yeah i get it all the time everywhere...i live in a small town and everyone knows everyones business..but is what people saying about you more important than ur baby? my wee cousin goes to a catholic school and there is 6 girls in her year pregnant...and they are still in the school. Its going to come out at one point..But im sure ul still be a skinny minnie by the time ur exams come in may :-)
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The following user says 'Thanks' to Kayles1/8/08 for this post:
well yeah it might sound really selfish of me but everyone wants different things. people who are ttc may be devestated that they don't have a baby and i recognise that completly, but being pregnant in a particular circumstance can be equally as devestating. obviously i can admit that i f***** up and i was so stupid, but i can guarrantee that i have cried just as much, if not even more than someone who cannot have a baby. that doesn't mean that im right, because im not, i probably sound like a complete bitch. however, if i was ttc, i would be more pissed off about the fact that some girls are using abortion as a form of contraception, but i have chosen to keep the baby and i think, for me, that is enough. im not taking away my baby's right to live, im just trying to balance it out, so that i can still have a life aswell.
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The following user says 'Thanks' to ella170 for this post:
sweetie, I went to a catholic school and a couple of girls there were pregnant just before their exams. It's doubtful that you'll be obviously showing sweetheart, your uniform will most likely hide your bump a bit, and you'll only be going into school for the exams, you'll not be there all day every day. Your school don't have a right to ask you if you're pregnant (as far as I know).
I do find some of your comments upsetting though.
Good luck x
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The following user says 'Thanks' to Mynxie for this post:
I agree with mynxie, your comments were upsetting and clearly you need to go and make up your mind on what you are going to do, i always say the truth can't harm you, and the unessacary stress aint good for the baby.
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The following user says 'Thanks' to jacky24 for this post:
i really cant win can i. u wanna keep the baby- people make u feel guilty, u wanna have an abortion- people make u feel guilty, u wanna hide the bump- people make u feel guilty. im sorry that im still a kid and that ive never been so scared in my life and dont think that i ever will be, im sorry that im not false, im upfront and not afraid to share my opinions. i completly sympathise with anyone who cannot have kids. i find it really upsetting how many people stick to one opinion and fail to comprehend what it may be like for other people in a different situation.
I understand how upsetting it must be that ur young still in school etc etc... But i agree with the others ur comment there wasn't a very good one.
Just because your having a baby doesn't mean ur life stops..its just the beginning of a new one..
I myself am against abortion and respect ur choice of keeping the baby..
but u need to snap back into reality..everyone will know one day..wether its tommorow or 9 months time.. I don't think ur taking a very mature approach about this and ur just in denial..uve chose to keep this baby...so like it or not its gna be there infront of u one day and thats a bit hard to hide
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The following user says 'Thanks' to Kayles1/8/08 for this post:
no - one is making u feel guilty of anything.. its your choice and ur body but be realisitic babe..everyones gonna click on one day..try not to worry to much now..uve still got a while to go before theres no way u can hide it..and the 12 week mark is wen reccomended to tell ppl if u want to..so u dont need to worry x
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