Pregnant at 14 i dont know what to do!!! help plzz

lizzy2009 · Dec 20th, 2009, 20:36 PM

hii i have recently discovered i am pregnant i am so scared!! My mom and dad will disown me if i told them theres only me and my best mate that knows. I am only 14 still in school can i have some advice please.xx#

thanks

xxxjacxxx · Dec 21st, 2009, 04:10 AM

Moved into teen section for you hun, you might get more support in here.
my advice to you would be please dont do this alone, try and tell somebody you trust. Sure your parents are not going to be over the moon with you but i'm sure once the initial shock wears off they will just want the best for you and your unborn baby. Now is the time you need people around you, its a scary time for any pregnant lady, let alone a 14 year old. My daughter is 11 and I hope to god, if this ever happened to her she would trust me enought to tell me.
Good Luck honey

sma1588 · Dec 21st, 2009, 04:17 AM

hi hun just wanted to say even if things are hard now with telling your parents you really need to so you have there support after the inital shock. you are not the only 14 yr old preg. on here there is another girl on here as well. im not really a teen myself but i just wanted to tell you that and please make sure you get to your doctor apts and do the best you can with it. good luck hun hope everything turns out the way you want it to

Jemma_x · Dec 21st, 2009, 04:22 AM

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Originally Posted by xxxjacquixxx

my advice to you would be please dont do this alone, try and tell somebody you trust. Sure your parents are not going to be over the moon with you but i'm sure once the initial shock wears off they will just want the best for you and your unborn baby. Now is the time you need people around you, its a scary time for any pregnant lady, let alone a 14 year old. My daughter is 11 and I hope to god, if this ever happened to her she would trust me enought to tell me.
Good Luck honey

I agree with jacqui, pregnancy is a hard time for anyone and even though i was 18 when i was pregnant i still needed all the support i could get. If you cant tell your parents is there a teacher or a close family friend you could tell?

Maddiee · Dec 21st, 2009, 04:32 AM

i agree with xxxjacquixxx. please do not attempt this on your own.

i'm 16 and 23 weeks pregnant and i was scared when i found out so i cannot imagine how you are feeling.

PM me if you need to chat.

kimbobaloobob · Dec 21st, 2009, 04:36 AM

heys hun is there anyone at school you can talk to, a mentor or teacher. The wont tell your parents as what ever you go to them with is confidential. You need to concider your options though and think what you want and what is best for you.
xx

trashit · Dec 21st, 2009, 05:14 AM

Im 16 and 29 and a half weeks pg, and im scared so you must be reallly scared. I agree wiv the others, you need to consider all your options, and someone needs to know. I know it seems hard telling your parents right now but it will feel like a huge weights been lifted off your shoulders when you do. Good luck hun, im sure it will be fine

x

AnnabelsMummy · Dec 21st, 2009, 05:25 AM

Hey honey,
i know how hard it can be, and i'm 17 and quite newly preganant too, and when i first found out i really really freaked out, and i still havent told my mum, but i went to a clinic and to my G.P and they were really helpful and told me my options, and didn't tell my perants..
i'm telling my mum when i'm 12 weeks (3 months) which is only about 2 weeks away, and i hope she'll support me, but i know if she doesn't there is other ways around it.
Try and find all your options and see maybe what your options would be if your perants didn't support you, does the Father of the baby know? and how old is he? (if you don't mind me asking)
Hugs, and hope you're okay from all of us!!
xxxx

Jess&BooBabyX · Dec 21st, 2009, 12:10 PM

You need to tell someone.
I got pregnant at 14 with my daughter too. So I know exactly how scary it is. You really need to tell your parents so they can help you.
If you need to chat just PM me

Hope your ok

x

Zebra Stars · Dec 21st, 2009, 13:12 PM

ive just turned 17 & im 7 weeks, if u need to talk feel free to PM me

Dec 20th, 2009, 20:36 PM	#1
lizzy2009 Pregnant (Expecting) New BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: London Posts: 5	Pregnant at 14 i dont know what to do!!! help plzz hii i have recently discovered i am pregnant i am so scared!! My mom and dad will disown me if i told them theres only me and my best mate that knows. I am only 14 still in school can i have some advice please.xx# thanks

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xxxjacxxx AutoSignup (SAAB) BnB Elite Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: N. Wales Posts: 15,770	Moved into teen section for you hun, you might get more support in here. my advice to you would be please dont do this alone, try and tell somebody you trust. Sure your parents are not going to be over the moon with you but i'm sure once the initial shock wears off they will just want the best for you and your unborn baby. Now is the time you need people around you, its a scary time for any pregnant lady, let alone a 14 year old. My daughter is 11 and I hope to god, if this ever happened to her she would trust me enought to tell me. Good Luck honey

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sma1588 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: california USA Posts: 3,481	hi hun just wanted to say even if things are hard now with telling your parents you really need to so you have there support after the inital shock. you are not the only 14 yr old preg. on here there is another girl on here as well. im not really a teen myself but i just wanted to tell you that and please make sure you get to your doctor apts and do the best you can with it. good luck hun hope everything turns out the way you want it to

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Maddiee Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Australia Posts: 803	i agree with xxxjacquixxx. please do not attempt this on your own. i'm 16 and 23 weeks pregnant and i was scared when i found out so i cannot imagine how you are feeling. PM me if you need to chat.

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kimbobaloobob Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: stoke on trent Posts: 1,689	heys hun is there anyone at school you can talk to, a mentor or teacher. The wont tell your parents as what ever you go to them with is confidential. You need to concider your options though and think what you want and what is best for you. xx

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trashit Pregnant (Expecting) Join Date: May 2009 Location: YORKSHIREEE :) Posts: 4,745	Im 16 and 29 and a half weeks pg, and im scared so you must be reallly scared. I agree wiv the others, you need to consider all your options, and someone needs to know. I know it seems hard telling your parents right now but it will feel like a huge weights been lifted off your shoulders when you do. Good luck hun, im sure it will be fine x

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AnnabelsMummy Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: London Posts: 3,638	Hey honey, i know how hard it can be, and i'm 17 and quite newly preganant too, and when i first found out i really really freaked out, and i still havent told my mum, but i went to a clinic and to my G.P and they were really helpful and told me my options, and didn't tell my perants.. i'm telling my mum when i'm 12 weeks (3 months) which is only about 2 weeks away, and i hope she'll support me, but i know if she doesn't there is other ways around it. Try and find all your options and see maybe what your options would be if your perants didn't support you, does the Father of the baby know? and how old is he? (if you don't mind me asking) Hugs, and hope you're okay from all of us!! xxxx

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Jess&BooBabyX Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 46	You need to tell someone. I got pregnant at 14 with my daughter too. So I know exactly how scary it is. You really need to tell your parents so they can help you. If you need to chat just PM me Hope your ok x

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Zebra Stars Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: North Wales Posts: 1,254	ive just turned 17 & im 7 weeks, if u need to talk feel free to PM me

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