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Emma.Gi · Dec 5th, 2009, 18:15 PM

Babe, sod her, she's only doing this because she knows it will upset you, so just prove you're the bigger person and that it doesn't upset you. You loved him whether he was abusive or not and it will be hard to get over him but you're doing well, don't let her belittle you.

Mariaa · Dec 5th, 2009, 18:18 PM

im sorry babe, as long as you know your not hung up on him ignore everyone else.
I just had my first night out in 5 months and since i found out about LO, and went out to be civil with OH and he spent every minute of the hour and a half gawping at sluts with too much make with no clothes on.
Even tho i was sat there carrying his child.
C*NT.
ive never felt so fat and gross in my life. and although i pity the fact that all those girls have nothing better to do that look like sluts i feel so much tonihgt that keeping this baby was wrong. and that i do want it but i dont. if its keeping a part of him i wish it was just gone.
maybe the more i say i dont want it itll dissappear.
i feel so disgusting.

katekatekate · Dec 5th, 2009, 20:01 PM

She sounds like an utter dick. Like the worst type of person. She's such a Jeremy Kyle case. She sounds completely jealous that you're carrying his child and it sounds like she's the one who's in love with him. Can you believe this kind of shit is coming from someone who's a mother? It's a joke.
You sound like you're doing really well. Just keep your head up high and ignore her. You have much better things to do. x

Mariaa · Dec 5th, 2009, 20:25 PM

i agree with kate... you havnt even pushed your lil man out yet and you already know your a better mum that her! x

KrisKitten · Dec 5th, 2009, 20:40 PM

Some people seem to take pleasure in upsetting others, usually because they r bitter about something themselves.
She sounds vicious and sad and u just have to remind urself that what she is saying is not true, and she (and him for that matter) are not worth getting upset over.
When i was younger and broke up with my ex he spread some nasty rumors about me and i was getting hate mail (emails), texts and calls for months and months from him and ex 'friends'. I ended up rlly depressd nd even after it stopped, to this day i still gett the occasional flare up. Its horrible n no matter how much u try n convince urself theyr talkin b****x they stil manage 2 make u doubt urself.
All u can do is try n rise above it, n get reassurance from pple who care about u.
And at a guess im sure ther r many more that honestly care 4 u than rlly give a s**t about her #

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xforuiholdonx · Dec 5th, 2009, 22:47 PM

Ah hun Im sorry shes being such a BITCHHHHHH. bitch.bitch.bitch.bitch.bitch. Let me find her and I'll go all new york physco on her asssssss. Hahahahaha. Sorry not in a good mood and this definately tipped me. You dont need this nonsense and its a good thing your ARE NOT with him. That wouldnt be a healty environment for you or your child. Get her number blocked or just go all pregnant hormone on her.

. We are aloud to do that ya know. lol

jelix9408 · Dec 5th, 2009, 22:56 PM

aw sweetie im sorry someone so stupid would try and ruin your progress ..
try your best to not pay any attention to her .. shes only trying to get you upset because she feels to sorry for herself.
seems to me you sound way more mature then she is .. and youll be 100x a better mom then she is!!
maybe you should try and get your number changed. you dont need that nonsense to stress over!

if you ever need someone to talk to just message me!

hope things get better!

tasha41 · Dec 6th, 2009, 00:40 AM

What a bitch. Why is she messing with you? It's not even like he's back with her and she's jealous or something right. I don't understand why girls do that, it just makes it clear she's not over it and still thinks about him/keeps tabs on him/cares LOL. Shame on her, you don't get over a relationship that fast, and it's not as simple as the 2 of you breaking up, it's you breaking up with the father of your child...

Just ignore her hun. Keep making progress and remember you're better off without him then! <3

luxe191919 · Dec 6th, 2009, 00:45 AM

You know her number since she is texting you id call your phone company and ask to get the number blocked from calling or texting or any contact with you I did that with a freind of my FOB a year ago when he was being a jerk and havent heard from him since!

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Dec 5th, 2009, 18:15 PM	#2
Emma.Gi Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: England. Posts: 1,439	Babe, sod her, she's only doing this because she knows it will upset you, so just prove you're the bigger person and that it doesn't upset you. You loved him whether he was abusive or not and it will be hard to get over him but you're doing well, don't let her belittle you.

