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Mariaa · Dec 5th, 2009, 19:57 PM

As soon as your baby gets put in your arms itll all be okay. Its normal too worry but if he wasnt doing alot and hes left you then he wasnt worth it anyway...
youll be absolutely fine, enjoy your time on your own! curl up in front of the tv in dodgy pjs, watch shit tv and eat what you like

this is your time now.
Do it for you xx

alibaba24 · Dec 5th, 2009, 20:21 PM

your aswel to be on your own than with a lazy ass guy anyway!

you will find your feet dont worry no one really knows before they have there first but things have a way of falling into place

xx

xforuiholdonx · Dec 5th, 2009, 23:03 PM

Stupid MEN. Im telling yaa, god. I really am sry hun :/

tasha41 · Dec 6th, 2009, 00:34 AM

Good riddance! You don't need an extra person around to take care of when you already have yourself and are going to have a baby coming into your life.

I wanted to be married and in my career and in a nice house before having a baby, but I got pregnant at 18 and none of those were accomplished, lol.. and it's just working out somehow. I never held a baby either really until I had my own so I can appreciate your fears there... don't worry! <3 I can't explain what happens after you have a baby, I mean there is an adjustment but you just know how to be with your baby.

luxe191919 · Dec 6th, 2009, 00:47 AM

Didnt want to r&r so i thought id let you know its ok to be scared and your stong dont worry youll find strength to be an amazing mom!and that someone will find you eventually who loves you and will actually help do the dishes and cook and go shopping!Just dont give up!

Midnight_Fairy · Dec 6th, 2009, 06:04 AM

You will be fine hun. You sound pretty sorted out and sounds like you will be fine. xx

Emma.Gi · Dec 6th, 2009, 06:37 AM

Sorry to hear that but from the sounds of things, you're better off rid because when the baby is here you'll be picking up after two children.

Staceiz19 · Dec 6th, 2009, 06:49 AM

hey
i had my baby at 16 and i had the dimwit father still involved and he sounds exactly like yours except he use to hit me and stuff and it just traumatized my girl so honestly you are better off without him. When i finally woke up to myself and got ride of him it was REALLY scary for me being alone with a baby but you know what once you get the hang of it which doesnt take long its not scary at all , im not gona lie to u its hard sometimes but the amazingness of it outweighs that

And im now engaged to my partner who treats my baby just like his own, goes to work, cooks sometimes, helps around the house and is just soo sweet and we are ttc #2 so you will be just fine... there are still decent guys out there for later on down the track

Goodluck chic x

veganmum2be · Dec 6th, 2009, 06:51 AM

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alibaba24 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2009 Location: edinburgh Posts: 3,489	your aswel to be on your own than with a lazy ass guy anyway! you will find your feet dont worry no one really knows before they have there first but things have a way of falling into place xx

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xforuiholdonx Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: East Coast Posts: 1,175	Stupid MEN. Im telling yaa, god. I really am sry hun :/

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tasha41 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Hamilton, Canada Posts: 23,921	Good riddance! You don't need an extra person around to take care of when you already have yourself and are going to have a baby coming into your life. I wanted to be married and in my career and in a nice house before having a baby, but I got pregnant at 18 and none of those were accomplished, lol.. and it's just working out somehow. I never held a baby either really until I had my own so I can appreciate your fears there... don't worry! <3 I can't explain what happens after you have a baby, I mean there is an adjustment but you just know how to be with your baby.

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luxe191919 Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 228	Didnt want to r&r so i thought id let you know its ok to be scared and your stong dont worry youll find strength to be an amazing mom!and that someone will find you eventually who loves you and will actually help do the dishes and cook and go shopping!Just dont give up!

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Dec 5th, 2009, 19:57 PM	#2
Mariaa Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: WINDSOR, south east Posts: 427	As soon as your baby gets put in your arms itll all be okay. Its normal too worry but if he wasnt doing alot and hes left you then he wasnt worth it anyway... youll be absolutely fine, enjoy your time on your own! curl up in front of the tv in dodgy pjs, watch shit tv and eat what you like this is your time now. Do it for you xx

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Midnight_Fairy Other BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: South Coast UK Posts: 17,279	You will be fine hun. You sound pretty sorted out and sounds like you will be fine. xx

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Dec 6th, 2009, 06:37 AM	#8
Emma.Gi Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: England. Posts: 1,439	Sorry to hear that but from the sounds of things, you're better off rid because when the baby is here you'll be picking up after two children.

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Dec 6th, 2009, 06:49 AM	#9
Staceiz19 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Melbourne, Australia Posts: 468	hey i had my baby at 16 and i had the dimwit father still involved and he sounds exactly like yours except he use to hit me and stuff and it just traumatized my girl so honestly you are better off without him. When i finally woke up to myself and got ride of him it was REALLY scary for me being alone with a baby but you know what once you get the hang of it which doesnt take long its not scary at all , im not gona lie to u its hard sometimes but the amazingness of it outweighs that And im now engaged to my partner who treats my baby just like his own, goes to work, cooks sometimes, helps around the house and is just soo sweet and we are ttc #2 so you will be just fine... there are still decent guys out there for later on down the track Goodluck chic x

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