How Did Your Family Take Your Preganacy At A Young Age? - Page 2

05wilkesm · Feb 2nd, 2010, 05:08 AM

my mum said if she could have it her way she'd drag me to the place to get an abortion, but she also said its my decision and that when she was my age she was like me like been with her boyfriend for months and thought she was in love and would have kept the baby, when i told ehr i was keeping it she was okay about it, now shes totally used to it so its great

..i werent speaking too my dad at the time but since ive made up with him and seen him hes fine and really excited, my boyfriends family were okay his dad needs too grow up and starting going mad about it which led to a few nasty phone calls to him from my mum haha! everyones fine now apart from boyfriends dad he blow hot and cold which is fine with me cos he can pee off when the bubbas here!

All mums will find it hard to come round cos its like there little angel having a baby but im sure after a while she'l lcome round and be excited about being a grannie

xx

Midnight_Fairy · Feb 2nd, 2010, 05:25 AM

I was 16 when I was pregnant with my first.My mum and dad were upset. At the time I didnt realise why they were so affected BUT now I amolder I realise. It wasnt just my life that was going to change but theres too, the whole family had to change as I ws going to be living at my mums with a baby.My sister had to move into the small room etc,its only now I realise how grateful I am for them.

After the inital shock they were very supportive x

Adelaide · Feb 2nd, 2010, 05:38 AM

i just told mine today
im 17 - they were just really upset about it
and the fact that the country im in u have to be married to have a baby here or you get arrested so i have to go bck to the UK and theyre more upset they cant be there to support me through the pregnancy

tasha41 · Feb 2nd, 2010, 05:48 AM

I was 18 when I found out I was pregnant.

My mom was okay from the start and very supportive. She is the best grandma ever!!

My dad was not. He told me he'd be supportive but he was a dick to me the entire pregnancy telling me I wasn't ready and was immature and was ruining my life, tried to convince me to terminate. Now he is great with the baby but still a douche to me.

PleaseBaby · Feb 2nd, 2010, 05:50 AM

My mum was fantastic apparently she had a 'feeling' shes looking at prams already lol

Charlotte23 · Feb 2nd, 2010, 07:09 AM

I think I'm quite lucky in the sense that if I ever got pregnant I know that my mum would be overjoyed. She can't wait to be a Nannie! She knows I'm mature for my age (I'm 20 in a couple weeks) and although I would struggle, I would make it through and I'd always have her to help me. I haven't spoken to my dad in 16 months and don't plan on doing so again to be honest. Part of me wonders "Will he call when he hears the news?" but deep down I know that I will never hear from him again.

SehBerry · Feb 2nd, 2010, 07:17 AM

Thanks For All The Support Girls... I Hope She Does Come Around I Tried To Talk To Her Today But Have Got Nothing Out Of Her...
Guess I Just Have To Wait Fr Her To Come Around
An Prove To Her I Can Do This..
=]
x

annawrigley · Feb 2nd, 2010, 12:10 PM

i was 16 and they were surprisingly very 'cool' about it. hope she comes round

xx

RainbowDrop_x · Feb 2nd, 2010, 12:39 PM

I'm 19.. My mum was ok with it.. A bit disappointed I think at first but she came round and didn't take long.. Now she's more excited than me I think lol.. Same with my dad.. Took him a little longer to come round but he said that's only because I'm his only child and a girl so no matter what age it happened he was never going to take kindly to it.. But like I said his brill now.

My family were pretty good overall.. And they've been really supportive.. Even though they weren't jumping over the moon when I first told them lol

xxx

aob1013 · Feb 2nd, 2010, 12:40 PM

My parents disowned me! x

Feb 2nd, 2010, 05:08 AM	#11
05wilkesm Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Essex, England Posts: 1,195	my mum said if she could have it her way she'd drag me to the place to get an abortion, but she also said its my decision and that when she was my age she was like me like been with her boyfriend for months and thought she was in love and would have kept the baby, when i told ehr i was keeping it she was okay about it, now shes totally used to it so its great ..i werent speaking too my dad at the time but since ive made up with him and seen him hes fine and really excited, my boyfriends family were okay his dad needs too grow up and starting going mad about it which led to a few nasty phone calls to him from my mum haha! everyones fine now apart from boyfriends dad he blow hot and cold which is fine with me cos he can pee off when the bubbas here! All mums will find it hard to come round cos its like there little angel having a baby but im sure after a while she'l lcome round and be excited about being a grannie xx

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Feb 2nd, 2010, 05:25 AM	#12
Midnight_Fairy Other BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: South Coast UK Posts: 17,331	I was 16 when I was pregnant with my first.My mum and dad were upset. At the time I didnt realise why they were so affected BUT now I amolder I realise. It wasnt just my life that was going to change but theres too, the whole family had to change as I ws going to be living at my mums with a baby.My sister had to move into the small room etc,its only now I realise how grateful I am for them. After the inital shock they were very supportive x

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Feb 2nd, 2010, 05:38 AM	#13
Adelaide Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 234	i just told mine today im 17 - they were just really upset about it and the fact that the country im in u have to be married to have a baby here or you get arrested so i have to go bck to the UK and theyre more upset they cant be there to support me through the pregnancy

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Feb 2nd, 2010, 05:48 AM	#14
tasha41 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Hamilton, Canada Posts: 23,921	I was 18 when I found out I was pregnant. My mom was okay from the start and very supportive. She is the best grandma ever!! My dad was not. He told me he'd be supportive but he was a dick to me the entire pregnancy telling me I wasn't ready and was immature and was ruining my life, tried to convince me to terminate. Now he is great with the baby but still a douche to me.

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Feb 2nd, 2010, 05:50 AM	#15
PleaseBaby Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: uk Posts: 1,300	My mum was fantastic apparently she had a 'feeling' shes looking at prams already lol

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Feb 2nd, 2010, 07:09 AM	#16
Charlotte23 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: England Posts: 214	I think I'm quite lucky in the sense that if I ever got pregnant I know that my mum would be overjoyed. She can't wait to be a Nannie! She knows I'm mature for my age (I'm 20 in a couple weeks) and although I would struggle, I would make it through and I'd always have her to help me. I haven't spoken to my dad in 16 months and don't plan on doing so again to be honest. Part of me wonders "Will he call when he hears the news?" but deep down I know that I will never hear from him again.

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Feb 2nd, 2010, 07:17 AM	#17
SehBerry Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: London Posts: 29	Thanks For All The Support Girls... I Hope She Does Come Around I Tried To Talk To Her Today But Have Got Nothing Out Of Her... Guess I Just Have To Wait Fr Her To Come Around An Prove To Her I Can Do This.. =] x

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Feb 2nd, 2010, 12:10 PM	#18
annawrigley Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: York, UK Posts: 10,807	i was 16 and they were surprisingly very 'cool' about it. hope she comes round xx

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Feb 2nd, 2010, 12:39 PM	#19
RainbowDrop_x Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 7,727	I'm 19.. My mum was ok with it.. A bit disappointed I think at first but she came round and didn't take long.. Now she's more excited than me I think lol.. Same with my dad.. Took him a little longer to come round but he said that's only because I'm his only child and a girl so no matter what age it happened he was never going to take kindly to it.. But like I said his brill now. My family were pretty good overall.. And they've been really supportive.. Even though they weren't jumping over the moon when I first told them lol xxx

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Feb 2nd, 2010, 12:40 PM	#20
aob1013 Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: UK Posts: 10,675	My parents disowned me! x

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