i need you guys :'(

Angielove · Feb 8th, 2010, 00:24 AM

I'm getting really harsh comments. From everyone. I don't have family supporting me through this, when i need them the most. I don't know if i can do this alone. People are texting me telling me that i don't deserve to be a mother, and Bella is going to have a bad life growing up and never knowing the father. tThey said i should have given her up. But i love her more then anything in this world. I would never be able to let her go. I don't know what to do anymore. I think i do have some type of depression of some sort from all this. She keeps crying, and wont go back to sleep. I've fed her, and done everything i could. I can't let her cry like this. It breaks my heart. So much is going on in my head. Am i a good mother...Does she deserve someone better then me? I feel so alone. And this may be the depression speaking but i just need someone to talk to. I'm crying as I'm typing this and i just need someone.

And I'm sorry for posting so much in this forum too girls.

dontworry · Feb 8th, 2010, 00:29 AM

You can text me if you need to... I PM'd you my number a few days ago I think. I'm sorry you feel like this.

alysedelovely · Feb 8th, 2010, 00:40 AM

hey girl,
just text you.. haha but I think you should tell everyone to leave you alone if they dont have anything nice to say. you are doing the best you can- they have no right to criticize you. you are a wonderful mother. dont let them tell you any different.

tasha41 · Feb 8th, 2010, 00:42 AM

I'm so sorry hun... I can't believe your family has left you to deal with this all on your own. They are absolutely wrong with everything people are saying to you

I would ignore them or try to get a new number because you do not need that negativity in your life! About the crying hun.. sometimes young babies just cry. It's frustrating because they're clean and fed etc but it happens. No one could be better for her than her mommy <3

I have heard tons of beautiful songs of people thanking their single mothers and expressing their love for them, they are pretty inspiring I think. I know Tupac did a couple for sure.

Feb 8th, 2010, 00:24 AM	#1
Angielove Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 217	i need you guys :'( I'm getting really harsh comments. From everyone. I don't have family supporting me through this, when i need them the most. I don't know if i can do this alone. People are texting me telling me that i don't deserve to be a mother, and Bella is going to have a bad life growing up and never knowing the father. tThey said i should have given her up. But i love her more then anything in this world. I would never be able to let her go. I don't know what to do anymore. I think i do have some type of depression of some sort from all this. She keeps crying, and wont go back to sleep. I've fed her, and done everything i could. I can't let her cry like this. It breaks my heart. So much is going on in my head. Am i a good mother...Does she deserve someone better then me? I feel so alone. And this may be the depression speaking but i just need someone to talk to. I'm crying as I'm typing this and i just need someone. And I'm sorry for posting so much in this forum too girls.

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Feb 8th, 2010, 00:29 AM	#2
dontworry Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: California Posts: 2,752	You can text me if you need to... I PM'd you my number a few days ago I think. I'm sorry you feel like this.

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Feb 8th, 2010, 00:40 AM	#3
alysedelovely Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Roswell, GA, USA Posts: 488	hey girl, just text you.. haha but I think you should tell everyone to leave you alone if they dont have anything nice to say. you are doing the best you can- they have no right to criticize you. you are a wonderful mother. dont let them tell you any different.

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Feb 8th, 2010, 00:42 AM	#4
tasha41 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Hamilton, Canada Posts: 23,921	I'm so sorry hun... I can't believe your family has left you to deal with this all on your own. They are absolutely wrong with everything people are saying to you I would ignore them or try to get a new number because you do not need that negativity in your life! About the crying hun.. sometimes young babies just cry. It's frustrating because they're clean and fed etc but it happens. No one could be better for her than her mommy <3 I have heard tons of beautiful songs of people thanking their single mothers and expressing their love for them, they are pretty inspiring I think. I know Tupac did a couple for sure.

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