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annawrigley · Dec 21st, 2009, 07:42 AM

he probably just picked it out of the blue like you said

idk if its too soon, if it feels right go for it but august is still a pretty long way off, just see how you go til then

if you still want to then great!

if you dont want to right then you can always postpone it
theres no rush

xx

KrisKitten · Dec 21st, 2009, 14:44 PM

In honesty i wouldnt rush into it. Despite the fact that my parents and each of my auntys and uncles have remarried at least once im a firm believer that u should only marry someone if it is what u want for LIFE, i would hate to go through a divorce. Marrying is saying that you and ur partner are one whole person, each of u a half and i know that not a commitment i want to make untill i am as sure as i could possibly be that we are both fully committed to that idea. Even tho i love cav, i cant imagine ever being with ne1 else and we have bin together nearly 2 yrs now, its still ONLY 2 years, a long time atm but in the grand scheme of things not really.
That said its totaly ur decision, go 4 watever makes u happy

and congrats!!

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Maddiee · Dec 21st, 2009, 21:49 PM

yeah going through a divorce is painful enough without adding kids to the scenario. i can see myself spending the rest on my life with him and this is going to sound cheesy but i can see a better future for my family with him in it, i guess it depends on what he sees in his future and if i'm in it.

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annawrigley Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: York, UK Posts: 10,807	he probably just picked it out of the blue like you said idk if its too soon, if it feels right go for it but august is still a pretty long way off, just see how you go til then if you still want to then great! if you dont want to right then you can always postpone it theres no rush xx

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KrisKitten Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: London Posts: 4,380	In honesty i wouldnt rush into it. Despite the fact that my parents and each of my auntys and uncles have remarried at least once im a firm believer that u should only marry someone if it is what u want for LIFE, i would hate to go through a divorce. Marrying is saying that you and ur partner are one whole person, each of u a half and i know that not a commitment i want to make untill i am as sure as i could possibly be that we are both fully committed to that idea. Even tho i love cav, i cant imagine ever being with ne1 else and we have bin together nearly 2 yrs now, its still ONLY 2 years, a long time atm but in the grand scheme of things not really. That said its totaly ur decision, go 4 watever makes u happy and congrats!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Maddiee Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Australia Posts: 803	yeah going through a divorce is painful enough without adding kids to the scenario. i can see myself spending the rest on my life with him and this is going to sound cheesy but i can see a better future for my family with him in it, i guess it depends on what he sees in his future and if i'm in it.

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