Nov 30th, 2009, 10:24 AM
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| Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member  Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: UK Posts: 780 | Freaking out!!! So i decided because i havent got a clue what the actual birth (as in when the baby is coming out) will look like i thought id take a look on the internet at some birthing videos cos im guessing they will probably show you them at your antenatal classes and i didnt really fancy sitting in a room full of strangers and watching a film like that for the first time cos i know its going to be pretty horrendous and i kinda wanna look like i know what im doing. OH MY GOD Im so scared. Ahhhhh all the stretching and the pulling and slimey stuff and did i not mention THE STRETCHING!? Im sorry i know im over acting abit and everyone has to do it but its terrified me it really has. I mean of course ive thought about labour and i no its not going to be very nice but its only just REALLY hit me  Does everyone have a freak out like this at some point? Ive been pretty good so far but now im just really scared  xxx |
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Nov 30th, 2009, 10:27 AM
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| Other Active BnB Member  Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 32,048 | I didn't watch a video untill after, and this is why. Don't worry at all, labour is the most wonderful thing you will ever experience. Just go in with an open mind, know what you want and what you don't, and keep reminding yourself your baby will be here soon and keep telling yourself the pain will get worse (so you learn to cope with the pain you're in at the time) Good luck  |
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Nov 30th, 2009, 10:32 AM
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| Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: UK Posts: 780 | Quote:
I know it'll be amazing and wonderfull when i actuly have my baby and i can deal with the pain as long as i cant see whats going on down there i'll be fine lol. Its just the thought of your erhem lady parts stretching like that  bring water to your eyes lmao. I'll be fine though! xxx | |
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Nov 30th, 2009, 10:34 AM
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| Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member  Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: WINDSOR, south east Posts: 427 | OMG you made me watch one now ARRRGGGGGGGHHHH  |
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Nov 30th, 2009, 10:35 AM
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| Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: UK Posts: 780 | Quote:
DONT DO IT!!!!! Cover your eyes lmao! xxx | |
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Nov 30th, 2009, 10:48 AM
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| Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: WINDSOR, south east Posts: 427 | |
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Nov 30th, 2009, 11:53 AM
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| Mum (Mom) BnB Addict  Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: London Posts: 4,380 | Quote:
 :PAnd dw, strangely enough (i know this is hard to believe coz i totally didnt b4) its the contractions that hurt more than the actual pushing. Dont get me wrong, it hurts, but that bit that looks really scary is actually the most productive bit. And ull be soooo proud of urself once u meet bubs and no that u went through all that specially for him/her to have a life. he moment after ur baby is born is amazing , try not to worry too much about the bit leading up  xxxxxx | |
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Nov 30th, 2009, 11:59 AM
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| Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member  Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Canada , Ontario Posts: 1,820 | |
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Nov 30th, 2009, 12:04 PM
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| Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 32,048 | I thought the pushing hurt 5 million times more than the contractions. I didn't have any pain relief and I felt the "ring of fire!" Boy-o-boy does it burn  |
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Nov 30th, 2009, 12:13 PM
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| Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: London Posts: 4,380 | Quote:
i only pushed 4 10/15 mns - then agen i totally stand by rasberry leaf tea 4 that xx edt: lol actually wat did hurt tupidly is that i was a lil 2 tight nd struggled a bit with the final big pus so the doc had to run his finger around bubs head inside to like ease him out - now THAT burned *shudder* | |
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