Rachel16+Bump

as most of you all know the last few months havent been the easiest with things going wrong from my grandad dying of cancer () to having to find some were else to live and arguing with the babys dad, the love of my life who i also lost and i just wanted to say thank you to everyone who has supported me and gave me advice. without the people on this site i dont think i could have stook this pregnancy out because of the stress i am under, if i personally knew every single one of yous i would give yous the biggest hug ever but i guess since i dont a hug on here will have to do haha

this site has opened my eyes to a few things i didnt notice before such as the way people react differently to pregnancy and the age of the person who is pregnant. this site has also helped me when i have needed advice on things and all i had to do was look on peoples thread and i could relax a little.

sorry for rambling, il shut up now haha. thanks everyone xxxxx

toriaaaaTRASH

I hope things get better for you, I really do!

leeanne

nikky0907

Hope everything goes well...

Rachel16+Bump

things seem to be looking up when i take a step back and look at things from different angles.

1. Adam, i may not still be with the love of my life but at least my baby will have a daddy.

2. my grandad may have passed away but he is not in any more pain. xx

3. i may have to move out but i will learn to depend on myself a little more, giving me the chance to prove i can be mature and grown up.

4. i am still in school and doing my GCSEs and no matter how stressful they get at least i no at the end of it i will have my qualifications that i have worked so hard for and i have Jayden to thank for that, becuase before i got pregnant i was out every day drinkin ale gettin bladderd an not goin to school etc. but he gave me the wake up call i needed!

5. i have a job to provide for me an my baby no matter how hard it gets at times

6. i have the greatest mates i could have ever asked for and the best support i could ever need

and last of all i may have a depression + anger problem but i am working on it so i can be a good mum to my baby no matter what!
xxx

maddiwatts19

Aww bless you!!
I know how you feel about your Granddad. I lost mine 4 years ago. He practicly brought me up with my mum and dad and it killed me to go from seeing him everyday to not seeing him at all...I miss him more and more everyday...

I hope things are on the up for you now hun! You deserve it!
xxxx

alteasdale

you are such a strong and mature person!

i'm sure you will get through this, your determination shows that.

I am only 19 and left home at 16 before my GCSEs. It can be done hun. I wish you all the best hun.

xxx

Nikkinoonoo

Wishing you lots of luck Rachel, It's great to see you looking at things positively xXx

mama2connor

You seem so mature, and seem to have your head screwed on! I was only 16 when i had my son, so as you know, in the space of 9 months you have alot of changing to do, and also growing up to do aswell. It can be alot to take in, but being a mummy is SO rewarding, but can also be challenging at the best of times. Seems to me like your going to do just great.

mBLACK

Don't worry everything will always work out for the best. There's a plan for everything dear never forget