facebook pics?

clogsy90 · Dec 23rd, 2009, 15:07 PM

can i just ask for those who have had lil one or are expecting what have you done about photos? i have decided that i don't wants others having photos of her except for me and OH as we know who we have on our facebook, and with this day and age you can get some sickos out there unfortunatly, so this his mother not having an pics and he thinks this is unreasonable do you think it is? she will be our baby and i just want to know who is seeing her :S

sarah0108 · Dec 23rd, 2009, 15:31 PM

im generally the only one who uploads photos of harriet, her daddy only puts ones up he steals off my facebook haha

a few of my mates have some of her up on there's but i dont mind to much

x

purpledaisy2 · Dec 23rd, 2009, 15:41 PM

You're not going to let his mum have any pictures?

clogsy90 · Dec 23rd, 2009, 15:47 PM

i no it sounds harsh but shes acting like she her property and ie been having alot of trouble with her lately i honestly feel like im ready to leave OH just cos of her i feel like a total bitch but im so close to tears cos her

i don't know if its the hormones but she is basically slagging me off to OH as i don't tell her everything when theres nothing to tell

sorry i think im feeling sorry for myself grr just ignore me :P

annawrigley · Dec 23rd, 2009, 16:05 PM

i think facebook brought in the new privacy settings to make this kinda thing more safe.
personally im not worried about publishing pictures... yes there are some sickos out there but if you set all the privacy settings of those pictures to "friends only" then there shouldnt be a problem

xx

xhollie92x · Dec 23rd, 2009, 16:23 PM

You can set your ablums to friends only on facebook, but if you still don't want pics on LO up that's up to you, no one else! But i wouldn't stop his mum having pics of her if it was me x

Zebra Stars · Dec 23rd, 2009, 17:03 PM

because my family are spreasd out i am going to put scans up & just a pic when LO is born with me & OH

mum2beagain · Dec 23rd, 2009, 17:07 PM

i think not letting your oh's mum have pictures of her grandchild is abit unfair however if u mean not having them on her fb then i can see where u are coming fromif u just ment not wanting her to put them on fb maybe try and explain this to oh and see if he can soeak to her

purpledaisy2 · Dec 23rd, 2009, 17:39 PM

I think if you are not comfortable putting them on facebook then thats fair enough ( although the new privacy settings make it alot safer/private )

However, I think its unfair to not let your MIL have any pictures at all, even if you dont get on it is still her granchild

clogsy90 · Dec 24th, 2009, 04:44 AM

i spoke to OH this morning about how she has been making me feel, i think it was just something that pushed me and i explained how i feel and he understands he says he will speak to her. its a long list of things she has done, after i found out i was pregnant they got a dog which is notorious for being dangerous and as you can understand i told her i was cautious as anyone would be and had said i wudn't let her see the baby which i would never do, she then phoned OH saying i was being unreasonable about it and slagging me off, i work at the same place as her and this morning i found out she has been telling people at work that i won't let her see the baby, so i think what happened last night was me just being pushed and feeling quite hormonal

and when OH wudnt back me up it got to me

Dec 23rd, 2009, 15:07 PM	#1
clogsy90 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: lincoln Posts: 788	facebook pics? can i just ask for those who have had lil one or are expecting what have you done about photos? i have decided that i don't wants others having photos of her except for me and OH as we know who we have on our facebook, and with this day and age you can get some sickos out there unfortunatly, so this his mother not having an pics and he thinks this is unreasonable do you think it is? she will be our baby and i just want to know who is seeing her :S

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Dec 23rd, 2009, 15:31 PM	#2
sarah0108 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2009 Location: Amongst the chaos Posts: 14,842	im generally the only one who uploads photos of harriet, her daddy only puts ones up he steals off my facebook haha a few of my mates have some of her up on there's but i dont mind to much x

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Dec 23rd, 2009, 15:41 PM	#3
purpledaisy2 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Up North, UK Posts: 3,654	You're not going to let his mum have any pictures?

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Dec 23rd, 2009, 15:47 PM	#4
clogsy90 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: lincoln Posts: 788	i no it sounds harsh but shes acting like she her property and ie been having alot of trouble with her lately i honestly feel like im ready to leave OH just cos of her i feel like a total bitch but im so close to tears cos her i don't know if its the hormones but she is basically slagging me off to OH as i don't tell her everything when theres nothing to tell sorry i think im feeling sorry for myself grr just ignore me :P

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Dec 23rd, 2009, 16:05 PM	#5
annawrigley Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: York, UK Posts: 10,807	i think facebook brought in the new privacy settings to make this kinda thing more safe. personally im not worried about publishing pictures... yes there are some sickos out there but if you set all the privacy settings of those pictures to "friends only" then there shouldnt be a problem xx

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xhollie92x Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 50	You can set your ablums to friends only on facebook, but if you still don't want pics on LO up that's up to you, no one else! But i wouldn't stop his mum having pics of her if it was me x

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Zebra Stars Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: North Wales Posts: 1,254	because my family are spreasd out i am going to put scans up & just a pic when LO is born with me & OH

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Dec 23rd, 2009, 17:07 PM	#8
mum2beagain Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: guildford Posts: 2,298	i think not letting your oh's mum have pictures of her grandchild is abit unfair however if u mean not having them on her fb then i can see where u are coming fromif u just ment not wanting her to put them on fb maybe try and explain this to oh and see if he can soeak to her

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Dec 23rd, 2009, 17:39 PM	#9
purpledaisy2 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Up North, UK Posts: 3,654	I think if you are not comfortable putting them on facebook then thats fair enough ( although the new privacy settings make it alot safer/private ) However, I think its unfair to not let your MIL have any pictures at all, even if you dont get on it is still her granchild

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Dec 24th, 2009, 04:44 AM	#10
clogsy90 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: lincoln Posts: 788	i spoke to OH this morning about how she has been making me feel, i think it was just something that pushed me and i explained how i feel and he understands he says he will speak to her. its a long list of things she has done, after i found out i was pregnant they got a dog which is notorious for being dangerous and as you can understand i told her i was cautious as anyone would be and had said i wudn't let her see the baby which i would never do, she then phoned OH saying i was being unreasonable about it and slagging me off, i work at the same place as her and this morning i found out she has been telling people at work that i won't let her see the baby, so i think what happened last night was me just being pushed and feeling quite hormonal and when OH wudnt back me up it got to me

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