits them!! He probrably didnt have it in his head that he was going to be a dad, but since ur scan it has all become tooo real for him. Time may do the trick, but depending on what his priorities are, u wont know till the baby comes. I really hope you have a strong family network around you cos it is hard doing it on ur own, all the best, Candice xx
I said before that my boyfriend was over the moon about the baby..
Now things have changed
At first I wasnt sure whether it was the right thing to do,
But now after having my scan, and seeing the baby,
Im so sure I want it..
But now he's changed his mind,
Saying the timings wrong and stuff?
He said he would support me whatever,
But he doesnt think its a good idea now..
Im in exactly the same position !! one min he was like i want this baby , talking about moving in 2gever and shit like that ,, nxt it was its not right , we didnt plan to have it so why cant you just get rid ov it ! .. but hes always told me that if i do keep the baby he will be there for me too !! ..
do what you feel is what you really want , and he will come round to the idea, and if he doesnt than fine , you will be great on your own!
either way you dont want to live to regret your decistion .. thats what im thinking anyway
I said before that my boyfriend was over the moon about the baby..
Now things have changed
At first I wasnt sure whether it was the right thing to do,
But now after having my scan, and seeing the baby,
Im so sure I want it..
But now he's changed his mind,
Saying the timings wrong and stuff?
He said he would support me whatever,
But he doesnt think its a good idea now..
this is exactly what happened with me and Jaydens dad, hes probably just scared of how much things are goin to change etc.
jsut take things slow an things wil work themselves out. if e doesnt stick by u an ur baby its his loss, u will b a great mummy xx
At first I said the timing was wrong and stuff,
As Im still quite young,
Just basically worried about everything.
Now Ive got used to the idea,
I love it,
But he's totally changed..
I dont understand it,
He was so happy at the idea of having a baby at first
you will worry but everything will work out boss!
he probably will change his mind once he gets used to the idea, if not you will be a really good mum to your baby. an you will av help of your family + mates (once you tell them) xx
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