clogsy90

can i just ask for those who have had lil one or are expecting what have you done about photos? i have decided that i don't wants others having photos of her except for me and OH as we know who we have on our facebook, and with this day and age you can get some sickos out there unfortunatly, so this his mother not having an pics and he thinks this is unreasonable do you think it is? she will be our baby and i just want to know who is seeing her :S

sarah0108

im generally the only one who uploads photos of harriet, her daddy only puts ones up he steals off my facebook haha

a few of my mates have some of her up on there's but i dont mind to much x

purpledaisy2

You're not going to let his mum have any pictures?

clogsy90

i no it sounds harsh but shes acting like she her property and ie been having alot of trouble with her lately i honestly feel like im ready to leave OH just cos of her i feel like a total bitch but im so close to tears cos her i don't know if its the hormones but she is basically slagging me off to OH as i don't tell her everything when theres nothing to tell sorry i think im feeling sorry for myself grr just ignore me :P

annawrigley

xhollie92x

You can set your ablums to friends only on facebook, but if you still don't want pics on LO up that's up to you, no one else! But i wouldn't stop his mum having pics of her if it was me x

Zebra Stars

because my family are spreasd out i am going to put scans up & just a pic when LO is born with me & OH

mum2beagain

i think not letting your oh's mum have pictures of her grandchild is abit unfair however if u mean not having them on her fb then i can see where u are coming fromif u just ment not wanting her to put them on fb maybe try and explain this to oh and see if he can soeak to her

purpledaisy2

I think if you are not comfortable putting them on facebook then thats fair enough ( although the new privacy settings make it alot safer/private )

However, I think its unfair to not let your MIL have any pictures at all, even if you dont get on it is still her granchild

clogsy90

i spoke to OH this morning about how she has been making me feel, i think it was just something that pushed me and i explained how i feel and he understands he says he will speak to her. its a long list of things she has done, after i found out i was pregnant they got a dog which is notorious for being dangerous and as you can understand i told her i was cautious as anyone would be and had said i wudn't let her see the baby which i would never do, she then phoned OH saying i was being unreasonable about it and slagging me off, i work at the same place as her and this morning i found out she has been telling people at work that i won't let her see the baby, so i think what happened last night was me just being pushed and feeling quite hormonal and when OH wudnt back me up it got to me