How Did Your Family Take Your Preganacy At A Young Age? - Page 3

annawrigley · Feb 2nd, 2010, 12:46 PM

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Originally Posted by thedailymail

My parents disowned me! x

fully?! xx

aob1013 · Feb 2nd, 2010, 12:51 PM

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Originally Posted by annawrigley

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Originally Posted by thedailymail

My parents disowned me! x

fully?! xx

Yup, totally. I was fully 'evicted', locks changed on the door etc. So DF and i are now on the housing list for a place .. it's all a bit of a mess really. But we have great support from DF's family.

Natasha2605 · Feb 2nd, 2010, 12:53 PM

My parents were clearly disappointed, and deep down still are. My mum's more accepted of it, had started picking up bits and pieces. My dad took it better than mum but every week or so he makes wee comments about how everything could have been better, that I should be about to start uni not having a child. Really pisses me off. Surely the main thing is I'm happy and who says I can't do both. My extended family, my nana and that havent mentioned it once. Don't give a crap what they think. I'm sure everyone will come around when my LO's born. if not, screw them

I think a lot of peoples hostility will be to do with the way our parents and stuff were brought up. :P

Natasha2605 · Feb 2nd, 2010, 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by thedailymail

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Originally Posted by annawrigley

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Originally Posted by thedailymail

My parents disowned me! x

fully?! xx

Yup, totally. I was fully 'evicted', locks changed on the door etc. So DF and i are now on the housing list for a place .. it's all a bit of a mess really. But we have great support from DF's family.

Jesus! I was annoyed at the way my family reacted but its nothing compared to yours. Seems so extreme

aob1013 · Feb 2nd, 2010, 12:56 PM

Yeah, it was very very unpleasant. BUT it is their loss, they will be the ones missing out!

AyaChan · Feb 2nd, 2010, 13:11 PM

My mother & older sister disowned me, but we were never that close so it doesn't bother me tbh, my grand parents and FOB's mother wanted me to have an abortion too, but we decided against it. His stepmother and father were upset at first but they're so supportive now and my aunties have been brilliant tbf.
I think it just takes time for them to come around. Shes your mum and before long I'm sure she'll realise how much you need her right now, she just needs to come to terms witht he fact her "little girl" is grown up now (:

annawrigley · Feb 2nd, 2010, 13:13 PM

poor you!! glad your fiance and his family are being supportive

xx

EmziixBo0o · Feb 2nd, 2010, 13:16 PM

my dad wasnt very happy at all
cus i was always "daddys little girl" even tho him + mom broke up when i was really little and they both moved on + stuff..
but like my mom was okay tbh she was chufted..
dads just coming around too it..
they do just come round.. give it some time + try + stay outta there way for a little bit so she can come to terms x

chocaccino · Feb 2nd, 2010, 13:25 PM

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Originally Posted by SehBerry

Im 19 Years Old.. My mum wanted me to have an abortion.. i went to the clinic but i couldnt do it... i wanted my mum to be happy but when i thought about it... i wouldnt be happy... an if i went thought with it i would resent my mum.. an i didnt want that...
i had a session wit a counciler... for nearly 2 hrs... an she put it all in to perspective for me...
i came out an tried to tell my mum i was keeping my babes.. she wouldnt look at me... hardly talk to me.. she kept walking away.. all i wanted her to do was hug an me tell me she will be there for me... i can understand its hard.. but its life it happpens...
do u think she will b okay?

Me and my mum went through a similar situation, we hardly talked and i just couldn't understand why. Gradually she's come round and she's put things into perspective, im sure your mum will be the same!!

xxx

SehBerry · Feb 2nd, 2010, 15:08 PM

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Originally Posted by thedailymail

My parents disowned me! x

im sorry to hear that.... xxx

Feb 2nd, 2010, 12:53 PM	#23
Natasha2605 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Edinburgh, UK Posts: 5,852	My parents were clearly disappointed, and deep down still are. My mum's more accepted of it, had started picking up bits and pieces. My dad took it better than mum but every week or so he makes wee comments about how everything could have been better, that I should be about to start uni not having a child. Really pisses me off. Surely the main thing is I'm happy and who says I can't do both. My extended family, my nana and that havent mentioned it once. Don't give a crap what they think. I'm sure everyone will come around when my LO's born. if not, screw them I think a lot of peoples hostility will be to do with the way our parents and stuff were brought up. :P

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Feb 2nd, 2010, 12:56 PM	#25
aob1013 Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: UK Posts: 10,675	Yeah, it was very very unpleasant. BUT it is their loss, they will be the ones missing out!

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Feb 2nd, 2010, 13:11 PM	#26
AyaChan Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: South Wales Posts: 2,461	My mother & older sister disowned me, but we were never that close so it doesn't bother me tbh, my grand parents and FOB's mother wanted me to have an abortion too, but we decided against it. His stepmother and father were upset at first but they're so supportive now and my aunties have been brilliant tbf. I think it just takes time for them to come around. Shes your mum and before long I'm sure she'll realise how much you need her right now, she just needs to come to terms witht he fact her "little girl" is grown up now (:

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Feb 2nd, 2010, 13:13 PM	#27
annawrigley Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: York, UK Posts: 10,807	poor you!! glad your fiance and his family are being supportive xx

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Feb 2nd, 2010, 13:16 PM	#28
EmziixBo0o Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Birmingham Posts: 2,926	my dad wasnt very happy at all cus i was always "daddys little girl" even tho him + mom broke up when i was really little and they both moved on + stuff.. but like my mom was okay tbh she was chufted.. dads just coming around too it.. they do just come round.. give it some time + try + stay outta there way for a little bit so she can come to terms x

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