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Old Dec 6th, 2009, 13:56 PM   #1
QuintinsMommy
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so do any of you have friends who don't have children, but yet think they knoe EVERYTHING? I was talking about if I want to FF or BF.She was like BFing is best for the child, and I'm like I don't think it fits into my lifestyle and so on and I'm like " a happy mom is best for a child" and shes like "a healthy baby is best for the happiness of a mom"

it just drives me insane, soon as I got pregnant I feel like if I decided ANYTHING about my child she thinks it's wrong.

now her boyfriend is telling me that FF babies die!


 
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Old Dec 6th, 2009, 14:19 PM   #2
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i have a mate exactly like this, as soon as i got pregnant she started saying thats it your never gonna work etc. because her cousin was young when she had a baby and never worked even though shes around 20 now and her mum hasnt worked either but some people dont realise not everyone is like their family,
she also tries telling me things like you have to bath after your waters break cos you cant give birth covered in fishy water i swear she doesnt have a clue,
people who think they know the ins and outs of everything seriously annoy me!
sorry about the rant lol
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Old Dec 6th, 2009, 14:35 PM   #3
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now her boyfriend is telling me that FF babies die!
ive never heard anything so silly in my whole life,
i hate it when people seem to think they know everything when they really dont ! and its none of their buisness if you wanna ff or bf anyways its your baby & your decision only you know whats best.

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Old Dec 6th, 2009, 15:18 PM   #4
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Lol dnt listen 2 ne1 else. Evry1 always thinks they no best but at the end of the day hes ur baby.
Thought ud decided u wanted 2 BF tho? Or wer u just considering it? It is one of those things thats very much personal choice xxxx


 
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Old Dec 6th, 2009, 15:28 PM   #5
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OMG. I would definitly cut her man out of my life. What an absolute tit. Just dont listen to them.

I chose not to BF my son and I dont regret my choice. You have to do what is right for you.

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Old Dec 6th, 2009, 15:48 PM   #6
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omg hun i know how you feel!

i had someone at school with me that was EXACTLY like that, it pissed me off sooo much!


 
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Old Dec 6th, 2009, 16:00 PM   #7
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Wow that's horrible. You have to do whats right for you and your baby and it's not anyone else's place to tell you what you should do, you know whats best.


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Old Dec 6th, 2009, 17:04 PM   #8
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Lol dnt listen 2 ne1 else. Evry1 always thinks they no best but at the end of the day hes ur baby.
Thought ud decided u wanted 2 BF tho? Or wer u just considering it? It is one of those things thats very much personal choice xxxx
I was going to BF but now I'm thinking about doing it only for the 1st little bit .


 
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Old Dec 6th, 2009, 17:09 PM   #9
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Tell her when she grows a baby for 9 months and then trys to BF to come back to you

I tried to BF and it just didnt happen. Aidan is still alive nearly a year later.
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Old Dec 6th, 2009, 17:09 PM   #10
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Tell her when she grows a baby for 9 months and then trys to BF to come back to you

I tried to BF and it just didnt happen. Aidan is still alive nearly a year later.
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