Wobbles

If man could have babies & they were under 20 I would be worried but us women hold things up & mature quite quickly :wink:

Dippy Yvanne

its def worth it like!!! my kids r my worl, nothing will change that(just dont ask me at 3am wen callum has woken 4 the 3rd time in an hr!!!)

lexis_mommy

LOL yeah i feel a bit differently when alexis is up in the night as well but all in all i love being a mom it's the best thing i ever did

Sarah_N_Braydon

i know exactly wot u mean hun i look like 14 even tho im 19 i even get ID'd wen i buy ciggys for my mum
as long as we love our babies stuff wot others think

Helen

People are so judgemental.

If it's any consolation, my mate is nearly 40 and gets funny looks because she doesn't have a wedding ring and her husband (charming fellow) left her when she was PG with number 2.

Dippy Yvanne

but then again....

turning the tables....

if u seen a 19 (or younger) year old in town with 2 kids on her own wot wud u think??!!!

Helen

Up until recently.... the same thing I thought every time I saw any mother or PG woman...


AAAARRRRRGGGHHHHHH!!!!!! Why not me?!?!?

I'm afraid to confess that I'd see something bad in every mother... look she doesn't even realise his shoelace is undone.....why is she dragging him along like that..... why don't they have their seatbelts on...... why is she feeding them those awful sweets.... and then say to myself.... I could do this so much better. Why aren't I getting the chance?

If women saw me glaring at them, it was jealousy and self-pity. Pure and simple.

lexis_mommy

awww helen now you will have TWO bundles to love and tie their shoes i think its normal for you to have felt jealous

and yvanne haha i guess thats true, i try not to be judgemental, but i guess its human (womens??) nature to have a nasty comment slide through even if we don't really mean it. then i check myself and remind myself that i don't know them or their situation and send out a smile well unless i'm in a crap mood LOL

sophie

People are just so rude these days .
dont worry chick im 26 an i still get the odd look with Kai when in town on my own with him! I also get asked for ID in Asda evertime i try to buy alchohol i got asked for ID when tryin to get in Jumping Jaks this time last yr!! Good job i take it just incase!

sophie

Awww helen i missed this bit! I have to admit even with me having one child already, i do look at expectin mothers to be an feel so jealous, cos its what i want more than anything at the min! So i know kinda not as much but sorta how u felt hun.
xxx