mBLACK

Hm well I'm 15 and was 14 when I got pregnant, my advice is tell somebody you are close to (an adult), somebody who will support you, will not judge you and help you think of your options.
Remember there are 3 - raising the baby, adoption and abortion. It might seem hard at first once your family finds out but don't worry, gradually they will come to terms with this and accept it.

mBLACK

I also told my grandparents and parents that I used a condom everytime but it broke I think they know I bullshitted though!

Liz

At the end of the day girlies ur goin to go thru the best and most important time of ur life! u need as much support as u can get!
what i wud do is quickly tell her bcoz the longer u put it off the worse its guna b and then its over and dun with

Blob

Hey im 19, so older but still scared as anything, I swore i wasnt going to tell my mum for a while cos i was so worried she'd be disapointed in me. But in the end she just gave me a hug and told me i shouldnt of worried about telling her. Good luck

YummyMummy

Im 18, will turn 19 2 months after babys due....when i 1st told my mum she was disappointed wouldnt tlk 2 me, but after i showed her baba on the scan she came round, trust me ur mum will come round once she realises that you want the baby after all shes ur mum, she loves u no matter what.
me n mum use 2 hav a not so good relationship but since she came to terms with me being pregnant were like best friends & has turned into super granma she cants top tellin people...
but if u find it hard to tell her tell maybe a teacher u trust or an adult and get them to sit down with you when u tell ur mum, my friend did that and she said it really helped havin someone else there.
wishin u all the best hunni if u ever wanna talk then jus message me ok hun

x

Danielle

hi im 18 and im just over 6 weeks pregnant. my mom always said to me be careful you no what all moms say. she didnt want me to get pregnant. i told her about a week ago, she was shocked but shes come to terms with it now. if you havnt already id tell your mom it will make you feel better. good luck hun

x_Chanty-x

Thanks to u all for giving me advice but now i need more advice lol. I haven't told my mom yet but i've told my boyfriend. He broke up with me this morning and said he doesn't want anything to do with the baby. Now i'm gonna be a single teen mom with no1 2 turn 2. I can't bring myself to abort this baby and have decided to keep it but now i'm scared at how i'm gonna cope. Did anyone hav 2 cope on their own and if so, how did u cope?

ella170

what a prick, u dont need someone like that around when ur havin a baby anyway.
u need to tell someone who isnt gonna persuade u to have an abortion and confuse u. i told 3 of my best m8s nd theyre all tellin me to kill it, and it just makes things even worse for me.
the way things are goin wiv the bf, i might have to do this on my own too. if u can tell an adult that really cares about u (maybe an aunt or close family friend if u cant tell ur mum), then they will do everything to help u out xx

nikky0907

Well,I'm not with the father but he still supports me...

I can tell you that a lot of girls did everythimg by themselves,built a whole life by themselves and with their kids...

You need to find your way.

mommytashaX2

I was 14 when i got pregnant with my first baby. I was a virgin and got pregnant on my first time!! I wanted to have an abortion out of fear of what my family would think because no one knew I even had a boyfriend, but my mom took me to the doctor when my period was late and we ended up finding out together. She freaked out little by little through out the pregnancy but she was the only one that was truly there for me and made sure that I had everything I needed. I know its scary, but if you want to go through with it, its probably best that you tell your mother now.. She may be disappointed, but thats your mom and she might not respond how you think. You'll get through it!!