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Dec 5th, 2009, 18:18 PM	#3
Mariaa Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: WINDSOR, south east Posts: 427	im sorry babe, as long as you know your not hung up on him ignore everyone else. I just had my first night out in 5 months and since i found out about LO, and went out to be civil with OH and he spent every minute of the hour and a half gawping at sluts with too much make with no clothes on. Even tho i was sat there carrying his child. C*NT. ive never felt so fat and gross in my life. and although i pity the fact that all those girls have nothing better to do that look like sluts i feel so much tonihgt that keeping this baby was wrong. and that i do want it but i dont. if its keeping a part of him i wish it was just gone. maybe the more i say i dont want it itll dissappear. i feel so disgusting.

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Dec 5th, 2009, 20:01 PM	#4
katekatekate Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Leeds, UK. Posts: 760	She sounds like an utter dick. Like the worst type of person. She's such a Jeremy Kyle case. She sounds completely jealous that you're carrying his child and it sounds like she's the one who's in love with him. Can you believe this kind of shit is coming from someone who's a mother? It's a joke. You sound like you're doing really well. Just keep your head up high and ignore her. You have much better things to do. x

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Dec 5th, 2009, 20:25 PM	#5
Mariaa Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: WINDSOR, south east Posts: 427	i agree with kate... you havnt even pushed your lil man out yet and you already know your a better mum that her! x

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Dec 5th, 2009, 20:40 PM	#6
KrisKitten Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: London Posts: 4,380	Some people seem to take pleasure in upsetting others, usually because they r bitter about something themselves. She sounds vicious and sad and u just have to remind urself that what she is saying is not true, and she (and him for that matter) are not worth getting upset over. When i was younger and broke up with my ex he spread some nasty rumors about me and i was getting hate mail (emails), texts and calls for months and months from him and ex 'friends'. I ended up rlly depressd nd even after it stopped, to this day i still gett the occasional flare up. Its horrible n no matter how much u try n convince urself theyr talkin b**x they stil manage 2 make u doubt urself. All u can do is try n rise above it, n get reassurance from pple who care about u. And at a guess im sure ther r many more that honestly care 4 u than rlly give a st about her # xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Dec 5th, 2009, 22:47 PM	#7
xforuiholdonx Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: East Coast Posts: 1,175	Ah hun Im sorry shes being such a BITCHHHHHH. bitch.bitch.bitch.bitch.bitch. Let me find her and I'll go all new york physco on her asssssss. Hahahahaha. Sorry not in a good mood and this definately tipped me. You dont need this nonsense and its a good thing your ARE NOT with him. That wouldnt be a healty environment for you or your child. Get her number blocked or just go all pregnant hormone on her. . We are aloud to do that ya know. lol

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Dec 5th, 2009, 22:56 PM	#8
jelix9408 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: hollywood florida Posts: 820	aw sweetie im sorry someone so stupid would try and ruin your progress .. try your best to not pay any attention to her .. shes only trying to get you upset because she feels to sorry for herself. seems to me you sound way more mature then she is .. and youll be 100x a better mom then she is!! maybe you should try and get your number changed. you dont need that nonsense to stress over! if you ever need someone to talk to just message me! hope things get better!

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Dec 6th, 2009, 00:40 AM	#9
tasha41 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Hamilton, Canada Posts: 23,921	What a bitch. Why is she messing with you? It's not even like he's back with her and she's jealous or something right. I don't understand why girls do that, it just makes it clear she's not over it and still thinks about him/keeps tabs on him/cares LOL. Shame on her, you don't get over a relationship that fast, and it's not as simple as the 2 of you breaking up, it's you breaking up with the father of your child... Just ignore her hun. Keep making progress and remember you're better off without him then! <3

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Dec 6th, 2009, 00:45 AM	#10
luxe191919 Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 228	You know her number since she is texting you id call your phone company and ask to get the number blocked from calling or texting or any contact with you I did that with a freind of my FOB a year ago when he was being a jerk and havent heard from him since!

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