samswims

hi. im 16 and just found out im pregnant. im 17 in march. the dad doesnt want anything to do with me. nd he doesn't no im pregnant. im really nervous doing this by my self. any advice would be great

Archies Mummy

Im not gonna lie hun its hard, but once you realise thats your baby and your meant too look afer it, you dont care about anything else you just cope. I fell with my son at 19 and with this one im still only 21, its scary too think im gunna have two kids to cope with. Luckily ive got a great supportive family, what about yours hun?

samswims

they r ok with it. there joking about with it now. my bro's gf just fell pregnant. so they said they will help me. the only problem i no im gonna have 2 go 2 all the scans by myself. i work with my mum. so for me to have a day off. mum gotta work to cover for me

Archies Mummy

I understand about the scans and different m/w appts, i wouldnt want to go on my own either. Do you not have any mates that can go with you?

samswims

my mates just looked down there nose at me.

Archies Mummy

ok so there not very good mates then right?

Where do you live?

samswims

blackpool.

annawrigley

Archies Mummy

Annas right you know, dont be scared about telling him who knows he might even change his mind and will wanna make it work fxed.

samswims

he dumped me by txt. i woke up 1 morning with a txt from him sayin i cba wif u anymore. think the baby will b better off without him. i cant risk him sayin it 2 the baby 1 morning